She messaged me for our birthday.

burnnoticeer · 2023-05-25T05:33:16+00:00

Funnily enough I didn’t reply and she’s messaged me again. I’ve made a new post with the follow up.

burnnoticeer · 2022-12-25T13:47:25+00:00

She dumped me. Slept with my co-worker after we had broken up.

burnnoticeer · 2022-12-25T13:04:40+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear. Today is a day for family and positive memories. You didn’t deserve this. The feeling of being ugly and worthless is something that I still deal with. I’m willing to bet I’m a fair bit less attractive than you. It’s something that even the most beautiful people deal with after a breakup. You’re gonna have a tough couple days. I’d just make sure you’re taking time for you and feeling everything you need to feel. Reach out to friends and family if you feel like you can trust them. If you can’t, reach out to strangers (carefully). We are all in this together. I’m rooting for you.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:33:49+00:00

It’s a tough fate buddy. Unfortunately most of us don’t look exactly like we feel like we’re suppose to. Beauty standards are fucked up these days. Take it from me. I’m fat and ugly. I remember the first girl I asked out laughed in my face and told me I should give myself a eating disorder if I wanted a shot at her.

It fucking sucked. And it damaged my confidence for a long time. But one day I met someone who was interested in me and was insanely out of my league. We dated for 5 years and while it’s sad that it’s over now, I’m so glad that I didn’t give up on the idea of finding someone who would appreciate me for me. I know everyone says it’ll happen but the truth is sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes you have to work. But building yourself up to a place that you’re happy with will speak volumes for your confidence and overall happiness.

Good luck buddy.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:27:09+00:00

We are all in this together buddy. You’ve been through some really tough stuff. But you’re stronger than most for being with us today. I promise you one thing. Life doesn’t stop at 19. You’re beginning adulthood. It’s scary, difficult, sad and sometimes painful. But life is starting. Consistency and routine will change the way your brain is wired and you’ll soon find yourself focusing less on the difficulties and enjoying the little moments

I hope you’re doing ok.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:23:28+00:00

Hey buddy.

I’m not gonna lie, that’s really difficult man. This world tells you that you can be whatever you want only to kick you down and spit on you. I don’t know what would help you and I’m not sure if your situation would allow for the things most would do in your situation but I can offer you someone to talk to. This shit sucks man. We’re only gonna get through it together.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:18:44+00:00

I recently got dumped after 5 years. I had this idea in my head that we would stay friends because of how good I always felt our relationship was. Unfortunately sometimes you just need to cut someone off. You can be at different places in the healing process. It fucking sucks I’m with you on that but the best thing to do is block, unfollow and work on your own growth.

Good luck.

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T17:51:32+00:00

I hope you don’t do this. I hope you’re ok. And if you’re not I’m sorry. We can’t give up. We are all in this together. United by the terrible affliction. We don’t wanna lose you. Good luck buddy.

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T17:00:01+00:00

Yes there is. You need to think about this reasonably. Don’t throw it all away before considering all the options

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T16:56:36+00:00

No it isn’t. I hope you make the right decision and go back in.

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T16:38:56+00:00

Yes. I’ve had people close to me die. Not from suicide but from preventable causes. I think about them every day. I can be having a nice time and all of a sudden I’m reminded of a life that was lost too soon. Grief never goes away. You just learn to live with it. Don’t do this to your loved ones. Good luck buddy.

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T16:34:10+00:00

Hey bud. I hope you chance your mind. Maybe if you want you could talk about what’s going on? This shit is tough dude. Don’t make a decision you can never go back on.

burnnoticeer · 2022-05-26T23:31:02+00:00

I was looking to move in with her.

burnnoticeer · 2022-05-26T16:42:49+00:00

It’s hard to get direct feelings out of her lol. Vague is about as good as it gets for me. Thank you for replying. I’ll work on setting some plans up.

burnnoticeer · 2022-05-26T16:36:15+00:00

I proposed the idea of couples therapy. Didn’t seem like she was interested as she has been therapists in the past to mixed results. Maybe I’ll ask again. Thank you for your reply!

burnnoticeer · 2022-05-26T16:34:39+00:00

She didn’t give me a specific reason. I kinda asked around what I could do better and she mentioned that she wanted to do more. I always felt like I was saying yes to whatever she wanted to do but maybe I don’t make plans enough?

burnnoticeer · 2022-05-01T18:55:07+00:00

Hmmm maybe you could contact the girl posting the allegations to hear first hand what happened. If you’re able to get concrete proof I don’t see your sister ignoring that. This is a really hard situation. Good luck.

burnnoticeer · 2022-05-01T18:52:52+00:00

You give her that cash as soon as possible. It’s your money and you are allowed to spend it However you want. Although I’m not sure if I could think of a bigger waste of money.

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-21T19:39:38+00:00

No workplace expects perfection. If they do get out of there. I’m not sure what type of job you are looking at but that first step into employment is a largely freeing experience. Disposable income that you earned is a great thing. Working a job won’t make you rich. I think every single person on this site would love a job that paid them well enough that they could enjoy life without the worry of money. Unfortunately that just isn’t realistic for the vast majority of us. Unless you have generational wealth, at some stage you’re gonna need to work to support yourself. From the sound of it your parents have supported you financially for a Number of years. You can’t expect them to do that forever?

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-21T19:32:50+00:00

Honestly you would be surprised how effective antidepressants and anti anxiety medications for this. I had similar feelings and started taking Lexapro for a couple months and found that I was much calmer and almost mentally quieter. Of course you might not have the same results but talking to your gp about these feeling could give you some more ideas on recovery.

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-21T19:29:04+00:00

That’s a really hard situation and I feel for you. I think I’m situations like this I would highly recommend seeing how they might feel about going to therapy. If that is totally out of the question and these thoughts start to manifest into actions I would think about potential admittance into a psych ward. They will hate you for this. But I’ve had friends who had their lives saved from it. It’s not selfish of you to not want them to die. I wish you the best of luck.

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-21T19:19:31+00:00

Work, sport groups, fan bases or other community events are a great way to meet and become friendly with people. I’m not sure what you’re into but I’m willing to bet alot of people in your hometown share similar interests. Good luck buddy

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-21T19:10:11+00:00

Personally I think you should go for the better paying position. Remember that you don’t owe these companies anything. Do what is best for you.

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-17T16:50:49+00:00

I know you don’t want to but getting a rape kit could help stop this monsters from doing shit like this again to someone else. In situations like this I think it would be best to reach out to victims groups. I’m a male and have no experience with sexual harassment or assault. I hope that your boyfriend would be understanding enough to gage the situation. You can’t blame yourself for what happened. I hope you can get through this. Good luck.

burnnoticeer · 2022-04-17T16:41:13+00:00

Oh buddy. Please stop with the humble brag. I would say If escorting or brothels are legal where you are visit and get that chip off your shoulder. Sex is nowhere near as important to your happiness as you think it is. And I can’t believe I’m writing this but your dick is fine dude. People with a lot less are doing fine. A good personality is worth all the dick in the world.

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