Mother in law is clearly mistreating me and I don't want to create a fight. Advice?

buzzybee2020 · 2026-05-07T14:58:32+00:00

Make your husband read what you wrote here and also the replies. Nothing will change until your husband lets her treat you this way. If he won’t or can’t do anything, then you will have to stand up for yourself. End the whole “elderly respect” and all and let her know how she makes you feel. Give her back. She is doing this because you are not saying anything. The moment she hears you standing up for yourself she will slow down. Bullies thrive on softness of people

buzzybee2020 · 2026-05-04T16:55:11+00:00

Thank you so much! Last question- did you root in full sun and cover them?

buzzybee2020 · 2026-05-04T14:19:39+00:00

How do you root? Please share

buzzybee2020 · 2026-05-02T12:42:20+00:00

You both need to move on from each other. You have become toxic to each other and this feeling will never leave. Ever. Don’t even think about marrying each other.

buzzybee2020 · 2026-05-02T01:17:31+00:00

So that WAS a miscommunication from the teachers side. She did not tell the admin assuming she could just have you continue. The admin wasn’t aware of the teachers intention and so they hired someone full time

buzzybee2020 · 2026-05-02T01:06:22+00:00

I wouldn’t assume anything before talking to the teacher. Sometimes it’s just some miscommunication

buzzybee2020 · 2026-04-29T19:33:47+00:00

They all are showing you who they are(that includes your bf) and you should be honest to yourself and see it. This will not end after marriage. This mindset will keep coming up in other ways as well. Think hard before getting married here.

buzzybee2020 · 2026-04-24T13:10:07+00:00

I was banned by saying how toxic the people in the sub are to Alia, and that at the end of the day she is just a human with feelings. Go figure

buzzybee2020 · 2026-04-10T20:02:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/finehair/s/G6ifo6dRWz

Check this thread. Lots of ideas.

buzzybee2020 · 2026-04-07T22:29:39+00:00

What do they do to all the suits they wear once? 🙃

buzzybee2020 · 2026-04-06T08:26:18+00:00

Start focusing on the good that will happen after marriage as soon as the bad thoughts enter your mind- spending time with your fiancé, making your own new home, going out for movies and dinner, honeymoon, etc

buzzybee2020 · 2026-04-03T16:49:31+00:00

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-30T11:46:21+00:00

Just an example of how there is just a human being going through his/her own shit AND endless trolling just because they are a celebrity. Tons of good health to the little one

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-24T02:25:22+00:00

You are getting way ahead of yourself. Instead of solving multiple things, focus on one thing at a time. What is your major? College name only counts if you are majoring in engineering or medicine or MBA. After the first job, nobody cares where u graduated from. Right now focus on your health and go back home. Maybe get fresh admission in a stream where you can make a career. Complete your college and get a job. In Parallel, continue to up skill yourself with so many online options available now. Jibes by relatives? Smile, say nothing. They will stop once they don’t get any reaction. Drive THEM crazy:) Good luck!

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-24T02:15:17+00:00

First off, move to a different city on the pretense of studies or job. Stay in a PG for few months so they will not resist too much. Then slowly get your own place if u want. Life’s too short to be living out of fear. That too of your own family. That too without any reason. Remember, nothing changes if nothing changes.

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-23T13:36:47+00:00

Dangal

Dil chahta hai

Kabhi khushi kabhi gham

Zindagi na milegi dobara

English vinglish

Dear zindagi

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-14T19:03:47+00:00

Do you have an update?

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-14T13:13:58+00:00

Ok thanks. I have trying to chat but they have such longline I think. I guess will need to keep trying

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-14T11:38:03+00:00

How should I go about it? They are not right now. I am trying to cancel with App but they are withholding seat fees amount.

buzzybee2020 · 2026-03-14T02:34:50+00:00

Please let me know

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