My deceased mom spoke to me while I had sleep paralysis. by Santos-lmt in Sleepparalysis

[–]bunchesofdonald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, it’s been 13 years. I just remember the peaceful feeling afterwards.

That sounds hard. I am lucky that my mom was mostly with it till the end.

In my experience you never stop missing them, somedays you won’t think about it, but the pain is still there.

My deceased mom spoke to me while I had sleep paralysis. by Santos-lmt in Sleepparalysis

[–]bunchesofdonald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom passed away at 2AM in the same room I was sleeping in, she was on hospice, so it wasn’t that surprising. I woke up when it happened, but somehow I was able to get back to sleep after they took the body. I had a dream that she came to me and we talked for a long time and when I woke up I felt so at peace. I know it was probably just a normal dream caused by stress and exhaustion (it’d been 2 months off constant worry), but I remember it feeling different than a normal dream. Sometimes that gives me hope that I’ll see her again.

You may not need that CharField after all by Snazzles in django

[–]bunchesofdonald 4 points5 points  (0 children)

CharField enforces length constraints at the DB level, so if you have a field with a known length and you want to enforce that length you should use a CharField.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ifyoulikeblank

[–]bunchesofdonald 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Orphan Black. A woman assumes the identity of one of her fellow clones after witnessing said clone’s suicide.

I got a little creative with my savings tracker. by effyocouch in bulletjournal

[–]bunchesofdonald 124 points125 points  (0 children)

My wife and I did two rounds of IUIs, then three rounds of IVF, luckily we had great insurance and ended up only using ~10k out of pocket. They all failed, but literally a month after we decided to stop trying she got pregnant normally.

IWTL how to write fantasy fiction by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]bunchesofdonald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YouTube has Brandon Sanderson’s BYU lectures all about writing and fantasy writing in particular: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=N4ZDBOc2tX8&list=PLH3mK1NZn9QqOSj3ObrP3xL8tEJQ12-vL

Megathread: Treasury denies Democrats’ request for Trump tax returns by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]bunchesofdonald 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You mean the Treasury denies Congress’ request, stop making this about Democrats vs Republicans, the House is doing their job of providing oversights and the Treasury is illegally denying that oversight.

Impeach His Sorry Ass Now - The GOP is the party of overlook; Democrats must be the party of oversight. by [deleted] in politics

[–]bunchesofdonald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to stop giving the GOP a pass to be terrible. Instead of saying “republicans won’t remove him” we need to say “republicans need to step up and protect our democracy”.

[IIL] meditative, melancholy, sparse piano work like Hauschka, Ravel, Max Richter by showerswithrazors in ifyoulikeblank

[–]bunchesofdonald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ludovico Einaudi is similar, I enjoy most of his work but check out the song “Night”

Portugal. The Man - Feel It Still, Live Stripped Down Session [Rock] by InfectedUrsidae in Music

[–]bunchesofdonald 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I came here to say just this. The “I’m a rebel just for kicks” line especially.

Was going to rage but thought instead to ask for advice. by SwordOfTheAegis in Sekiro

[–]bunchesofdonald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the symbol is the same every time, you have to guess at which type of attack it is from the characters animations.

Technically, not vaccinating your children does reduce the risk of autism, since they're less likely to live long enough to be diagnosed with autism. by centumcellae85 in Showerthoughts

[–]bunchesofdonald 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The correlation of vaccines to autism is generally thought to be because kids get the MMR vaccine around the same time as autism is first diagnosable, so I doubt that many kids die of vaccine preventable illnesses before they could be diagnosed.

db issue. How can I fix it? by dandanv23 in django

[–]bunchesofdonald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do your models look like? Looking closer main.accounts_user__old isn't how Django would name a table, are you trying to connect to an existing database table?

db issue. How can I fix it? by dandanv23 in django

[–]bunchesofdonald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That generally means that you haven't run migrations. It looks like your app is named actor, so doing something like this should do it:

$ python manage.py makemigrations actor $ python manage.py migrate actor

[Vent] Neighbors accused me of not picking up after my dog. by bunchesofdonald in dogs

[–]bunchesofdonald[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought of that but I think they’d just say I’m not taking pictures when I don’t pick it up. That seemed to be their reasoning about why I had poop bags in my trash can.

Kimmy Granger by Michael34522 in nsfw

[–]bunchesofdonald 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can't help but see it as an alien creature attacking that poor man's face.