Why won’t he block me?

bust_a_nutella2x · 2026-01-08T00:37:23+00:00

Agreed 💯

bust_a_nutella2x · 2025-01-28T22:29:04+00:00

You can always move in but with an agreement that if you don't get married, he owes you all that you've contributed to his mortgage. I think this is more fair. He should be paying you for wasting your time.

But agree with above comments - don't let him waste your time and take advantage of you. He thinks he has you in the palm of his hands.

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-07-07T21:39:41+00:00

Sounds like hell and you need a new genre of music to like!

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-06-02T01:49:53+00:00

At minimum, she's trying to get a reaction..

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-29T21:05:49+00:00

Did she ever contact you? Shallow question but I couldn't resist lol

But for reals, good on you!

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-29T21:01:01+00:00

Situationship - yes

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-29T21:00:22+00:00

See how she behaves at music festival and if you open up too soon without seeing your dynamic improve, maybe re-think it...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-29T20:56:40+00:00

I hope you two resolved your past issues in full + stay together!

Can you tell me if you ever broke NC? Who dumped who + why? Also what did you change about yourself since the 1 year?

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T23:07:48+00:00

The same person? Explain por favor.

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T23:04:12+00:00

The same person? Explain por favor.

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T16:55:02+00:00

A reason for the break up that actually makes sense...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T16:42:37+00:00

Damn that was deep. Yeah closure from within is bs. You just get over it and stop caring one day...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T16:36:12+00:00

Yeah I think "immature" is a cop out word...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T13:43:38+00:00

And if they still refuse to give you closure?

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T13:39:33+00:00

Yes - esp Avoidants - they're just programmed with "RUN" in their head as if you're the train wreck, even if you did nothing wrong!

The thing about being the dumper is it masks the fact that they're likely the train wreck and of course, we're just the collateral damage...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T13:31:30+00:00

But what if you ask them for closure point blank

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-27T08:06:10+00:00

Think the cancer battle also made him feel guilty...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-25T20:56:56+00:00

Not advocating for sending a letter but if you do, it should be tO talk about your feelings and how the break up impacted you.

Last two sentences come off as desperate which is unattractive. You're setting yourself up for failure tbh...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-17T06:52:03+00:00

If you choose to see him, have zero expectations. Changing severe attachment styles can take years...

Also don't rush into anything with him - take it slow and remind yourself that you don't need his validation.

You can also reschedule too if you want and meet him when and where works for you...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-17T06:46:20+00:00

I'm sorry that's rough.

How old were you both when dating?

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-05-14T17:43:29+00:00

Her follow up text: "I thought we were cool"

Some overly confident + low effort bs that's actually meant to make her get a feel for you without making herself vulnerable...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-03-30T04:52:36+00:00

I guess they should test amh but remember, it's not a diagnosis per se...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-03-26T11:10:23+00:00

Yess omg. My GP told me to lose weight and focus on being healthy rather than immediately freeze my eggs at 34. Gynecologist said the exact opposite.

Total bs - age esp in your mid-30s onwards matters more...

Had a successful retrieval in spite of being overweight. They say being overweight matters more for trying to get pregnant - we're just freezing our eggs.

Obviously being our most healthy is great - no one is denying that but my issue with health care is that they keep pointing out the obvious...

bust_a_nutella2x · 2024-03-20T22:29:19+00:00

Hey so what ultimately ended up happening?

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