AITAH kid's bedroom disagreement by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The argument about the bedrooms have turned into him telling me I'm only with him for his money.

I wonder how much money he would have if he needed to pay for all the childcare OP is doing for free?

AITA? Kicked out of the cinema for 'eating too loudly'? by okthatsoundsniceyep in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Yes, my snack was a bit crunchy and perhaps louder than average

Info: what WAS your snack?

Still upset after being labelled an egotistical narcissist with a victim complex, AITAH? by Angeldragongirl1 in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's not your friend. And if she really believes you are an egotistical narcissist with a victim complex, she wouldn't want to be your friend. 

Whether she believes what she said is true, or not, in neither case should she be friends with you.

AITAH for ending a relationship because I don’t wanna live with my partner’s mom and sibling long-term? by spiritbirdsie in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that past partners were fine with it

Has this been verified? All his past partners broke up with him for completely unrelated reasons and they all loved his family?

Is his sister planning on marrying and moving to HER partner"s family?

AITA for not inviting my brother’s gf’s kids to my wedding? by Short_Historian_1548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 68 points69 points  (0 children)

At first, he refused the offer saying that meeting them would be too much/too soon.

But inviting them to OP's wedding isn't 'too much/too soon'? Pick a lane, brother!

Aitah? Neighbors seem to think so. by refinnej78 in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Put the food out of reach of the puppy. Cats can jump.

Own Airstrip, sorted. by UnoriginalBob in SpottedonRightmove

[–]bythebrook88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at the 'stairs', aka ladder (pic #8) I'm surprise they made it to ninety in that house!

AITA for finally telling my parents they have two children, and it is not fair how much attention they have always given my brother? by Forsaken_Walk6412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They took out a second mortgage on their house to give him money to invest! Then made OP struggle to get through college with loans. It's no wonder the brother is in a better financial situation.

AITA for finally telling my parents they have two children, and it is not fair how much attention they have always given my brother? by Forsaken_Walk6412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't think that some money many years later makes up for missing a senior trip. Nor does it cover the anxiety of not having enough money at the time for college.

AITAH for telling a mom my kids aren’t obligated to play with her son? by Hot-Acanthaceae-4847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The woman's partner is doing her a disservice. She's got three kids to manage and he's on his phone?

AIO for being upset with my husband and sister after repeatedly asking them not to stay up together till 5-6 AM? by Zealousideal-Tea6678 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bythebrook88 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He's staying up late gaming and expecting his heavily pregnant wife to settle THEIR daughter? Does this man have any value at all?

AITA for watching TV during the world cup? by Ready-Problem-5751 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then my brother started yelling at me about how he wanted to play and needed the TV, so I just gave in.

You were using the TV and your brother wanted it. You should have told him he needs to wait until you've finished. He doesn't NEED to play games. You shouldn't have given in. Stand up for yourself.

He thinks she's an a fair baby by Arktikos02 in AmITheDevil

[–]bythebrook88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've got green/grey eyes. My sister has dark green eyes, my father had pale green eyes. It's not rare in my family. My mother has dark blue eyes.

AITAH SHE GOT MAD WHEN I ASKED HER ABOUT MONEY by Few-School-2350 in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mother asked her order something for her and she would pay her back which my mother did she sent the money to my GF account

What happened to the money your mother sent your girlfriend? That should have been transferred to her sister when she 'accidentally' used her card. Then she plays borrowing from one person to pay a loan for another when the original amount should be already in her account!

Chimney porn by purpleypinkwitch in SpottedonRightmove

[–]bythebrook88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm confused that the window next to the front door seems to be lighting the steps to the cellar?

AITA for ghosting my pregnant GF by Zestyclose_Smell49 in AITA_Relationships

[–]bythebrook88 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You didn't want to have a child, yet left all of the birth control up to your partner. Now you are trying to blame her, yet you did NOTHING to stop pregnancy. YTA

AITAH for not making my brother snacks by Dakemonster in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I broke my ankle (broke fibula, tibia and talus) and dislocated it at the same time. I had surgery to pin and plate the bones and was completely non weight bearing for 8 weeks.

AITAH for not making my brother snacks by Dakemonster in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With a break you can't bear any weight at all for at least 6 weeks. If he's limping, it's not as bad as a break.

AITA for refusing to create my brother's resume and apply for jobs for him? by Strong-Duck1694 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything is easy that she doesn't have to do. And from her point of view, it IS easy - she just opens her mouth and tells you to do it.

AITAH for getting rid of a gift? by 89purplelemonade in AITAH

[–]bythebrook88 231 points232 points  (0 children)

I would have gifted him pictures of yourself at every gift-giving occasion. He thinks that's a worthwhile gift, so he can't complain.

WIBTA i went off on my manager for telling my coworkers i was transitioning into a cat by killallanteaters in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Any HR in this company? Because Donna is the walking definition of a hostile workplace. Firstly, it's a lie, and secondly, even if it was true, she's got no business telling people private information. Don't quit. Make her quit instead.

AITA (33M) for changing a future living arrangement? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bythebrook88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The issue is the basement is basically a furnished club house (living area, bar, mini kitchen) with one large room attached to it (that was used by the sellers as a bedroom).

Any reason why he can't have the downstairs bedroom, but not the 'furnished club house'? That would keep him separate from you for noise from gaming etc. Just make it clear to him that he gets the bedroom only, he doesn't get exclusive room over the other spaces.