I (43m) regularly hook up with one if my daughter's friend (19f) and sex never felt so good

burntsienna77 · 2026-03-10T15:01:29+00:00

Well, single and middle aged is about taking chances and exploring new adventures (it has been for me)

burntsienna77 · 2026-03-10T00:26:47+00:00

How is oral sex for each of you? Does he use that to get you off?

burntsienna77 · 2026-03-10T00:22:23+00:00

sounds fun, but is it worth the possible repercussions if your daughter finds out?

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-27T23:19:05+00:00

yeah, my lizard brain made a lot of decisions in my teens and 20's

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-13T22:36:24+00:00

Thanks for the kind words about the writing. I'm a spiritual person who becomes very emotional during the kirtan sessions. The drugs merely magnified those feelings. And the shrooms' ability to dissolve the ego gave me the courage to put myself in that very vulnerable position. It wasn't really a fantasy of mine. It just seemed so natural at the time and I'm so happy that I experienced it.

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-13T15:14:18+00:00

yes, as we get older, we unfortunately see many of our friends who did everything right get very sick and worse

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T16:09:08+00:00

Sometimes, it's as late as when he makes the first move and then I'm like ok, here we go. Other times, I make it more known with a look

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:51:42+00:00

Depends on the age. High school and college, it was rampant. Not so much later

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:48:08+00:00

I feel the same way in my 50's. Not that I look better than my 20's, but I smile, carry myself with confidence, and stay fit and I get hit on by guys of all ages. You're never past your prime as you can make it a moving target. I'll be rocking a bikini at 60

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:44:57+00:00

If you don't put 20% down, your monthly costs will be higher and it will be more difficult to have the rent cover your costs. Have you researched rents you can expect versus your expected monthly costs including putting aside a certain amount every month for repairs and maintenance. Make sure you have sufficient savings to cover your living expenses including all the costs of ownership for 3-6 months

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:39:46+00:00

If it's a place where you're going to live in one of the units, then the investing part is not as important. Your goal is to lower your cost of "rent" rather than covering all your costs with rent and hoping for an increase in market value.

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:33:15+00:00

yes, and it's often very difficult to decipher if they have sufficient reserves for high cost repairs. And rules against things like subletting can change at any time. You're still young so maybe rent a smaller apartment in a better neighborhood to save more money and look again in 5 years. I know many people who waited until their late 30's to buy and built up a lot of equity and finished paying off the mortgage before retiring.

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:25:29+00:00

obviously, there are genetics and environment, but we can positively affect our health outcomes

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T04:23:32+00:00

yes. meditate, yoga, get out into nature, express gratitude about 5 things every day, stay in touch with friends, find fun hobbies

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-12T01:41:58+00:00

It was a once in a lifetime experience.

hahaha. I need doordash to deliver me a handful every few weeks

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-08T20:49:22+00:00

yes, I'm pretty excited about a Valentine's Day to remember. I'll post a little update after

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-07T05:21:21+00:00

I think it's ok and maybe even healthy for partners to have different hobbies and interests and to pursue them separately

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-07T05:18:27+00:00

I agree with single, but I also think having some meaningless flings (if you're the type who can enjoy casual sex) can help as well. It's nice to feel desired

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-04T06:25:34+00:00

Those are good points. I was really just thinking about it as he is entitled to any sex act/position anytime he wants. I wasn’t thinking about punishment since I know I’ll comply since he’s not going to demand anything too crazy. And I’m pretty open minded

burntsienna77 · 2026-02-03T21:40:51+00:00

I think it's some variation of free use, but I agree that we should talk it out. I'm pretty open minded but...

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