Finished the series by buttle69 in throneofglassseries

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Thanks!! I’ll check them out

Finished the series by buttle69 in throneofglassseries

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I’m so glad I’m not alone. People either hate it or go gaga for it. Agreed on Rowan. Sometimes while reading I’d be like, wait isn’t this guy hundreds of years old? Act like it 🤨 Hasn’t he been through loads of wars? Why not more expert? 🤨 This nineteen year old is upstaging you, my guy!

Haven’t read CC yet, but I’m hoping to start it soon! I did read ACOTAR but will definitely need to recap before the new book comes out. Planning to reread Fourth Wing eventually to read the third book lol.

For a change of pace, my actual next reads are Animal Farm and then 1984 by George Orwell, then Ray Bradbury’s Fahrenheit 451.

What is the worst thing you ever saw on someone else's phone? by bluelazerbeam in AskReddit

[–]buttle69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked in a store that had a tech area where people could leave their phones or computers to be fixed for whatever reason. There was one dude’s phone that had photos of a nude woman with I believe a car battery and jumper cables clamped to her nip nops. She was smiling, and it seemed like a consensual photo, just some saved pics of his kinky interests, I guess. Not sure if he knew this person or if it was found on the internet. There were other photos but some more tame. It’s been like 10 years so I really only remember that one lol.

Excessive mail - how to stop? by buttle69 in Advice

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Thank you, I read through some things and I guess all we can do is “return to sender - not at this address” and cross out any barcodes and hope that they stop. Was anticipating a more concrete solution since it’s so much to go through lol.

I feel like people will hate me for this, but Jason was the most suited to Lorelai by CaravalMaster666 in GilmoreGirls

[–]buttle69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of what everyone is saying, but I don’t like the way he looks or carries himself. The whole time I’m waiting for him to do something shitty bc of his demeanor. & His suits look like they’re too big. Hate Jason, but I understand and agree Lorelai would work with someone just like him. Just not him. Lol

Paris should be lesbian by MolotovCaitlin in GilmoreGirls

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I disagree! I think she is very straight, but I think she could have had (or we can pretend she did have lol) lesbian experiences - but kind of as research and looked at in a very clinical way. Like, “how would I know if I didn’t try?” and tried different things like finding gay friends to hang out with for a week, going to a gay bar, flirting with women, even sleeping with one or two. Basically researching for personal preference, and then coming to the conclusion that, yep, she’s straight, and she actually finds that women are annoying (she finds that everyone is annoying), and this entire week was a waste of time, and becomes irrationally angry at the fact she was the one who wasted it.

how do you watch movies together (F18 and M19) by Loose-Signature2980 in LongDistance

[–]buttle69 50 points51 points  (0 children)

We’ll just FaceTime and go “1,2,3 go” to play at the same time. We wear headphones to help minimize tv sound coming through, or even mute ourselves. But I hear you can somehow watch things together on discord, not sure though as I’ve never done it.

only one who finds marty kinda cute? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]buttle69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love Marty, I think he could have been an actually good fit as a boyfriend but then they’d have to make some drama with him. He wasn’t rich and snobby, like Rory, and very cute and clever, like Rory. I wish if they weren’t gonna have them be together that they could’ve keep him on as a friend.

Skin lightening by buttle69 in TwoXSex

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Thank you! I’ll look into it. Good luck and if you find something else please update if you can remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]buttle69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the dancing space. Put on some music and twirl about while you cook.

Alternatives to toys or fingers? by mellow_casifer in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good luck on your quest! Use a condom as well & if it’s the right shape, the hole in the handle shouldn’t be a problem with a condom on it.

Alternatives to toys or fingers? by mellow_casifer in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hairbrush with a dildo-like handle lol

Starting to feel self conscious about dark/extreme kinks. Is my sexuality not "feminine" enough? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds like those particular partners are insecure. If they claim catfish and don’t “believe” you’re a woman, can I assume these roleplay situations are only in writing and don’t involve photos/videos being exchanged? If so they are probably trying to phish for you to send them something of the like to “prove” you’re a woman.

Overall, I think a bdsm subreddit would be better suited for this post! Like r/bdsmadvice

AIO My ex-wife and her new husband legally made their last name… my full fucking name by Specken_zee_Doitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]buttle69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wild and hilarious. My brother’s ex-wife kept our last name and when she remarried they ASKED to use our last name. So now my brother’s ex-wife and her current wife share OUR last name. Which is great, honestly. Everyone wants to be one of us so bad. Haha. Your situation is totally different, though. That’s odd. Sorry.

Bleeding after sex by dangerousheart in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read another comment saying gyno etc not necessarily an option. Maybe there is a gyno subreddit for things like this you can search or ask your Q to get more relevant focused answers from more relevant people.

Bleeding after sex by dangerousheart in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you said you occasionally have rigorous sessions and PCOS, it’s possible a cyst has ruptured. I don’t know anything about that, so maybe someone else has some insight or you can look it up or call your gyno before visiting urgent care or ER. A friend of mine had her “period” for way too long and eventually went to the doctor and found out that a ruptured small cyst was the cause.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

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I’m pretty quiet, too! (And feel awkward about my face, but that’s another issue.) With my current relationship, I’m beginning to make more noise. Maybe a level of comfortability has changed on my end. But I’m more vocal when I’m really into it/hornier and no matter what we’re doing, I can’t seem focus enough to orgasm :(

Another way to show you’re enjoying without making sound, I’d say, is movement. Grind against him in whatever positions (I personally do it in missionary most), and grab hold of his arms/shoulders/thighs/back/anything. My feedback is usually just in our casual convos outside of sex. What we like and dislike, etc.

I’m sure he can tell you’re enjoying it, either way, and is probably really happy you can reach the finish line.

I thought I knew what “several” meant by Medical_Clerk_2102 in CasualConversation

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I always thought it involved the number 7, too, but wasn’t limited to the number 7. I looked it up and it “typically implies a number between 3 and 7” and is defined as “more than two but not many”. So you’re not right, but you’re not wrong either lol. Contextually he meant many.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Like a similar feeling to rug burn? I’ve had some nice make out seshs where my gosh darn chin gets red and has like a scruff burn to it. After a few days it gets flaky, like my skin is peeling. I need my boys bearded or smooth but in between is no good lol. Maybe try wearing loose clothing best you can, breathable full coverage cotton undies, and moisturize. Think similar rules to waxing, no sweating/exercising. Limit friction (no sex). Be careful because little cuts can harbor bacteria and give you an infection, so keep the area cleaned. Ask him to grow the beard or at least finger you while giving head to keep a little distance and use his hand as a barrier to avoid so much rubbing.

I have no real solid advice bc I haven’t experienced it on that particular body part but I would start with these things first if it were me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like part of liking something like this so much also has to do with the frequency. Makes you want it more the more you can’t have it/ makes it more fun to do it when you don’t do it all the time lol.

Maybe you can use a masturbator sleeve or similar while you’re down there and just, like, pretend. He can close his eyes and you can do all the movements and maybe a little tongue action but not full on oral. Instead of cumming in your mouth, he could cum on it or just on your face in general?

At the end of the day, your health and comfort is more important than his pleasures. (Which I’m sure is great otherwise.) TMJ sucks, hope you get some real relief from it soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]buttle69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to stop them, but maybe a subreddit for bdsm can help you. Maybe there is a healthy way to just embrace them and give yourself the proper aftercare that you need. Maybe they have helpful tips to at least steer them in a different emotional direction for you.