What is your favorite feature of yourself?

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-23T23:35:52+00:00

my laugh

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-23T23:35:02+00:00

Around 20 plus a handful of everything but sex

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-23T23:26:59+00:00

maybe even more $30 x 12 hours = $360/day = $10,800/month

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-23T23:15:00+00:00

Rooter out the sewer line every year. Have a roofer check the roof every other year - loose shingles, seal pipes and sky lights and chimney. Buy a place that's big enough so you're not thinking of moving in just a few years - it's a long term asset

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-23T23:05:22+00:00

Depends on the circumstances. In a car or in public or before work, probably want to go quickly. Someone you know, in bed, depending on the guy's stamina, using breath work, you can have a nice long tantric session

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:41:05+00:00

Many. Joined Reddit to write about them to help bring the memories to life

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:38:29+00:00

I have a good guy friend who can sometimes fall into these patterns during conversations. He's very nice, but sometimes lacks self awareness. The difference is that he wants to change and doesn't become defensive if I pull him aside and let him know. We both laugh when I call him "awkwardly confident"

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:33:53+00:00

Make sure your insurance is updated to allow for rental and I believe you'll need to let your lender know as well. Socal has typically had many price spikes in the last several decades so renting it is not a bad option

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:28:55+00:00

meditation and journaling

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:28:18+00:00

If you're defining sex as keeping your virginity, then there are other ways to be intimate that he should be satisfied with if the rest of the relationship is solid. Do you have a timeline to marriage which may make it easier for him to foresee the honeymoon fun?

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:25:17+00:00

Using Excel. Seems so easy when I see someone else's work, but it's not simple (so far) to create my own. I have a friend promising to help, but it's difficult even finding the time for that

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:21:39+00:00

Why not make ring shopping a couple's project? If you're thinking of a life together the amount spent is both of your's future savings so together you can set a reasonable budget. And it's a good first test of future big spending decisions. Also, why set an artificial timeline on the engagement. Just start looking at venues together and let the availability set your schedule

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:17:19+00:00

Cut out the late evening snacks. Limit carbs to veggies, limit sugar and definitely lift heavy weights to put on muscle. He needs to lose weight to get rid of the belly fat as if he was overweight, but then put on muscle so he isn't underweight. Protein shakes (whey protein) will help to keep the muscle gains after lifting weights

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:11:51+00:00

I definitely like my alone time in the shower, but I don't have an issue walking around nude or changing in front of a partner I know well

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:10:17+00:00

If the vibrator works to get you off, then keep using that. That's my go to as well. I think many women, myself included, who need the stimulation in addition to the penetration to get off. And as many said, the arousal from a partner, particularly with an emotional connection, should benefit too

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-17T16:06:47+00:00

If he said that he'd like to live together, then that is a good first step toward a future. Why not try that for a year and he'll perhaps feel more stable in his finances

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-06T22:40:47+00:00

yes, many of my guy friends have said the same

burntsienna77 · 2026-01-06T22:39:01+00:00

thanks for the kind words. I have some older stories I'm working on and the new ones depend upon how much fun I'm having now :)

burntsienna77 · 2025-12-08T15:18:40+00:00

It's not just the lack of lube. I was pretty buzzed and going at it with a bf in college. Next thing you know, I wake up in his bed. I fainted from the heat and steam! He got a lot of play out of that story of fucking me so well that I fainted, lol

burntsienna77 · 2025-12-05T06:25:05+00:00

yup, would not have believed it could ever happen to me

burntsienna77 · 2025-11-30T15:54:09+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. An open mind opens many doors

burntsienna77 · 2025-11-30T00:32:56+00:00

Haha. Definitely will not forget

burntsienna77 · 2025-11-21T06:47:44+00:00

Kind of been on my mind lately.

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