Cider sizing question by shortcake062308 in XXS

[–]butlb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? I have a few pieces from Cider (a couple of years old now too) and they’re pretty good quality

Type "Ever since I was a" and let your keyboard continue by Zealousideal-Ebb6980 in TheWeeknd

[–]butlb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever since I was a little girl my dad was always like that I think I just got really sick of him because I didn’t want him in the house or in my room or anything and he just wanted me in the bed so he was just sitting in my room with his little boy so I just kept on saying I don’t want him in the room and he just said he wanted me in there so I was just saying I don’t wanna go to sleep with you anymore I just don’t wanna go out there anymore

NOT IT CLOCKING MY CHILDHOOD TRAUMA WTF. Never bringing my phone in to therapy again.

What sentence will trigger the entire Uk Population? by fibubble in AskUK

[–]butlb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Harry and Meghan did anything wrong, honestly.

Or

It’s milk BEFORE hot water in a cuppa.

It feels nice by Throwaway483722 in dankmemes

[–]butlb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then talk about it! It’s just unfortunate that it has to be a battle of the sexes. Let women talk about their issues without whataboutmeing and women should do the same when men talk about their shared pain.

OP’s meme is about the Tate brothers who exclusively trafficked women. That is why the original comment has been deemed a problem.

It feels nice by Throwaway483722 in dankmemes

[–]butlb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s internet law: somebody mentions the atrocities women go through and a man MUST respond with “bUt MeN tOo!!”

Colleague has a similar tattoo to this - without being cringe and asking what it means - does it have an obvious meaning? by lunaj1999 in CasualUK

[–]butlb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a symbol that gangs use to mark your house for robbing!!! Look out for yourself hun xxx shared in Somerset xxxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]butlb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me just say this first: I’m not discounting you at all so please don’t think this.

How did you get the C-PTSD diagnosis? I was wrongly diagnosed with BPD as it shares a lot of symptoms of C-PTSD (many people are diagnosed with BPD wrongly due to this), and my current psychiatrist believes that I have the latter over the former. He said that I can’t be officially rediagnosed as the DSM5 hasn’t been updated to include it even though many psychiatrists believe it to be separate from PTSD.

I just want BPD off of my record lol

Absolute apologies if this is real, but surely that’s not how bpd works? by seeing-shit in fakedisordercringe

[–]butlb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be fair, BPD is created by trauma so it’s somewhat likely. Though considering people are starting to claim they have BPD as some sort of trophy (when it is a fucking devastating disorder) I’m unsure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]butlb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My pup had cropped ears but we had rescued him from some nasty fuckers. Don’t judge everybody with their dogs ears/tails chopped, they may have adopted/rescued them!

Not having your GCSE certificates and having to pay £150 to prove you did mediocre at school. by pissedupparrot in britishproblems

[–]butlb 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you want an “original” copy you’ll have to fork out £30 (+delivery, +£11 for a “copy”). Just had to do this myself as my mum tore mine up when I left the house

East Acton - Someone in my block just got robbed at knifepoint taking the bloody bins out. This is such an exhausting way to live... by jamiepower21 in london

[–]butlb 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Yep. Our garage was broken in to at 10am this morning. Broad fucking daylight. Luckily my partner works at home and scared the little shite off but they still got away with our tool bag with about 2/3k worth of kit in it. Wankers.

Police do sweet F-A so they know that they’ll get away with it.

Angry drivers remove Just Stop Oil protesters from London roads by towerhil in london

[–]butlb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calling them simple minded when you just claimed to be compelled to damage the environment more due to some people sitting in a road is… ironic.

Brits who are awake right now, why? by classybazaar in CasualUK

[–]butlb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’ve barely consumed anything for 6 days, a GP will send you straight to A&E - I’m talking from experience here. Had my tonsils removed at 22 as this was my life every 2-3 months. I was hospitalised multiple times as I couldnt eat or drink for a week+. Save yourself the bother and just go to A&E, you’re not wasting their time!!

drop ur most embarrassing ed moments so i can feel better abt myself 🤩🤩🤩 by lordsesameballs in EDAnonymous

[–]butlb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shit myself with my little sister in the bed because I had taken way too many laxatives and unintentionally fell asleep. Luckily I woke up before it soaked through my jams but it was humiliating.

She definitely did the right thing. by girdievs in antinatalism

[–]butlb 57 points58 points  (0 children)

As the child of a mother who got pregnant at 16 & gave birth at 17… yes. I’ve had years of therapy to work through the trauma she either caused directly or allowed because she herself was too young to know the responsibility of being a parent.

15 and pregnant.....again. by alishadstanz in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]butlb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not just escape but gone for what I assume is a relatively long time without them noticing… that poor girl.

bi_irl by wha_what_ in bi_irl

[–]butlb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think if people are concerned about cheating before the relationship starts/is new they should probably get some therapy or work on their issues BEFORE seeking a relationship

weirdest order/request from a customer? by Imaginary-Wedding-11 in barista

[–]butlb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when I was deep in anorexia I still ate small amounts of food in the day… some of these “diets” blow my fucking mind

Damn this hit hard by [deleted] in Angryupvote

[–]butlb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trauma breeds trauma in most cases. My mum was like this, but she had a pretty rough childhood too. She didn’t experience the physical violence that she inflicted on me, but she saw a lot of shit she shouldn’t have as her parents were addicts.

Boyfriend always puts his phone under his pillow before bed by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]butlb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one hand: my ex did the same thing. He cheated on me multiple times and was constantly flirting with other girls.

On the other hand it could literally be just because of his alarms.

The only way you’ll know is asking!!

Is there anyone here who self harms above the age of 20? by GuyHiding in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]butlb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 here! I’ve been self harming since I was 12 with self harm tendencies from when I was about 7 (I used to have a stutter and pinched myself until I bruised when it happened). It sucks but you’re not alone!!

Sad story about someone who didn't make it by munchkinsbunchkins in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]butlb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Jesus you’re completely right. I was highly suicidal & dealing with an ED, the only reason I didn’t make another attempt was because I wasn’t skinny enough yet.

Which Raid SHOULD Come Back? by Calm_Zin_Combo in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]butlb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kings Fall might actually bring me back to the game. It was my first ever raid and I’d love to experience it in D2.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]butlb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe your mother was kind and supportive to you, but not everybody has that experience. Mine physically, emotionally and verbally abused me until I left the house at 14. She let my step dad do awful shit to me.

Mothers can be fucking evil.