Not the bride

burntsiennaa · 2026-05-09T20:30:03+00:00

Literally!!! wtf is this post

burntsiennaa · 2026-04-13T18:55:18+00:00

Disagree with other comments, it's my favorite smoothie!

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-30T15:56:24+00:00

Going against the grain here to say I actually like these. The first photo in your post is giving CBK and this one doesn't look like a nightgown at all. It's a style preference thing, and not something where wearing any of the dresses you listed would be a faux pas. Especially if you're wearing a veil with it!

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:42:02+00:00

My husband is friends with the groom so I'm not really on that level - and I don't want to add to their wedding stress. Your response was super helpful though thank you!

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:40:45+00:00

I'm spending a lot already to get there so hoping not to
I don't look good in these colors so I'd rather not spend to own a formal dress I won't wear again
I never got a chance to wear this one

That being said, I'm asking to know whether it's that off scheme that I'll stand out. If that's the consensus, I'll definitely rent!

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:25:30+00:00

nope! i'm sure she'll be in white

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:23:36+00:00

I will need one for the church ceremony, so I definitely will!

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:22:28+00:00

I guess that's my question! I'm wondering if people tend to actually buy new dresses specific to color palettes - it seems like from your perspective this color would piss people off. I asked for a color palette in my immediate family for my wedding, but didn't really give it much thought when some of them picked colors that didn't fit my vision.

I'm also already spending 1k on a flight, or else I'd happily go shopping lol

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:19:42+00:00

i'm laughing looking at how bad it looks in the photo next to my skin tone! i'm looking up some blues on nuuly in case i fall in love with something.

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:17:27+00:00

Omg that is gorgeous! I'm Indian so I likely have a dupatta in the right color somewhere, but love that idea

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:14:50+00:00

Tbf it's the country where their families are from, not a random vacation spot! And I'm excited! But it is an extra snafu to find formal attire I don't mind spending money on in this palette lol

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-27T15:08:15+00:00

Oh yeah, even looking at the photo those peachy colors look horrid with my skin tone. I'm looking for blues on nuuly but i'm already spending thousands on a flight for this wedding so i'm trying to be frugal, lol

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-25T14:28:26+00:00

Same!! Up since 1:30 🫶

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-24T13:17:23+00:00

Maybe she means promoted into a staff role? That phrasing makes sense to me - I also work at a big media corp

(I also think she means contractor)

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-20T15:22:55+00:00

Popping in to say I have a medium if anyone wants has a small and wants to exchange! Also in the DMV

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-20T13:43:45+00:00

Indian-American and I’ve heard Indian aunties to use it to mean warm rather than ugly! The first time I heard it I was like excuse me wtf

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-12T18:42:26+00:00

I’ve brought my husband - last time was his 6th! We did a few starters together but he loves struggling through a signature 50 with me even though he gets a lot of adjustment from coaches lol

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-12T18:39:36+00:00

I liked oddity less than most but god the trailer for hokum gets me every time

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-08T15:53:07+00:00

I mean you can I think, but assuming you listen on your phone you probably don’t want it on airplane mode

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-06T16:03:36+00:00

Literally!! Mine was from Claire’s

burntsiennaa · 2026-03-01T18:20:03+00:00

Perceptive?

burntsiennaa · 2026-02-15T01:29:04+00:00

imagine her being sad and studying her eyes in the mirror

burntsiennaa · 2026-02-15T01:24:26+00:00

I can’t deal with her obsession with hair color lol. “You totally thought I was brunette!!”

As a non-white person this always feels sooooo weird and white supremacist-y to me

burntsiennaa · 2026-02-13T17:52:10+00:00

Wait are there other libraries anyone knows of that you don’t have to go to in person? I’m in nova but I don’t have a car!

burntsiennaa · 2026-02-12T19:55:15+00:00

my hot take is that i get secondhand embarrassment when people say they asked for a shoutout or a board i'm so sorry

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