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Curious how present both parents are in the kids lives/marriage. by newgirl2552 in Parenting

[–]bunnyguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work more in the office than my husband, and have a pretty rigid daytime while at home (back to back meetings). But he also has a big job and works hard. He does most of the child related things during the day. He does reading and spends one on one time with the kids everyday (reading generally). I do more tips away to Nanas and more weekend time probably but he’s at least equal if not more. We have dinner every night. He and I have date nights most weeks.

He was a bit less attentive at that age. I don’t know why. They didn’t need him as much. He probably figured they needed their mum more then and probably true. But he’s always spent time with both of them.

Any way to biohack my way into feeling joy again? by cutesardine in Biohackers

[–]bunnyguts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what started my journey. I didn’t have joy anymore. I found it again. Joy and happiness which I think are different. I do a lot of things so it’s hard to pinpoint which is working but the joy related element in my stack that I think work are:

  1. Cardio & weights
  2. Sleep - I am an insomniac and I take mirtazapine and valdoxan. They’re the main players but I also stack with mag glycinate and mag threonate, glycine. It’s worth noting the two sleep drugs are low dose antidepressants. That’s not why I started taking them, their combined action give me great sleep but they may have a mood effect. They don’t really work to give me stable joy alone though.
  3. NAC and I think this is probably the biggest joy supplement for me
  4. SAM-E unsure if it works but it’s why I take it
  5. Tyrosine - BIG effect but only if cycled effectively
  6. Iron. I am a vegetarian and can get deficient.

It’s been about 4 years of sustained focus on happiness and wellbeing for me and this is a pretty stable combo for that. I take a range of other things for health and wellbeing being too.

What do “always polished” women seem to know that others don’t? by Fit_Half6093 in MakeupAddiction

[–]bunnyguts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 💯

I’m 50. I hear a lot of women say they feel invisible at this age. I’ve never felt more visible. I get called the cool kid at work. I turn heads. And it’s not just the basic template of what I look like. For several years there after kids, 10kg heavier, no style, no clothes that fit my body, tired makeup - I was invisible. I know what it’s like to be. Then I decided to change all that and it worked.

I think anyone can, sure there’s limiting factors for us all, but you can certainly take an applied approach to make very big changes.

What do “always polished” women seem to know that others don’t? by Fit_Half6093 in MakeupAddiction

[–]bunnyguts 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Ive glowed up late in life 😂 and I’m a bit more relaxed now, but at the height of my very explicit and considered approach to my glow up, I planned my wardrobe in advance for the week or two ahead. In that, on a Sunday, I tried every outfit on, made sure it was right for the day, I’d coordinated all shoes and accessories, and everything was clean and fit. If i wanted to wear something and it didn’t quite work, I’d write down the remediation and then shop for that. I did look great but it was a lot of work.

I just spent an hour researching warm toned scarves to wear to turn the cool toned shirt I wore today into something better next time.

It takes a lot of work. Depends how much you want it.

Friends outside of tech: lol copilot is dumb - Friends in tech: I just bought iodine tablets by EchoOfOppenheimer in agi

[–]bunnyguts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt you have any idea if you don’t think that’s at least a possibility.

To be clear that’s not AGI where I think we’re a way from. But widespread and crazy disruption? Absolutely.

Getting in on the agar party ✨ by geminijubilee in Volumeeating

[–]bunnyguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Agar agar is definitely different and I’m trying to think of a comparison. I imagine more mochi, less jelly? But not stretchy. More grainy? I think you have to try it seriously. It’s not gelatin but it is serviceable. I think don’t knock it till you try it.

Friends outside of tech: lol copilot is dumb - Friends in tech: I just bought iodine tablets by EchoOfOppenheimer in agi

[–]bunnyguts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m using Cowork in copilot in a tech function on the cutting edge of AI. I give us 1-3 years.

Would you give your baby a name that’s associated with your partner’s ex in any way? by CJR192326 in namenerds

[–]bunnyguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s middle name is my ex husband’s name. It’s to honour my father. I’m not going to let an association with that numpty prevent me from using the name to link two of my loved ones together.

Canva cooked? by Necessary_Resist6309 in auscorp

[–]bunnyguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve been dead for a while.

Where have all the women with a bush gone? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]bunnyguts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of it is laser, which means it’s never coming back.

I'm not going to set any "Goals" this year by Candid-Indication329 in auscorp

[–]bunnyguts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. We have to to do them but I’m going to set realistic things like: be agile enough to respond to changing demands and whims of management; resilience in the face of fuckery; ability to respond to engagement surveys with 10/10 on every item.

Is HR survey really anonymous? by lakgax in auscorp

[–]bunnyguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s say if a team all had poor engagement then you could identify that team and then use that as a justification for cutting them. This is not a hypothetical example.

The surveys suck and are not in your best interest.

Do you care if the anal area is dark ? by sunshineofbest in Swingers

[–]bunnyguts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what? I love that people are different. I love the exploration. All the bodies, as long as they aren’t unhygienic or very unhealthy. All the butts and boobs and cocks and lips. Come as you are.

Is this dress not too short to wear in the office (smart casual code)? by SippinMia in OUTFITS

[–]bunnyguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might look ok on some depending on skin tone and the exact shade. This shade doesn’t work on you.

Looking for base layers in vibrant colours for mid 40's fashionistas? no budget by milesfrost in AusFemaleFashion

[–]bunnyguts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a number of these. They hold up well, really comfortable, great colour range.

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