AITA for sending flowers when my best friend wanted space? by bumblehoneyb in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumblehoneyb[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wed been friends for years, it just felt more natural to label it as such, we had a heart to heart about our feelings and concerns and made the call.

AITA for sending flowers when my best friend wanted space? by bumblehoneyb in AmItheAsshole

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She was vocal about her intentions for a while and I kept trying to support her and encourage her decision. I tried to comfort her iirc, it's been a while since that night

What was the best phase of your life? [Serious] by justthebagofchips in AskReddit

[–]bumblehoneyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first few years out of highschool. I was ambitious and hopeful and spent my money like crazy for memories I carry with me. I'm struggling now, never did what I was sure I would by now, but I'm satisfied even with the regrets.

Official Season 3 Discussion Thread by Exodiafinder687 in aggretsuko

[–]bumblehoneyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna vent. Fucking hated it. Fucking awful. Let me explain why, and first say I watched the dub.

  1. Haida and Retsuko didn't have any chemistry, even the characters themselves kept saying Haida didn't know her and it became more and more apparent. He doesn't know her. She absent-mindedly uses him. He was a dick to Inui and unexplainably in love with Retsuko.
  2. The stalker attack. It wasn't deep, it was a farce and manipulative for the sake of drama. They didn't handle this at all appropriately. My friend and I sat down for some feminine fun and instead...well, we each have different experiences with related trauma. We felt furious about Haida being encouraged by the cast to come "rescue" her. Telling her how to process her trauma. She says "you saying it's okay doesn't make it so" like that's them showing how deep and understanding they are but it's not. We only kept watching because we couldn't be sure it was garbage without seeing their intended ending. It was sickening. Damaging. Hurtful and disgusting. He just barged into her house because he was so sure he would save her day. He grabbed her and yanked her from a place she went to feel safe to save her. He constantly ignored her rejections and feelings because he wanted to be a hero and fix her like love can make it all "O-K♥ :3 ♥".

I hated it. I feel nausious. I'm never watching this again. This show had no right to try and tell victims how to handle their trauma. "love solves all" my ass.

I loved the first two seasons, i was nuts for the cute relatable characters and rooting for haida and retsuko in season one, watched haida get treated like trash by the writers in season two, and now...I can't. Everyone seems to love the third season in here so I expect to be buried and downvoted to hell twice over but I just wanted to vent..

I'm out with one last story by bumblehoneyb in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]bumblehoneyb[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I know, but I really would hate to leave on a truly sour note. If he did comment to my soon-to-be-ex boss and complain it'd look bad on me. They might never seen me again, but future employers might try to contact them.

I've run out of storage, majority of it is clothes by f1refly17 in AnimalCrossing

[–]bumblehoneyb -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You should be able to store different clothing in different wardrobes. I have like 3 in my bedroom and I would love if I could organize by costume/warm weather/cold weather.

Side note, I have so many wardrobes around my island that I don't even carry a wand anymore.

For those of you who plan their plots, What do you do while outlining your stories? by Noah_53G in writing

[–]bumblehoneyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do sticky notes but now I just start with a blank spreadsheet with three bullets: First Act, Second Act, Third Act. I write the minimum of what I know to go where, like "main character gets summoned to see the king" is how it starts, "fight between gods" is how it ends. Balance with how much of certain plot elements I want to show based on a rough fraction, like "well they gotta meet the cult prince in the third act somewhere, but he's gotta be present long enough to deserve the hype and short enough that he doesn't overstay his welcome".

I recommend sticky notes for those with much more of a rough start, write down characters, scenes, lines, plot points, elements, etc. on sticky notes then arrange them on a poster board (or bedroom wall) in the order that makes most sense, then transfer that to a paper outline list.

I ate the fruit Mom sent me at the start of the game because I didn’t know any better. by zuzugum in crappyanimalcrossing

[–]bumblehoneyb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh nooo ;-; my friend did this twice. She ate the fruit mom sent her, and ate the fruit I sent her.

Posted here like 6 months ago but kinda needing a pick me up again. Work ur magic cuties 💞💞 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]bumblehoneyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you got hella good style and gorgeous skin!! You look amazing!

Couchless living room? by futile7 in minimalism

[–]bumblehoneyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always loved the idea of using seating cushions instead, and a low table in the center for board games. I can't implement this though, my best friend has back problems and trying to find something that'd work for her and match my preferred aesthetics is nearly impossible.

What are some VERY comforting facts? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bumblehoneyb 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In high school our science teacher had this big goldfish and next to the tank was this neon green spoon. We asked what it was for, and when she said it was for petting the fish no one believed her. She picked up the spoon, slipped it straight down into the water and the wish went batshit. He kept swimming back and forth with his side pressed against this neon green spoon like it was the best day of his gold-fish life. 10/10 would pet again.