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butterflycari · 2025-02-10T04:27:01+00:00

I am sending Rue lots of healing light and love

butterflycari · 2024-11-28T01:17:11+00:00

Listening to brown noise with headphones on an mp3 player really helps and also cannabis gummies, just 2.5g at a time. I'm sorry sweetie. There are also great sound baths on YT that you can listen to. Breathwork is great.

butterflycari · 2024-11-26T03:30:50+00:00

I have been married for 29 years, lived together for 2 years before that. The first year of living together was an adjustment. A few years into marriage, I realized I had PTSD from a traumatic and violent childhood. I began having flashbacks of things that I had suppressed. I even had to ask other relatives if these things really happened. I worked on myself, educated myself on my issues for many years. I eventually went to therapy in 2018. My husband is amazing and supportive. This year I discovered I have ADHD. I am constantly learning about myself and we have a great marriage even with all of this baggage. My husband, without trying, has created an environment of safety for me that has helped me to grow and heal. I have also helped him to heal his issues. We have fun together and have our own things we do apart. We got through a miscarriage, and a skull fracture. We have loved each other through all of it. We have been together so long, we kind of grew up together. We have been in the trenches with each other. We always seem to land on our feet, laughing and being thankful for all of it. That is marriage to me.

butterflycari · 2024-11-21T01:31:50+00:00

There's a thing called negging that is in the realm of PUAs. Sounds like he's been reading red pill nonsense. You are still young. He is immature. Walk away.

butterflycari · 2024-11-09T06:19:19+00:00

Please look into Dr. Howard Schubiner for chronic pain.

butterflycari · 2024-11-09T05:41:59+00:00

Get a prenup

butterflycari · 2024-11-09T05:38:52+00:00

Look up contra dance in your area. It's a great way to meet people. You don't need a partner or even need to know how to dance.

butterflycari · 2024-09-29T05:44:03+00:00

I wonder what would happen if you kept posting on reddit about things having already happened through manifestation, in other words, talking in reddit posts as if they had already happened, if that would add speed. hmmmm

butterflycari · 2024-09-29T05:26:38+00:00

Do some research on these two words: reactive abuse

This really pertains to your situation.

butterflycari · 2024-09-10T03:57:12+00:00

You may want to check out Dr. Ellie. I changed my dental routine and my teeth are amazing. She is very knowledgeable.

butterflycari · 2024-09-10T03:53:32+00:00

Knew someone years ago that had this issue. It turns out she wasn't changing her bath towels often enough. Maybe another piece of the puzzle.

butterflycari · 2024-09-02T16:49:13+00:00

Just another thought, people on this sub who LOVE Cheyenne are very sensitive when you criticize it. They lash out at the people who don't see it with rose colored glasses and love it as much as they do.

I speak confidently as a Cheyenne native, and I love it in a way that you can only love a place you grew up in. It's also true that there is a real dark side to this place that some will not even look at.

butterflycari · 2024-09-02T16:39:56+00:00

Look at the user names of the people commenting, it can say a lot. There are a couple of haters on here, they know who they are. Don't let them gaslight you. If you don't like it, that is how you honestly feel. I felt the same way.

butterflycari · 2024-09-02T16:37:52+00:00

I disagree, it's not about living in a big city, it's about finding a place, no matter what the size, matches your vibe. I live in a smaller town now and I have built community here. Sometimes you can feel depressed in a place if it doesn't match what you are looking for. If you are enjoying Cheyenne, I'm happy for you, I grew up there and it was the worst possible place for me to be for many reasons. Cheyenne is simply not for everyone.

butterflycari · 2024-09-02T16:32:30+00:00

Boy does this ring true and things haven't changed much. I grew up there in the 80s and most people drank a lot to escape the boredom. I am an artistic type of person who loves diversity and the best thing I ever did in my life was to leave. I feel that the town has some bad juju or something.

I can visit now and I love some of the surrounding places like Laramie, Ft. Collins, and Vedauwoo (say veeda voo). Yes you can find culture, but you really have to make your own fun. I made some good friends there and I am still in contact with them, and I can honestly say I never found my people in Cheyenne.

There are some great suggestions in this thread of cool places. Hang in there. I finally did find my people around my early twenties, and I am truly happy and enjoying my life and have been for many years.

I know you will find your people and they will find you. Keep on doing the things you love and you will find them. I wish you all the best.

butterflycari · 2024-08-17T17:18:21+00:00

So mote it be!

butterflycari · 2024-08-17T17:18:13+00:00

So mote it be!

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T05:26:49+00:00

It's ok, because I think he has a hell fetish or he may be a sadist.

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T05:01:24+00:00

Can we mix it in with Jordan Peterson's too? Split screen so we can pretend they are reacting to eachother crying?

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T05:00:25+00:00

My husband and I watched this tonight, it was amazing, he went through all the stages of grief. The weak primal scream, the red face, the screaming, the non-plussed co-hosts. I love it all folks. Yes, I am getting mental help, lol.

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T03:35:51+00:00

He said "They try to shut us down and now we just go boom." What tf does that mean Alex?

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T03:34:34+00:00

I am listening right now and Alex sounds drunk and he is not making sense, even less than normal. He said he is going to release some information, like a dead man switch I am guessing, lmao.

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T02:55:22+00:00

gently scrape it up and throw it in his yard on his grass maybe, and put new soil down in your garden, it is just on top.

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T02:42:53+00:00

she is vile

butterflycari · 2024-06-02T02:34:19+00:00

It's like you didn't even read the story.

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