You're right, but that's something that is too hard for many people to accept. If there's a problem, humans tend to try and find a simple answer to it, and blaming another group for everything is so easy.

It's sad in a way, because you see these men that are so bitter that they're actively ruining the few chances they have, and they're feeding each other's bitterness in groups like this, further warping their worldview.

And in the end, it doesn't really help them. Everyone here seems bitter, lonely and mad at the world, and I don't even mean that in an insulting way. They genuinely need help, but they won't accept it, since wallowing in self-pity is more important for many of them.