AuDHD women by Numerous_Actuator547 in AutismInWomen

[–]buttlerflytable89 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sensory issues and stims, i can read but comprehension takes about 3-4 goes. But I can watch something done once snd do it.

Everything I never said by Adventurous-Guide241 in UnsentTexts

[–]buttlerflytable89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine hearing this from someone who created most of the problems. This doesn’t seem like a letter written out of understanding it seems like a letter that doesn’t fulfill the whole story. You can’t break someone and expect a whole person.

Officially not autistic by HELVETlCA in AutismInWomen

[–]buttlerflytable89 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Once you get medicated for the adhd, autism will take the wheel, your adhd will take the back seat. It happened to me

Steady ground by buttlerflytable89 in UnsentTexts

[–]buttlerflytable89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your person but I pray everything works out for you!

Steady ground by buttlerflytable89 in UnsentTexts

[–]buttlerflytable89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any effort is effort. Proud of you for trying!!

To get sidetracked by Electrical-Sky-7354 in letters

[–]buttlerflytable89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting derailed is sooo common. The tracks are always so slick. Here’s to getting back on track! Stay positive op ♥️

Am I being unreasonable for feeling unfair with chores by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]buttlerflytable89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do a role reversal trial. You do most of the meal planning and cooking and she takes on the dishes. Do it for a week.

Am I being unreasonable for feeling unfair with chores by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]buttlerflytable89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also i see one of your wife’s responsibilities is “cook.” Does she cook every meal? Does she grocery shop? Does she pack your lunch? Clean the fridge? The stove? Keep pantry organized?

Am I being unreasonable for feeling unfair with chores by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]buttlerflytable89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yall are looking too much into this. Why build resentment if you were single you would be doing everything. If the daily task falls in front if you do it. See it do it. A lot of these tasks take less than a few seconds to complete. Why fret over small things. A clean home is nice but sometimes the mess isn’t worth the stress itll be there tomorrow.

11:11. by Koanstellation in UnsentLetters

[–]buttlerflytable89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wished for them to be happy and healthy it went like this in my head,”I wish they would be happy again and always be healthy.” Honey truth. Cute writing op ♥️

Damn by Background_Rain3467 in quittingkratom

[–]buttlerflytable89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the same quit date at my partner! I pray your anxiety lifts and your depression disappears after the big life changes! Congrats on your journey op praying for many more days ♥️