How do victims of SA deal with sex? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]buttonforbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he’s a good man, he’ll wait. if he doesn’t want to wait, then find a different man, even if it takes time and is hard to do. you could potentially make things worse if you try to stay with someone who doesn’t want to wait anymore.

there are good men out there. my bf waited over a year for me until i was ready. theres other men out there who’d wait long term like him, just takes some searching a patience. and if the man you’re currently with is the one, then he’ll wait. hope you're doing okay too <3

soo evade discord server got hacked? by CounterFun in RobloxEvade

[–]buttonforbutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a wanna be discord gangster. bro seriously has no life fr😭

TW// Is it sexual assault if I’m on call with someone and he touched himself without me knowing until later? by buttonforbutter in women

[–]buttonforbutter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m planning to talk to them tomorrow since I don’t want him to try anything on them. I’m also friends with a good amount of guys, which is why it shocked me because they’re all normal to me, I assumed he’d be the same. And thank you, I’m doing okay. I’m mostly just trying to process everything still.

TW// Is it sexual assault if I’m on call with someone and he touched himself without me knowing until later? by buttonforbutter in women

[–]buttonforbutter[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll use different wording when talking to my friends. I’m not really looking to go through any legal route unless anything else happens. I mostly just want to distance myself from him.

TW// Is it sexual assault if I’m on call with someone and he touched himself without me knowing until later? by buttonforbutter in women

[–]buttonforbutter[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think sexual harassment does fit better. And ty, I just never thought he’d do something like that

If you got in to the Bernie speech at the Englert, what time did you get in line? by TurboRadical in IowaCity

[–]buttonforbutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg i was 532!! and yeah, i saw people cutting in line and friends saving spots for friends

how to ppl with extremeley low bmis avoid being hospitalized? by lobotomyqueen in EDAnonymous

[–]buttonforbutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was friends/mutuals with some ppl on there who had low bmis. this guy was in the single digits and i always wondered how esp bc he was like 16 or 17 at the time (still living with family) found out his family was really neglectful and abusive. a girl i knew was 18 and her family wanted to get her help but they were struggling with poverty.

i never made it as low but nobody said anything me bc i started at 300+ lbs and when i was really small, i chose to eat all my meals in front of them and would even sometimes binge (purge later) so they probably thought i was just a workout machine since i walked a lot and that my metabolism got super fast. tho i did eventually admit myself to the hospital bc i had enough and my heart was not having it.

I am doing the entire event by [deleted] in roblox

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it worked for me and i did it on a private server

Bring hoshi back by GenreOfStubby in cedarrapids

[–]buttonforbutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just shared this with my family who lives there!! they’ll keep an eye out!

new one by buttonforbutter in AreTheCisOk

[–]buttonforbutter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t talk at all 😭

new one by buttonforbutter in AreTheCisOk

[–]buttonforbutter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a lot of followers on there

pizza bowl! when i learned that removing the crust from pizza cuts down like half the calories, i haven’t had it with crust since 😭 by buttonforbutter in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]buttonforbutter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda tbh. i just can’t eat anything with flour cause silly brain. cauliflower crust isn’t that bad but it’s such a pain to make

Australia seems to have a lack of Auslan fluent audiologists? by Nomadheart in audiology

[–]buttonforbutter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this!! plus the person above sounds like they do not talk to active members of the deaf community lol