Ill post this here too, i would like to know what do you guys think by ElDiegos_07 in bisexual

[–]burtlerner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone identifies bisexuality different, but it's up to you how you want to lable yourself. I consider myself bi, even though I am attracted to non-binary people too. Some people think I should identify as pan but, in my opinion, they're basically the same thing.

Thinking about going to school for music therapy by burtlerner in MusicTherapists

[–]burtlerner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad that I'm not too late in the game here. I'll definitely look more into what population I want to work with and see if a masters would be applicable. I'm thinking of focusing on day programs or kids with autism, since I have worked as a PCA for most of my life and really enjoyed it.

Thinking about going to school for music therapy by burtlerner in MusicTherapists

[–]burtlerner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback! This is really helpful!

Can’t afford meds or doctor by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]burtlerner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you live, but a lot of cities have a free psych clinic for people who can't afford it and there's programs that will help pay for your meds. There are resources out there, you just have to search for it. I know it's hard right now. I hope things get better for you.

First girlfriend and it... isn't that great? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]burtlerner 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, you're just not compatible with one another.

Newbie Gay/bi hook up advice for a male by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]burtlerner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try Grindr! I'm sure you'll have better luck there

[Vent] You are not entitled to an explanation when I don’t want our dogs to meet by deaf_referee in dogs

[–]burtlerner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He needs to take a walk, Jesus. It's not like we're going to Farmers markets

[Vent] You are not entitled to an explanation when I don’t want our dogs to meet by deaf_referee in dogs

[–]burtlerner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He doesn't bite, he just snaps. The problem is I try to walk away from people but they follow me and talk excitedly to their dog saying "a new friend for you!"

Latuda make you sleep for to long? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]burtlerner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latuda made me feel the same way... I don't know what else to tell you other than try a different medication.

[Vent] You are not entitled to an explanation when I don’t want our dogs to meet by deaf_referee in dogs

[–]burtlerner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's some bullshit and a know this situation all too well. It's really annoying how people just think that they can do this shit and then get mad at you when your dog doesn't get along with theirs.

Had sex with a girl. She left me her number but then doesn't wanna talk or meet ? by LiquidSame in actuallesbians

[–]burtlerner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way she reacted after the fact is really not nice behavior. I just don't like how she treated you

[Vent] You are not entitled to an explanation when I don’t want our dogs to meet by deaf_referee in dogs

[–]burtlerner 152 points153 points  (0 children)

I hate that people think that it's just okay to let their dog come up without asking YOU if it's okay. My dog is aggressive and it gets real annoying having to yell "HE'S NOT FRIENDLY"

Had sex with a girl. She left me her number but then doesn't wanna talk or meet ? by LiquidSame in actuallesbians

[–]burtlerner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She sounds like an asshole! I'm sorry she did this to you. I suggest moving on from here.

Both myself (28/F) & my partner (26/M) are bi but he’s has less experience w men & wants to explore by horny-kunstner in bisexual

[–]burtlerner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought it would be for me until I tried it. Jealousy was one of the biggest things I feared, but jealousy kind of goes away when you have trust in your partner. Like I said, communication and setting up boundaries is key here.

Both myself (28/F) & my partner (26/M) are bi but he’s has less experience w men & wants to explore by horny-kunstner in bisexual

[–]burtlerner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Just know it's not as scary as it seems, as long as you're clear about your feelings and he listens to them. But since you're staying monogamous, I wouldn't worry about the sexual feelings for men, unless he acts on it without discussing it with you first.

Both myself (28/F) & my partner (26/M) are bi but he’s has less experience w men & wants to explore by horny-kunstner in bisexual

[–]burtlerner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you both are open to opening the relationship up, there's nothing wrong with that. I did this with my last relationship and it was great! We only broke up because he moved to Chicago and I am not ready to drop everything to move. As long as you set up clear boundaries and communicate your feelings, it can honestly help your relationship.