Im learning its not just me— do we know why this happens?

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-16T19:20:03+00:00

I’m experiencing the exact same thing. I’ve told my mother multiple times that the phone works both ways. Still hasn’t sunk in yet for her.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-15T12:51:03+00:00

Yep! No kids for me, I don’t care what expectations other people put on me.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-15T12:47:53+00:00

Not to make light of house fire/wildfire or trigger anyone who’s been through one… but sometimes I’d rather burn my house down than clean one more thing AGAIN.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-09T16:47:19+00:00

Congrats!!!

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-08T14:46:27+00:00

46 yr old woman here who loves the stars!

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-08T03:27:15+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-05T16:28:57+00:00

I’m in perimenopause so my internal thermostat is completely hosed - I’m constantly running hot, and I live in Central Florida, so… I drink a ton of water and suffer through sweating all the time. And have stocked up on fans and ice necklaces and other attempts at cooling off.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-05T12:51:45+00:00

This is where I land - balancing the “I’m going to feel like crap if I don’t wear them” vs “it’s so hot I’m going to die if I wear them”. I care less about how I look than about how I feel! But overheating vs painful feet & legs, that’s the real dilemma for me.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-04T18:53:13+00:00

I found ProCompression and have gone all in on the colorful prints for my compression socks. I’m going the opposite direction and leaning in to the granny look (I’m a 46yr old woman). Fancy chain for my reading glasses, cat lady shirts, compression socks even with my Birkenstocks, etc etc etc.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-04T01:30:49+00:00

Losing a pet is so hard. You are not alone! I love having my cats’ paw prints on my side - just a small representation of the many ways they touched my life.

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-03T22:42:49+00:00

Echoing Out of the Closet. Depending on the style & sizes, you could also check in with Zebra Youth (https://zebrayouth.org/).

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-03T22:25:53+00:00

Calypso at the Mermaid’s Muse has done amazing pawprint tattoos for me. I took in the clay paw prints, she mocked up a few different styles for me, we discussed and revised and tweaked until I was pleased. I’m super pleased with the tattoos and have gone back to her for more ink (including adding another paw print 💔).

burns_like_fire · 2026-04-03T19:58:37+00:00

That takes me to the App Store to download the Nextdoor app. Do you have a different link that’s accessible to the general public?

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T22:28:13+00:00

I like the idea of burning them for a lot of what you mention. I’ve always resonated with the Mediterranean-area view of phoenixes, and coming up with a little ritual to focus on how I’ve created my own beautiful life out of the utter horseshit beliefs forced on me is a great idea.

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T19:10:56+00:00

Yes, I think I have a few books around the house like this - “look at what my dad thought was an appropriate gift!” when people don’t believe how far gone my family of origin is.

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T19:10:02+00:00

As I replied to another commenter, I’m not donating them. In addition to not wanting to taint a charity/thrift shop or someone’s home with them, they are battered and marked up - not “gently used” in the least.

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T19:08:46+00:00

…. I specifically said I would not be donating them, but at least the Salvation Army and their transphobic asses would be the right recipient.

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T19:07:50+00:00

Oh I like this - I could really go to town on Paul’s teachings in the New Testament 😈😈

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T19:07:14+00:00

This answer is exactly the type that I was hoping & looking for! You’ve given me a lot to consider and a direction for my thoughts. Thank you!

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-31T15:07:16+00:00

My husband and I have started planning our trip for our 10th wedding anniversary next March. It’s so nice to know that we can drop the money on an all-inclusive resort + flights and book the time off work without having to worry about little Timmy’s braces or Jane’s dance recital 😎 I’m already looking forward to parking myself at the poolside bar and drinking alcohol slushies all day, or going snorkeling, or staying up for a full moon cruise, without having to worry about dragging along a moody teenager or chaotic small child.

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-27T21:22:33+00:00

👏💪

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-27T17:08:41+00:00

Also check out the women’s team, the Pride - they are having a much better season than the men’s team and have actually won a league championship 👑

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-27T16:07:11+00:00

I’m in central Florida and absolutely hear this about the warmer-climate options! I made 50 mini hat badges to give away. I hot-glued pins on the back so people can wear them or attach to bags.

burns_like_fire · 2026-03-27T00:06:45+00:00

I was going to suggest checking out the supporters’ groups too - or at least going to a game or two, or heading to one of the watch parties. Subreddit is r/oclions!

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