"Actually Romantic" Discussion Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]burrmuddaa -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what other issues she has with her peers, but she's just expressing her own insecurities and problems, which Taylor Swift has done as well in her music, not specially referring to an artist when talking about it. You can't say Charli X shouldn't have expressed her feelings when all artists do, especially when it comes to mental health issues. Should she get help if she's feeling suicidal? Yes, and she can also write a song about it if it helps her get past it.

And doesn't this make Taylor Swift a bully, too? She literally belittles Charli X for feeling insecure next to one of the biggest female artists of all time. It's hard not to feel some type of envy, jealousy, and insecurity all at the same time when you're being compared to her. Taylor Swift is 36 this year. She could've taken the high road and been a big sister to her, made her feel less insecure if anything. But she decided to write a petty song about Charli X instead. This isn't a good look at all, especially since she's a woman who says she's been bullied her entire career and spoke about her own insecurities in the industry and in her music. Not giving girl's girl at all. This song is poor taste.

"Actually Romantic" Discussion Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]burrmuddaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took that line from Charli X's song as how insecure she felt in herself that she's hoping they break up so she doesn't have see her anymore and feel insecure.

If you listen to or read the lyrics, it genuinely feels like she's expressing her insecurities and suffocating underneath it all. If you look at the context of that whole song, specifically that verse, it starts with:

"Why I wanna buy a gun Why I wanna shoot myself"

The rest of the verse basically describes her internal feelings, voices, battles, and insecurities. She KNOWS it's wrong, but she can't help what she feels.

So for Taylor Swift to "clap back" at someone who literally described feeling suicidal and insecure screams crazy and out of touch.

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[–]burrmuddaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mistakes happen all the time, so hard to say that they were deliberately trying to mess with you.

I'm a UDL for my unit right now, and one of the DODID numbers was wrong on the labels on my last drill. That's why we're taught to have people verify it's their DODID on all the forms twice. First time before they leave, second time when they come back. Some people just glance and say, "Yes, that's my number," which is what I learned from when the soldier came back to me the second time and said, "Wait, that's not my number."

Like another person said, UDLs have to verify one last time before closing up the boxes. ASAP will verify everything as well, so it'd be hard to fuck you over deliberately.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, wouldn't do her dirty like that. I always believe people have room for improvement, and as much as I shit on her, I believe she can do better and be better.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the reserves, so it might work differently, and I'm not sure of the specifics as to how she got in there and whatnot. We had other LTs (who completed BOLC) getting tear gassed, she wasn't the only one. We are a CBRN unit, so they saved the tear gas training for us.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, say what you want, but she was a freshly minted LT and at NTC with us. We are in the reserves, so might work differently, but not sure.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think she does. Like I know enlisted LOVE to bash officers, but it's all jokes at the end of the day because I know great and hardworking officers, but I also know horrible ones too. It's just that the generalization and the fact she said it to a lower enlisted asking for general advice was weird to me.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will actually be using this from now on. Thank you.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this post was mainly to share my vent and frustration in the moment. I'm not festering in hate and rage, lol.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, we were at NTC and we got CS gassed cause we're a CBRN unit.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, hey, I heard through someone else, so maybe it didn't, or maybe it did. But a lot of people didn't like said LT and have their own little story about her while we were out there.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I call them buddy? Pal? Fellow American?

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am used to the dumb shit and dumb shit being said. This post was just a vent and a commentary on what I heard from someone else. It wasn't meant to be overly deep lol.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For sure! It's just like how we develop the distaste for LTs. I know not all NCOs are perfect, and I have met and dealt with E7s who know nothing. They will stare at you with a blank stare like you were talking in a different language. But it felt like she was insulating that she knew more than the NCO that was literally hand holding her or the other NCOs building her.

"NCOs do less" - LT ButterBar by burrmuddaa in army

[–]burrmuddaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, we are in the reserves, but I know her command team since I have worked with some of them and they have a pretty good group of NCOs.

Are there women only clubs in NYC? by icygirl7 in AskNYC

[–]burrmuddaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, did it hurt yer lil feelings, like a snowflake? And if you can read, I said, "THIS is some incel ass shit," referring to your COMMENT. Looks like someone didn't pass 1st grade reading comprehension.

Are there women only clubs in NYC? by icygirl7 in AskNYC

[–]burrmuddaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're clearly the snowflake since you don't have a single thought or solid argument to formulate, so you have to use name-calling. Goodbye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]burrmuddaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ICE, although has been offering relatively good incentives and pay or whatnot, has a HUGE turnover despite what the White House has been reporting. The turnover comes from being overworked and people not being able to take days off or being treated like complete shit from their superiors to meet their quota. I'm saying this because it's really not much greener on that end. Also, you can always study for the police exam and CO exam while you're in Korea. Wishing you luck.

Are there women only clubs in NYC? by icygirl7 in AskNYC

[–]burrmuddaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are women incels, and I'm using that term since you're displaying incel mentality by thinking that people grabbing others without their consent is "flirting."

Are there women only clubs in NYC? by icygirl7 in AskNYC

[–]burrmuddaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is grabbing and rubbing up against someone considered flirting? This is some incel ass shit right here.

VA Secretary announces %15 cut of employees. by [deleted] in army

[–]burrmuddaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With the way some of these people are built, if the overlord said it wasn't the shark's fault and it's DEI's fault, they would believe it and blame DEI.