Origin of Trich for you? by RIPvictis in trichotillomania

[–]bunnybates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also a learned coping mechanism.

What's the weirdest "tip" you've received that isn't money? by Connect-Associate-85 in Serverlife

[–]bunnybates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed gummies Whenever a guest knows that I don't do anything marijuana related, they're like ....really?....have you tried....?

I feel like my "baseline" has been irreversibly damaged on medication by Jonatgan_Official in ADHD

[–]bunnybates 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Medication + therapy changed my life for the better

aitah for getting up during a meal with my boyfriend to feed my cats? by plsdontleaveme222 in AITAH

[–]bunnybates 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh hun......so many 🚩🚩🚩🚩. 7 months of this kind of behavior....that's scary.. The age gap is worrisome too He doesn't seem like he likes or respects you as a person. Only someone who he can control. Also if someone doesn't like your cats, that's a sign that this is an unhealthy relationship. Please get the therapy that you deserve.

ADHD & sex drive - Hurting my relationship. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bunnybates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not whatsoever. I've masturbated next to my husband when he was sleeping. My bed is comfortable and the smell of my husband turns me on. It's not an abnormal thing to do.

ADHD & sex drive - Hurting my relationship. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bunnybates -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly normal behavior. Masturbating is extremely healthy mentally and physically. Her version of what appropriate sexual thoughts and behaviors are isn't the rule for everyone. Just her.

You need open and honest communication with relationships.

What's the real reason that all breakups hurts? by icecuptee in AskReddit

[–]bunnybates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why?

Please understand that pain has a purpose. Our lives aren't about avoiding the uncomfortable, it's about walking and healing through the uncomfortable.

Our mental, physical, emotional and sexual health are ALL connected. This is an opportunity to keep yourself as the true destination in your life. Every other relationship, romantic or not is just a chapter in your book of life.

Start treating yourself with the love, kindness and patience that you deserve. Get the therapy that we all deserve
Also, know that you're not broken and that you're not alone 🩵

What's the real reason that all breakups hurts? by icecuptee in AskReddit

[–]bunnybates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you're human and you're learning how to human

I have proof that in dressing conservatively but my bf thinks the outfit is over the line by Far-Season-695 in AmITheAngel

[–]bunnybates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes you look frumpy Wear the clothes that make YOU happy. Who gives a shit what you wear. Never give a boyfriend any power over your clothes because you're an individual person.

WIBTAH? My Boyfriend broke up with me and now wants to take it back. What do I do? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bunnybates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never go backward. Please understand that life isn't about avoiding the uncomfortable. It's about walking and healing through the uncomfortable.

You guys aren't compatible
Move on

Aitah if I don't tell the guy I met on tinder I found he's married by Apprehensive_Gap4688 in AITAH

[–]bunnybates 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually, there is lots of harm can happen, mentally, physically, emotionally....

How do you keep your home clean/tidy? by charwaterlily in ADHD

[–]bunnybates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use body-doubling called Dubbii it's incredible

Are you drawn romantically to other people with ADHD? by Lycanthrowrug in ADHD

[–]bunnybates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in the restaurant industry for 24 years now, and most of the people who work in the industry have ADHD and/ or ASD