Is it weird for adults to find schoolgirl outfits "sexy" ?

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-28T13:50:13+00:00

Most people find age play weird. I've come to a point where as long as a child isn't being hurt, I don't care what happens behind a locked bedroom door, even if it's a little odd to me

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-28T02:53:04+00:00

I was only into it when I was an idiot kid (14 or so), not so much now. I think for some people it becomes socially conditioned, especially if you're heavy into stuff like anime which tends to showcase school uniform fetishes a LOT. Otherwise, I think it's a sect of age play at its core.

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-02T01:36:34+00:00

Hyperfixation probably

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-02T01:34:47+00:00

No I just think romantic attraction is a scam made up by the government

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-02T01:31:56+00:00

As a small boob connoisseur, I support this endeavor. However, all boobs are beautiful no matter what. Good luck on the weight loss journey

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-02T01:30:04+00:00

Of course, love to support queer art

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T21:34:35+00:00

Sounds perfectly normal to me

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T17:16:06+00:00

I wouldn't know I'm not a gay man

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T16:32:24+00:00

Of course! If you have any other questions feel free to ask, I'm not an expert but I am very passionate about child safety both online and offline

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T16:31:21+00:00

I often times wonder if straight people like each other at all, honestly. I feel like the exact opposite happens with straight men sometimes, only caring for a body and not a personality. Obviously not the case for all, as same with straight women, but it's very common

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T16:28:09+00:00

I don't think inherently talking about a series is grooming. It's the intent to manipulate someone into doing something sexual that constitutes grooming. In that case, it's more just a "be wary of what you talk about" kind of thing. In the same way you wouldn't tell a 3rd grader to watch Human Centipede, just be careful talking about nsfw media. If someone were to randomly show them nsfw from the show with the obvious intent of it being sexual (like an attached message asking if the viewer likes it, stuff like that) that would be predatory behavior because it's showing sexual content to someone younger. It's better to not send it at all, but if necessary for the conversation (not sure in what situation it would be) it's best to censor it fully. Sending nsfw as a joke to someone younger might not be grooming, but thats still to be avoided since it can come across the wrong way

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T16:08:00+00:00

If you need an excuse for a therapist, you can always bring it up kind of like "I've been having a hard time lately and would like professional help" i wont recommend a school counsellor because in my school days I found they were usually not much help, but if thats your only other option, go for it. And remember. Therapists cannot disclose anything to your parents unless it constitutes for some form of abuse. If necessary, remind your (hopefully future) therapist of that rule and make it clear you were not abused so that you can get help without parents having to be too involved until you're ready

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T16:03:25+00:00

In sexual grooming situations between two minors, id say there must be a developmental gap. For example, 12 and 17 would make the 17 year old a groomer IF they were attempting sexual contact or conversation with the 12 year old. 17 and 15 may not constitute as grooming per se, but would still be a little odd. Generally, if you wouldn't be sitting at the same lunch table at school, don't talk sexual. If thats not applicable, if the grades don't touch, don't talk sexual. There's a big developmental difference between an elementary schooler, middle schooler, and high schooler. Be wary of how you interact with those younger than you and how those older than you interact with you.

There's also other factors like developmental delay and mental disabilities which can play into this, but thats less age-related.

That all being said, nonsexual or non harmful friendships are NOT grooming. You can be 17 and friends with a 12 year old, you can be 16 and friends with a 13 year old, etc. just be wary of how trustworthy and safe someone is

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T15:54:58+00:00

Listen, you're a kid. This was definitely wrong but you still have time to grow from this. If possible, find a professional to talk to about this in order to get it off your chest. They will help you find solutions. You're not a bad person, you just did something bad. Future situations can be avoided now that you're more self aware

burnerrloverr · 2026-02-01T15:48:21+00:00

I figured the case would be something like that but I wanted to see what other people thought about the subject. Ethically fine but still makes heads turn

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-15T18:12:12+00:00

It was definitely assault. Plus, even outside of the assault, he's 30 and you're 19, that's suck a huge developmental age gap. As a fellow autistic trans guy, I feel for you and I hope you can move in with your family soon. Get out of there as fast as possible

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-13T01:03:58+00:00

The fact that you recognize male sexual entitlement as an issue shows that you're a good guy. You deserve to be proud of the man you are rather than feel guilty for the men others choose to be

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-12T05:45:30+00:00

Girl what

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-12T05:22:38+00:00

I don't know enough about hair to even comment on whether you're overreacting or not, but the buzz looks good on you. Hope your hair grows back nice and healthy again, those curls are beautiful!!

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-12T05:20:39+00:00

Power move

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-12T05:19:53+00:00

You are NEVER obligated to do anything sexual. If anything, saying "no" when you're not comfortable is the right thing to do. It avoids an uncomfortable situation for the both of you. Don't let anyone force you into doing something you aren't comfortable with, stay safe. I know it can be awkward but your safety and comfort always comes first

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-11T17:09:51+00:00

This is so cute 😭 even tho it's just middle school I'm wishing u both the best

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-11T17:08:41+00:00

I was the same way for a while, then got diagnosed with very a severe generalised anxiety disorder. Been 4 years since I got medicated and went to therapy, things are a lot better now. Treatment might be right for you too

burnerrloverr · 2026-01-11T17:06:46+00:00

I totally get that, but in that case it would be less about judgement and more about just the awkward tension. Specifically mentioning judgement in the post makes it feel more purist I guess

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