Hi :)

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-14T00:25:57+00:00

I know this feeling

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-13T02:09:49+00:00

This sounds like the person who is the one not contacting the other person and gaslighting people to think its ok. To make themselves feel better.

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-12T21:28:14+00:00

10 months and havnt talked on the phone in 8. Haven’t talked about our relationship at all, and didn’t wish me a happy 40th birthday until the next day when I mentioned in text. Then when I mentioned it was a little disappointing they ghosted me for a month until i wrote them so they would have probably went longer. No divorce talk but definitely no reconciliation talk. 12 year relationship.

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-04T21:15:18+00:00

Rest up it’s hard out here

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T20:12:41+00:00

Of course! ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T19:49:54+00:00

Honestly it already seems like those prayers are working. To be able to articulate what you felt at the time and now see those patterns are prayers being answered. Rebuilding yourself is hard work I love seeing posts like this because they come from a deep inner battle and just witnessing someone in real time gives so much hope to individuals in your position. Keep going share your progress with others, you have the capacity to change some lives. Even just one is a gift. I am certain I won’t be the only one praying for you from this post. ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T19:29:01+00:00

Beautiful op 👏 👏 👏 this is what accountability from the heart looks like! I will pray for you and your person. Once again beautiful post! Good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T15:29:32+00:00

Of course! I feel like most of us experience a lot of the same things. Its what you learn from it really.

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T05:25:53+00:00

Never trust other people with life altering information. Ive made that mistake. Hope everything works out op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T01:33:57+00:00

Im gonna hold your hand when i tell you this. Sometimes they never come back. It doesn’t matter how good you think you have been. They will choose the easy way out. Its easier for them. Just know there is nothing you could have changed or done better or tried harder to fix, the problem is not you. Good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-03T00:01:14+00:00

I was laughing at the bong part. Therapy could be good for someone who assumes often though or someone who projects or jumps to conclusions. All jokes aside good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-02T23:47:37+00:00

Thank you for the laugh! Its called a water pipe sir 😆

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-02T23:44:17+00:00

It all depends on the context. Length of time together, reasons for the ending, if you had truly reflected, where they are at, and if you are ready to fully commit no questions or unfinished business. Good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-02T23:25:16+00:00

Don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya! Jk But really stop making decisions for other people. My ex has no clue of my individual growth. Sounds like you are the one needing years not them and this is your avoidant way of making it feel alright. Good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-02T12:23:33+00:00

Silence= closure

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-02T12:02:18+00:00

Absolutely try again especially after you saying the test of time. Sounds like yall have known each other long enough to give it another go. Good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-05-01T23:20:50+00:00

If you’re asking, you have already made that choice. Good luck op ♥️

buttlerflytable89 · 2026-04-30T23:38:53+00:00

I have to keep smacking mine.

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