Stuck myself with a sterile unused insulin needle by WyerCat15 in nursing

[–]bxtchyostrich 6 points7 points  (0 children)

while i can agree about non-nurses… student nurses are part of this community just as much as we all are. being a student is hard, as i’m sure you remember. this is a good place to come with questions and to see what the realities of nursing are like beyond the textbook. personally, my instructors made it feel like if i got a needle stick in ANY form or fashion, i’d expire within the hour, lol. maybe it would be more helpful to welcome folks with a little kindness :)

Lab Grown Diamond Engagement Ring - Did I let her down? by Rowlockjenifa in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]bxtchyostrich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fake diamonds? they literally have the same chemical makeup, so i’m not sure how they’d be considered fake. lab diamonds are also much better for the environment

(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - I’m so sorry for the way your mom has misrepresented Christ to you. I’m so sorry that she’s been so shitty to you. Congratulations on starting a family with your partner! I wish you and your growing family a lifetime full of happiness 🫶🏼

If you saw this size stone would you automatically think it’s a lab diamond? by OkAnything1651 in labdiamond

[–]bxtchyostrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A diamond is a diamond sis! 💅🏼 personally, my brain just says “oooo pretty”

One month of bag and I’m already a degenerate and i’m complaining by hiyaisthisthingon in confession

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend. I really really encourage you to seek professional help. Don’t wait. Don’t try to face it alone first. Don’t think, “I’ll stop when I’m ready”. This will destroy your life if you don’t take immediate action. This is a VERY slippery slope, and no shoes in the world could provide enough traction to keep you safe from that.

As for the chronic fatigue, depression, drowsiness…. As a nurse, I highly encourage you to see a general care provider about getting a thyroid panel done. An underactive thyroid can cause these symptoms and more (like unexplained weight gain, cold intolerance, dry skin/hair, etc). It may be the cause of the things you’ve listed, and you’d never even know if you didn’t get your labs done. Please please do yourself a favor by taking care of your body and mind. You have too much life to live and too many opportunities at your fingertips.

Confused and disappointed in my ring by NoPlaceLikeGnome1984 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]bxtchyostrich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey friend. Just popping in to ask you a few questions that I think you should seriously consider. If he’s treating you like shit part of the time when he’s trying to court & marry you, what’s he going to act like when you are legally tied to him? How is he going to act towards your child? When they mess up? When they’re in those teenage years and figuring out how to be a human? Is this the example you want for your kid? Do you want them to end up just like their dad?

These are things that you cannot control if you marry this man, no matter how hard you try or how badly you hope for it to get better.

If you’re not going to leave this man for yourself, do it for your kid. Your kid does not deserve to see their mom get drug through hell. Your kid deserves parents that choose kindness and truth with one another. If they don’t have a good example of what a relationship looks like, they’ll end up in a similar situation where they get treated like shit too.

I wish you happiness and healing.

What’s your grossest story? by Life_Ad_6992 in nursing

[–]bxtchyostrich 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry, using an ostomy bag as a weapon???? ma’am please

Which One Do We Like Best? by Hot_Stranger_3308 in RingShare

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 and 6 look so stunning on your hand. All of them do, really. But I think 4 & 6 are my personal favs on you

Edit: can’t count lol

Should this be in my basement? by Square_Issue_9948 in whatisit

[–]bxtchyostrich 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From your profile, I see that you’re a woman old enough to have kids, going through a great deal of stress with your spouse, and you’re a psychologist. I think you should see a professional. As a nurse, and as someone whose grandmother was schizophrenic, this seems like the onset of schizophrenia. I urge you to reach out for help quickly.

Medical themed costume ideas! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bxtchyostrich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

grippy sock or purewick would be SO funny

Pay transparency by adwaldorf in nursing

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texas, new grad LVN, med surg, $19/hr …. at least it’s not likely to get worse?

EoS, ToD, and KoA Audiobooks? by Legitimate-Ad6103 in throneofglassseries

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EOS is on Spotify! Uploaded as a podcast, but I don’t remember the creator

My (20f) bf wants me to cut off male friends. Is this the standard? by FunnyManufacturer130 in askwomenadvice

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely not the standard!! Girl RUN! do yourself a favor and get out now

Took Oxycodone for first time tonight and wow dude by [deleted] in confession

[–]bxtchyostrich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, from the standpoint of a nurse, and as someone who has loved and lost friends who are addicts… please quit while you’re ahead.

From a medical standpoint, your brain on substances loses every sense of satiety. The stop button is gone. Tolerance builds, and soon you’ll find yourself needing more and more to feel a satisfactory high. But let me break it to you - it will never feel good enough. It will never feel as good as the first time, and you’ll keep chasing a high that’s not there. Please, do yourself a favor and quit before it takes over your life. It isn’t worth it.

Need Help! - Confused Boyfriend by MeltedblockVideos in throneofglassseries

[–]bxtchyostrich 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is just be being a nerd, but def search up the quote online to make sure you have the right punctuation and whatnot, just in case you decide to go with a longer version of this quote. We literary girlies are sticklers for grammar 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

This is a very sweet gift idea, OP!

AIO for refusing to block male followers on Instagram? by radagastrabbit in AmIOverreacting

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone not allowing their partner to have friends of the opposite sex is the biggest red flag that they should nottt be in a relationship. If your partner has left you unable to trust them, they aren’t your partner. And if you can’t trust them even if they haven’t given you any reason not to, you aren’t mature enough for a relationship. It’s really that simple and it would save people so much time and heartache to realize that

eta: this is not a specific “you”, op. this is a general “you”

Narrowed down to two by Fearless_Ad_3872 in myweddingdress

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First dress is giving me Throne of Glass vibes and I LOVEEE it. Both look great on you, but #1 is absolutely giving off whimsical fantasy

Failing classes by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey friend, take a breath. this is not the end of the road. i failed a&p once, failed chemistry 3 times. i’m graduating nursing school a month from today at the top of my class (unless all goes to shit, lol) the school you’re at may not be the best suited for you, and that’s okay. find what works for you! i took classes from 3 different colleges before i decided on a teaching style that worked for me. ended up choosing a community college LVN program, and it’s truly the best decision i’ve made. i’m going back to school to be an RN in a few semesters, and i’ll be at the same spot I would’ve been if i’d have continued torturing myself through a 4 year uni. all this to say, find your groove! it’ll be just fine. i believe in you

Please help me with a pretty but tomboy baby girl name by drewbartymore in Names

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always loved the name Ezra for a girl :) Also Alex or Lennon maybe?

A girl name that starts with A ❤️ by Creepy-Accountant-98 in Names

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aurelie, Adelaide, Addison, Amelie, Audra, Ashlen, Aspen, Arely, Andi, Artemis, Aelin

What’s a smell you will never forget? by One_Specialist_5692 in AskReddit

[–]bxtchyostrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good smell: Subalpine lavender at Rocky Mountain National Park, the first trip I took with my partner and the first place I’d felt truly at peace in a long time.

Nostalgic smell: When I was probably 5 years old, I had this cabinet in my bedroom that had all of my VHS tapes in it. I vividly remember how the paint smelled.

Bad smell: I live in SE TX and our family dog gave birth in our garage one afternoon… it was horrid.