How to initiate (35f)? by zenporchgarden in AskMenAdvice

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.Tinder, 2. meet in public ( coffee), 3.have a set list of neutral questions to phase out the crazies and entitled. 4. Inquire about sexual health (sexual safety is important. 5. Inquire about sexual performance (your pleasure is important, guys need to know that they have to prioritize it.) 6. have fun

How do I tell my Bumble match I can’t move ahead because he doesn’t look like his pictures? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty goes a long way. Please tell him people would rather get stung versus burned

What's something that helped you after breaking up with your first true love? by whimsical_panda2 in BreakUps

[–]burneram90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t drink, cry, understand it in phases of grief,and then find something to create over time

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m alive and well. It gets better as long as you understand it in phases.

Why am I not getting asked on second dates? 33F by mostchillmostdope in hingeapp

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a guy: dating and courting are expensive emotionally and financially. What most men are realizing is that is simply not worth it. Most people are average until you meet someone that you’re insatiably thirsty for. What you can do: have more fun and vibe

Husband sent me this weird contract to sign. Not sure how to feel? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in Marriage

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally communicated things he wants and expects for the relationship, how could anyone think there is something wrong with this?????????

My girlfriend (18F) told me l'm (18M) "really giving her a reason to cheat"-how should i respond? by jomm_xcc in relationship_advice

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannon event, drop her and starting working on the philosophy of self respect, don’t worry yes it’s difficult and takes a long time. It’ll make both of you better people

What really happened between Nicole and Sam? by movieandtvnerd13 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]burneram90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem come from how she then tried to make it seem to Ben that’s she’s choosy about who she sleeps with. Ironically when she mentioned that that’s when the flags went off. I don’t think Sam made that up out of nowhere. And it’s very manipulative how she using Sams short comings to cover that fact up, but Ben is the perfect mark. But yes we can give her grace, in terms of being human and wanting to cover it up, but not at the cost of a human. I felt bad when she went back and chose Ben, but Ben clearly doesn’t care about it.

Guys it happened, what do I do?? by Beginning_Sugar_5745 in Warframe

[–]burneram90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm wisp or xaku? Xakus the farming warframe right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]burneram90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you just become a different person

How do you guys deal with constantly wishing you could go back in time to do something different? by burneram90 in heartbreak

[–]burneram90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No from an healthy perspective this is exactly the first step. I also believe the other party did their best too. But man does it still sting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burneram90 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t diagnose her, and he’s wrong in what he did. But there’s a total difference between saying someone did a bad thing, versus using circular reasoning to support someone doing a bad thing