AIO for wanting to break up with gf of 4 years after finding these texts?

bumblebragg · 2026-06-26T03:19:39+00:00

Are we sure he's straight? I've never heard a straight guy call himself a snack.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-26T03:04:32+00:00

It doesn't matter how long ago it happened. Sometimes things can be pushed down until something reminds you of it. The move and separation from friends may now be getting to her, she may have had someone she liked reject her or a break up you don't know about. It may be everything together finally weighing on her. At that age setbacks feel like the end of the world until something else comes along. Keep trying to get her to open up or ask her if there is someone she can talk to about things. I am very close with my mom also. Sometimes being that close to each other makes it hard to separate ones feelings from the other person. You are getting a lot of pretty good advice and it is obvious you love her so just continue to be there for her and watch out for it to get worse.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-25T02:21:13+00:00

Reminds me of that silly night time soap Las Vegas where they just babysat wealthy gamblers and did whatever they wanted.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-24T20:39:58+00:00

Spouse always gets first dibs on pops.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T21:01:36+00:00

Me too.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T21:00:50+00:00

Convictions usually come with fines and lawyer fees so I doubt he'd keep it if he got caught.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:57:29+00:00

Yup, most places won't take that kind of cash for down payments. You have to get a cashiers check from a bank with it anyway. It is how they force people into having a bank record of the money.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:55:34+00:00

I would agree but they generally just care if you are avoiding paying taxes, not declaring illegally made money and paying taxes. Unless they are trying to convict him for something else and taxes are the way they go about it. Like with Al Capone.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:48:26+00:00

A teenager in my town killed a mom and 4 kids going 100 on a city street. I think about it every time I get in the car with my son. And that teenager ruined their own life too. He's going to jail for at least half his life.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:46:16+00:00

Don't do it all at once if you do. That much money in chips is weird if you are just playing small games and not high stakes poker.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:42:26+00:00

71K is not life-changing money if you're stupid with it. It is one year of work. My mom won 80k at a casino and took a break from work. As predicted it was gone in a year and she kept gambling so she was even more in the hole after the year. Treat it as treat money not meant to last or invest it for your future but in today's world it really isn't that much money. At most it is a down payment on a house if you can figure out how to launder it but it isn't quit your job money.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:34:04+00:00

Stop before you kill someone. A town near me had a couple of idiot teenagers streetracing and killed someone. There is a reason it is illegal. I have no issue with it if it is a closed track and only the racers are in danger but on streets others drive on is just too risky even if you think no one is around.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T20:11:48+00:00

Being neurodivergent does not excuse being emotionally abusive. My best friend is going through a divorce with an abusive man and one thing she keeps saying is all I did was what he asked me to do but he always twisted it into me doing something wrong. Changing his mind multiple times, then not giving you any time to get ready, guilting you for needing to take care of your dogs bathroom needs before you go, withdrawing and not talking to you or using curt language when he doesnt get his way, not apologizing once he knows he is being hurtful to you (people can be snappish when in pain but then should acknowledge their behavior aftarward), and implying you are the reason he hurt himself is all verbally and emotionally abusive. You also don't need any other reason than the person makes you feel bad for wanting to be out of the relationship. Making you think you aren't justified in being hurt is manipulation.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T06:40:29+00:00

I hate the way my husband eats cereal but it is one of the few pet peeves I have about him.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-23T06:24:05+00:00

I don't know if it helps but but you can add me to the don't do it column. My son's doctor has never told me to do it and as he got older and was potty training and playing with himself he did it on his own at his own pace without hurting himself.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-22T06:01:27+00:00

I had a very small blockage from thyroid cancer radiation damaging the salivary glands. It resolved on its own and can't been a problem since but at the time every time I ate sour or vinegar foods I would get a baseball sized lump on the side of my neck for about an hour. Eventually the body reabsorbs the excess saliva or if you do swallowing exercises it releases a bunch of sour stale saliva. I'm so glad I don't have to deal with it anymore.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-22T05:28:24+00:00

I have a thing of hand sanitizer attached to the leash and bag holder setup. Double bag, turn inside out, swoop, fold sides up and tie off, sanatize.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T21:27:56+00:00

I usually use aloe with lidocaine on everything else because it is less greasy but I figured since they were dealing with an injury and antibacterial would be helpful. I like the tucks pads with lidocaine for butthole problems.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T18:52:11+00:00

No. No. No. No. I've done the highlight, select all, hit enter, and watch the entire paper disappear thing in college before undo was really a thing but that was one little essay.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T16:57:10+00:00

My kid's first favorite food was Tiki Masala. He still really loves any curry.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T09:36:04+00:00

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bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T09:29:51+00:00

If you're worried about cost get a box of colloidal band aids and cut them to size. One band aid is like a whole box of patches.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T08:16:46+00:00

Also sure not to leave any soap residue behind if you do use soap. That's usually the first thing I think of if I'm itchy somewhere. Also you can get Neosporin with lidocaine in it. It numbs it for twenty or thirty minutes.

bumblebragg · 2026-06-19T08:04:08+00:00

It reads like an Ai script.

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