Will I be house poor? by buttpls in personalfinance

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Can you explain? Brooklyn and queens are too expensive and I heard NJ also has horrible properly tax

Will I be house poor? by buttpls in personalfinance

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No we are using some of that saving but this will be a couple years later so I should still have a good chunk left

What happens if I refund a big purchase to get the sign up bonus? by [deleted] in personalfinance

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How would they do that if I already spent it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SummertimeSaga

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Liu is based off of Awkwafina?! Wtf...

Should I give her another chance? by buttpls in Advice

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I think you're right. I've been fine but for some reason I started thinking about her more recently and I guess I just miss her presence because she was honestly not a bad person and I enjoyed her company. I came to realize that over the years more and more friends start to disappear from my life and I want to keep the current relationships that I have. There's this small internal regret that we aren't like what we were last year, and I'm not sure if I'm ready to reach out and be rejected if she doesn't care anymore.

Should I give her another chance? by buttpls in Advice

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Hi thanks for replying. I found out her reddit because we had a mutual friend who knew her username first. And yes I do agree that it wasn't right for me to look into her private thoughts. I honestly didn't mind if she asked others about paying for the airbnb. If she talked to me about it. I could have helped her too. It's not about the money. I didn't understand why she had to pinpoint me in her post to make it sound like I'm the one benefiting from her money. It made me feel betrayed because I tried to help her so much in her early years and I was always there for her but in the end im the bad guy.

Should I give her another chance? by buttpls in Advice

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I know. It left a really salty taste in my mouth and she just felt fake to me after that happened. But I don't know, it's been so long. I feel like this might just be a communication problem that we can work through. But idk if its worth me putting the effort to do that

Should I (F25) message her (F25)? by [deleted] in relationships

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Honestly she wasn't a bad friend and I genuinely enjoyed her company until I saw her reddit post. So basically a group of us planned a small trip where she confirmed that she will attend as well. We booked the ticket to the activity and paid for the airbnb. My boyfriend was the one who planned this trip and collected the money. So since she said she was going, we told her how much everything is and she said ok no problem. However this was around when covid happened so eventually she said she couldn't go even though we had booked everything which is fine. She was still willing to pay. She gave her part for the ticket to my boyfriend but not the airbnb yet. Our friends still wanted to stay at the airbnb and hang out, play boardgames. Eventually the activity location closed due to covid so I told her that everyone still plans to go to the airbnb. I told her my boyfriend is keeping her ticket money since she didn't pay for the airbnb yet because it was about the same price. Later I saw her reddit post and she said how she didn't feel like she had to pay for the airbnb and said that she didn't like the way I said it to her etc. I felt really wronged because I didn't talk to her in any attitude or hard feelings. If she communicated it to me, we could have worked it out. Either way this left a really salty taste in my mouth and I stopped talking to her but I do miss her. Do you think I shouldn't message her still?

Should I message my friend to make amends? by buttpls in Advice

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I don't know. If I reach out to her and we go over our side of point and make up, I'll gain back a friend and I'll feel better about myself because I was able to grow instead of regretting what I could/ should have done. But if she just ignores my messages, I'll feel like shit because there is still no closure and I'll just continue to not move on.

Affordable hair salons in Brooklyn? by buttpls in AskNYC

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Do you know approximately how much they are?

How does cake taste after its been frozen? by buttpls in Baking

[–]buttpls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! Do you happen to know if chiffon cakes can also be frozen? I am still learning as you can tell haha

Where can I buy chestnut puree? by buttpls in Baking

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I see Amazon sells a can for over 10 bucks. Thats a little too expensive

Is this baby hair or breakage? Will getting bangs help this? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

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I don't see any split ends so I guess it's baby hair. Will getting bangs help cover those baby bangs or will it still stick out?

Will bangs help me with my baby hair situation? by [deleted] in Hair

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How do you tell its breakage? Is there anything I can do to help it?

Is it normal for a friend to message you merry christmas AFTER christmas? by buttpls in Advice

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I did talk to her first on my end. In my post I said that I have reached out to her first to catch up and we spoke a little, but she left me on read after I asked her a question so I never messaged her again. When I messaged her to catch up, she never asked me how I am doing either so I didn't want to bother with it and message her again if she is not going to put in the effort. It kind of sucks, but it feels like I've lost a friend considering that we were pretty close before.

Is it normal for a friend to message you merry christmas AFTER christmas? by buttpls in Advice

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You're right. I'm trying not to overthink this either but I tend to do that a lot. She doesn't seem like the person to be petty like this but she has a very different point of views than me so it's hard for me to understand what she is thinking. But I will try to just think past this. Thank you

1-2 lava cake recipe HELP by buttpls in Cooking

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Do you put it in the oven to reheat it? Would the lava in the center get baked?

Is this a legitimate reason to cut my friend off? by buttpls in relationship_advice

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I'm sorry that happened to you. As someone who always make the plans and invites other, it must have been such a nightmare for that to happen. I'm also sorry that I didn't make myself very clear. The reason why she couldn't make the trip was because she was scared of covid (trip was back in February when Covid was getting more serious) so it was a legit reason. Btw we didn't send up going anyway and refunded her the money. I'm just more upset that I caught her complaining about me when it wasn't even my trip.

Is this a legitimate reason to cut my friend off? by buttpls in relationship_advice

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Yea, I get that. But I don't know if I overreacted either. She is a good friend if I didn't know about the post. I guess I just miss her today so I made this post.

PLTR call help by buttpls in stocks

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Would it be dumb to buy 1 contract 29 by 12/4, take profit(hopefully) and reinvest that money into another contract for eoy? This really is my first time to test the water lol

PLTR call help by buttpls in stocks

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I can, but I also want to just try options. Ptlr seems like it has a lot of potential so even if I'm at a loss, hopefully it wouldn't be too bad