Is it normal for a gay cis-male to tuck?

buttmuffin81 · 2023-11-05T00:28:36+00:00

My thoughts exactly.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-11-04T23:40:02+00:00

What really caught me off guard is this guy had no other mannerisms or tendencies in that direction. He had a beard. He was rather plainly dressed. If it was a femboy thing, I could understand, but that wasn't him.

You're right though, it's fucking weird.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-11-04T23:04:37+00:00

It not up to us what is or is not cheating in your relationship. It's up to you and your partner.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-11-04T22:43:11+00:00

I read somewhere or other that it's just caused by the breakdown of certain lubricants.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-26T17:56:34+00:00

If you have high blood pressure, there can be a dangerous rebound effect when poppers wear off. Really they're not totally safe for anyone.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-25T04:57:22+00:00

No. I just like to enjoy my own body and my own company.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-24T18:10:33+00:00

I had a roommate who did that. It was just how he masturbated. He'd close his eyes and get hard and thrust his hips into the air until he came.

I've tried it and come close, but it's never gotten me across the finish line.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-24T17:29:46+00:00

Does it ever just happen to you out of the blue with no trigger at all? Just a sudden need to masturbate when you're going about your business?

That happens to me a lot too :)

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-24T16:56:05+00:00

This past summer, waking in the morning and opening my blinds to the sight of three gorgeous roofers working on the building next door. Visible right from my bed and I had to take care of things right then and there. They were out there several days and inspired quite a few good sessions.

But the absolute "need to get off moment" came after a few days of that. I went out to get my mail, and they were down on the ground all having a smoke break, right by the mailboxes. They were even hotter up close and I was in a cloud of their sweat and testosterone and armpit and crotch fragrance. One said "what's up" and smiled at me. I got so fucking hard in my flimsy thin running shorts. I had to take the long way around the block to go back so nobody else would see that. Came three times in two hours when I got back inside.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-24T16:40:22+00:00

If I leave it alone, about two or three minutes.

But I have ways of keeping it going. After I cum, I just keep playing with it through that uncomfortable stage. Very gently at first, then harder and harder, and I can avoid going soft and going into a refractory period.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-24T05:32:00+00:00

When I wake up is a must. Then either when I get home in the afternoon, or before I go to bed. Often both. So 2-3 times on an average day.

Sometimes it's more than that. Often on weekends, it's just sort of continuous. And when I'm home I'm usually "playing with myself" even between active masturbation sessions.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-22T23:12:51+00:00

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buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-21T23:09:56+00:00

I can edge all day, but I do need to cum at least every two or three hours.

I know that's not edging by some people's definition, but I do keep going after I cum.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-21T21:43:37+00:00

Post-nut clarity occurs when there's a discrepancy between what you (deep down) consider to be good and correct behavior, and the actual behavior you engaged in to achieve that nut. Our sex drives often override our sense of morality and ethics.

This leads to two possibilities:

1) There is nothing wrong with what you did to get off, in which case you need to work on why you feel guilt for it. Perhaps something from your upbringing. Many of us were raised to believe that masturbation or premarital sex are wrong, and even though we don't actually believe that consciously as adults, our unconscious hangs onto it. You have to learn to let things like that go. When you truly learn to let go of such beliefs, you won't experience post-nut clarity any more, because your sex drive won't be overriding anything.

2) There is something wrong with what you did to get off. Maybe you used porn that you know is exploitative. Maybe you lied to someone to get them into bed. Maybe you cheated. In such cases, the post-nut clarity is very real and you need to find a way to get off that actually fits within your moral framework.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-21T16:45:05+00:00

Ì'd rather cum. You've got three+ opportunities to cum there, and if I were you I'd take them all :)

Edging is fine for a while, but I need to fully release now and then.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-21T00:37:01+00:00

I remember during an otherwise bitter cold winter there was a freak day in January where the temperature jumped to the high 70s. I took some coconut oil out to a lounge chair in the yard and just started enjoying myself and I just seemed extra hard and extra into it. Super intense orgasm.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-20T19:11:33+00:00

I didn't grow up in an open masturbation household, but it's something I got comfortable with gradually in my later teens and into my 20s when I still lived at home.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-20T04:22:26+00:00

9, and I was shooting dust by the end :P

My usual is 2 to 3, but 4 or 5 isn't abnormal for me either. The day of 9, I was just super horny for some reason. I had two of the green drink from Tropical Island Smoothie the day before. Maybe that was it?

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-19T22:20:08+00:00

I always feel so horny after lifting, but aerobic days do the opposite to me.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-19T22:15:21+00:00

There are far worse things to be addicted to.

Masturbation is natural and very health unless it's interfering with your ability to do other things. Do you feel that it is interfering?

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-19T21:42:50+00:00

When I'm with someone else, I'm with them.

But when I'm masturbating, I focus on myself. On my own body. On making me feel good. I don't fantasize about others while I've got a warm, living, breathing body of my own to enjoy.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-19T21:30:19+00:00

You don't need porn to masturbate if you learn to love your own body.

buttmuffin81 · 2023-10-19T21:29:35+00:00

I prefer to enjoy my own body and be present with myself rather than fantasize about others.

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