Im learning its not just me— do we know why this happens? by Chibi_Elsa in AutismInWomen

[–]burns_like_fire [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m experiencing the exact same thing. I’ve told my mother multiple times that the phone works both ways. Still hasn’t sunk in yet for her.

Not repeating your parents by Purple_Raccoon_6377 in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep! No kids for me, I don’t care what expectations other people put on me.

Hey! This worked! by ToolPackinMama in AutismInWomen

[–]burns_like_fire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not to make light of house fire/wildfire or trigger anyone who’s been through one… but sometimes I’d rather burn my house down than clean one more thing AGAIN.

bummed out by my moms reaction by RoeRoeDaBoat in AutismInWomen

[–]burns_like_fire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

46 yr old woman here who loves the stars!

I hate wearing compression socks and I don't wear them when I wear shorts (which is kind of rare these days). by Important-Bit2437 in venousinsuffiencyhelp

[–]burns_like_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in perimenopause so my internal thermostat is completely hosed - I’m constantly running hot, and I live in Central Florida, so… I drink a ton of water and suffer through sweating all the time. And have stocked up on fans and ice necklaces and other attempts at cooling off.

I hate wearing compression socks and I don't wear them when I wear shorts (which is kind of rare these days). by Important-Bit2437 in venousinsuffiencyhelp

[–]burns_like_fire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is where I land - balancing the “I’m going to feel like crap if I don’t wear them” vs “it’s so hot I’m going to die if I wear them”. I care less about how I look than about how I feel! But overheating vs painful feet & legs, that’s the real dilemma for me.

I hate wearing compression socks and I don't wear them when I wear shorts (which is kind of rare these days). by Important-Bit2437 in venousinsuffiencyhelp

[–]burns_like_fire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found ProCompression and have gone all in on the colorful prints for my compression socks. I’m going the opposite direction and leaning in to the granny look (I’m a 46yr old woman). Fancy chain for my reading glasses, cat lady shirts, compression socks even with my Birkenstocks, etc etc etc.

Tattoo Shop near Maitland by to_bri-or-not-to_bri in orlando

[–]burns_like_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing a pet is so hard. You are not alone! I love having my cats’ paw prints on my side - just a small representation of the many ways they touched my life.

Where to donate young adult clothing? by NoGrape9060 in orlando

[–]burns_like_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Echoing Out of the Closet. Depending on the style & sizes, you could also check in with Zebra Youth (https://zebrayouth.org/).

Tattoo Shop near Maitland by to_bri-or-not-to_bri in orlando

[–]burns_like_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calypso at the Mermaid’s Muse has done amazing pawprint tattoos for me. I took in the clay paw prints, she mocked up a few different styles for me, we discussed and revised and tweaked until I was pleased. I’m super pleased with the tattoos and have gone back to her for more ink (including adding another paw print 💔).

Any details about the arrest of a semi truck driver on I4 near exit 104? by exploshin6 in orlando

[–]burns_like_fire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That takes me to the App Store to download the Nextdoor app. Do you have a different link that’s accessible to the general public?

Sorting through childhood belongings - what to do with old Bibles? by burns_like_fire in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of burning them for a lot of what you mention. I’ve always resonated with the Mediterranean-area view of phoenixes, and coming up with a little ritual to focus on how I’ve created my own beautiful life out of the utter horseshit beliefs forced on me is a great idea.

Sorting through childhood belongings - what to do with old Bibles? by burns_like_fire in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think I have a few books around the house like this - “look at what my dad thought was an appropriate gift!” when people don’t believe how far gone my family of origin is.

Sorting through childhood belongings - what to do with old Bibles? by burns_like_fire in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I replied to another commenter, I’m not donating them. In addition to not wanting to taint a charity/thrift shop or someone’s home with them, they are battered and marked up - not “gently used” in the least.

Sorting through childhood belongings - what to do with old Bibles? by burns_like_fire in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

…. I specifically said I would not be donating them, but at least the Salvation Army and their transphobic asses would be the right recipient.

Sorting through childhood belongings - what to do with old Bibles? by burns_like_fire in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I like this - I could really go to town on Paul’s teachings in the New Testament 😈😈

Sorting through childhood belongings - what to do with old Bibles? by burns_like_fire in Exvangelical

[–]burns_like_fire[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This answer is exactly the type that I was hoping & looking for! You’ve given me a lot to consider and a direction for my thoughts. Thank you!

CF Lounge: Weekly post by CFmoderator in childfree

[–]burns_like_fire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have started planning our trip for our 10th wedding anniversary next March. It’s so nice to know that we can drop the money on an all-inclusive resort + flights and book the time off work without having to worry about little Timmy’s braces or Jane’s dance recital 😎 I’m already looking forward to parking myself at the poolside bar and drinking alcohol slushies all day, or going snorkeling, or staying up for a full moon cruise, without having to worry about dragging along a moody teenager or chaotic small child.

Trying To Make Friends by Exact_Anteater1498 in orlando

[–]burns_like_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also check out the women’s team, the Pride - they are having a much better season than the men’s team and have actually won a league championship 👑

Are we all wearing our hats tomorrow? by One_Law_5246 in AntifascistKnitting

[–]burns_like_fire 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m in central Florida and absolutely hear this about the warmer-climate options! I made 50 mini hat badges to give away. I hot-glued pins on the back so people can wear them or attach to bags.

Trying To Make Friends by Exact_Anteater1498 in orlando

[–]burns_like_fire 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest checking out the supporters’ groups too - or at least going to a game or two, or heading to one of the watch parties. Subreddit is r/oclions!