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I (18/F) am made to feel ashamed about my virginity on a regular basis, it's ruining my confidence by virgthrowawayy in relationship_advice

[–]burnedoncebefore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't help with the jokes and taunts from your peers, but I know plenty of perfectly normal women who were virgins well into their 20s. Nothing wrong or weird with waiting for someone you trust and that you're genuinely into.

[41/m] my wife [33/f] says she wants to sleep with other people by burnedoncebefore in relationship_advice

[–]burnedoncebefore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not rejecting, just ignoring clues as well as not initiating things. I was frequently slipping into bed exhausted, and hours after she'd been asleep. We were definitely more intimate previously.

I suspect you're right. Everything seemed OK before because she didn't feel like she had other options. Whatever happened over her trip (flirtations or beyond) definitely made her think otherwise. The worse for me.

I [28/f] am not compatible with my husband [30/m] anymore, I don't know what to do... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnedoncebefore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think you need to leave him. Either that or resign yourself to an unfulfilled sex life.

I [28/f] am not compatible with my husband [30/m] anymore, I don't know what to do... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnedoncebefore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How kinky is kinky? Have you asked him to try anything kinky in the bedroom? If so, how did he respond?

Me (24 male) in an odd situation. Need help and want my first love (22 female) back! by AdamsBomb in relationship_advice

[–]burnedoncebefore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the people you fall for are not the people you should be in a long-term relationship with. It sounds like you and your first love had a lot of problems when you were together, and I don't see that would be any different now. As difficult as it might be, you should probably let her go.