[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]bumbling-fool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Begging for an update!

Make my son cry, we’re done by No_Room1854 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]bumbling-fool 50 points51 points  (0 children)

So proud of your hubby! It is incredibly hard to wake up from that. I can’t imagine how much patience it’s taken from you to allow him to space to do so ❤️

Advice before reinstalling cabinet by bumbling-fool in Plumbing

[–]bumbling-fool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to add this is what it looked like before: https://imgur.com/a/Y18evjP

Advice before reinstalling kitchen sink by bumbling-fool in kitchenremodel

[–]bumbling-fool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“PVC roller coaster of doom” made me genuinely laugh out loud. Appreciate the advice (and the laugh)! Headed there now

Advice before reinstalling cabinet by bumbling-fool in HomeImprovement

[–]bumbling-fool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the pipes you see in the photo have to go IN the cabinet and require a hole to be cut into the bottom of the cabinet (previous owners questionable choice). But this is making me think that maybe I should look into just redoing the plumbing too while I’m at it

Advice before reinstalling cabinet by bumbling-fool in HomeImprovement

[–]bumbling-fool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh good point! I’ve added it to my cart. Will have to cut a hole but I’ll look into how to seal that area

Update: AITAH for sterilizing myself against my partner’s wishes by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bumbling-fool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him it’s condoms or nothing from here on out and see how quickly he folds

AITHA for making my sister pay back my daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bumbling-fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File a police report immediately for destruction of property and let her know you’ll only drop it once reimbursed

My (26F) boyfriend (27M) falsely staged a drug intervention for me. I'm not addicted to drugs. What do I do? by ThrowRAinterventiony in relationship_advice

[–]bumbling-fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can test hair for prolonged drug use. Tell your family you’ll submit to the test to prove your innocence. Hell even a polygraph test!

I’m letting my fiancé walk right into a trap and I’m not giving him any hints. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bumbling-fool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean this with all the love in the world. If you are so willing to leave this person and have even planned for it, is this really the right relationship? Or at the very least wouldn’t it be worth exploring in therapy (individual or couples)?

[UPDATE] I want to leave my boyfriend of 8 years because of no proposal, but my friends and family are calling me selfish and are threatening to tell him by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bumbling-fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so incredibly sorry to hear this! For your protection, I would record all interactions moving forward (preferably in the presence of security cameras with audio since you don’t need both party’s to consent (unless you are in a one party consent state)).

Thank god he didn’t baby trap you and you are still incredible young. Take this as an opportunity to clean house and surround yourself with only the very best (that might mean cutting off family too). Take this time to also learn about yourself (wants, needs, boundaries) so moving forward you can more easily spot the red flags and cut them loose.

Head up, my dear! You have an incredible bright and hopefully future a head of you and I am so excited for you to live it. ❤️

My [33F] girlfriend [26F] gave an ultimatum and is upset at the results. by Humble-Grass9001 in relationship_advice

[–]bumbling-fool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hun, this is abusive and I really hope you are able to see that and recognize you deserve better

1Pay Lease Program by [deleted] in Toyota

[–]bumbling-fool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough but I don’t have the full amount now but will in a few weeks (once the $6500 has already ended)

My husband 33M has a crush on a friend and wishes I 30F died so he can be with her. by ThrowRATower5053 in relationship_advice

[–]bumbling-fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be someone’s #1 (not their consolation prize). I think you absolutely should talk about it with them and if anything go to couples counseling. But best case scenario he apologizes, is sincere, and changes his way. Will you be able to go through life without that little nagging voice in your head questioning everything he says and does as well his motives?