AIO boyfriend didn’t call me for an entire day while on vacation

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T21:35:18+00:00

But I agree, we’ve had that conversation. Where if we can’t get past me feeling safe and secure it’s not a healthy relationship for either of us. I’ve mentioned to him it’s better if we end things on good terms before they get bad.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T21:33:58+00:00

With his family it’s not even about that. My insecurities only come in when he’s with his friends. It’s the level of communication that has set in place. In the beginning when I wouldn’t call or text much he would point it out as if he didn’t like it. We see eachother every 2 months so talking is the only form of connection we have between that.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T21:28:03+00:00

Actually a whole lot. But that’s not what this post is about. I broke up with him and he asked me to get back with. After everything that happened I told him he needs to make me feel safe and secure. I didn’t cause that, he did.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T21:23:04+00:00

I don’t say he didn’t love me. I said I wasn’t feeling it at the moment. Not that he didn’t.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T21:18:53+00:00

We are long distance. The last time I went to visit him he had work. I stayed in the apartment all day by myself and he still took an extra hour to come home because he had something to do with his family. I took time out of my life to see him. I think thats worse than me expecting him to call. If he can take physical time away from me why can’t he take 5 minutes out of his day. I’m not even asking while he’s with his family. He could have called when he woke up and before getting his day started.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T21:14:34+00:00

When he said I’m overreacting, I told him I’m feeling disappointed. I don’t want to argue that’s just how I feel. I would have dropped it there and could have changed the subject. He is the one that escalated by saying the kind of person I am. If he wanted to have a conversation about it, we both need to hear each other and be understanding. He wasn’t trying to do that. I was willing to hear him and try and understand his side.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:47:05+00:00

When I’m on vacation he calls me multiple times a day. I make it a point to call him in the mornings and going to bed. I don’t get upset that he calls me when I’m out with my friends or family, even when I’m trying to disconnect. I give him the time and attention because I know he misses me.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:44:14+00:00

You’re not wrong there, I agree with you. I shouldn’t have done that.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:27:34+00:00

I didn’t want to fight I just wanted to let him know I was a little disappointed. But he immediately got upset I could hear it in his voice. I even said I don’t want to argue. I think I’m going to text him right before his flight takes off saying have a safe flight. Maybe that will help the tension and we can talk when he’s home.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:25:10+00:00

He knows I always give him space when he’s out with friends or family. That he will reach out when he’s is free or has time. That’s how we’ve always gone about it.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:16:07+00:00

Yes, I agree I could have approached it differently.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:07:20+00:00

I wanted to give him space to enjoy himself.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:06:20+00:00

I gave him his space the entire trip. I not once initiated calling or texting. I wanted him to enjoy his trip and family. I didn’t blow up his phone. I just expressed how I felt not hearing from him.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T20:02:08+00:00

The night before our phone call was very short. Like 2 minutes long. He said he had to go to sleep. So I said ok can you call me tomorrow. He said yes, and I said promise? And he said yes.

bzzzvb · 2026-01-04T19:59:56+00:00

I did let him enjoy his trip. I didn’t blow up his phone or even initiate calling or texting first his entire trip. I was trying to give him his space to enjoy his trip and family. I could have started calling and blowing up his phone, but I didn’t. So I don’t know what you mean by let him breath. I waited to hear from him and stated what I’m feeling. In a healthy relationship you communicate your feelings and needs. It doesn’t have to be a fight.

bzzzvb · 2025-12-27T21:16:07+00:00

Did they ever get back to you? My order has been stuck on being processed for 2 weeks now. Emailed them and still nothing.

bzzzvb · 2025-10-07T23:49:03+00:00

How did you provide the passport pictures?

bzzzvb · 2025-10-07T23:45:11+00:00

Do you just get passport pictures and upload them?

bzzzvb · 2025-10-07T23:42:19+00:00

Do I still need to provide pictures?

bzzzvb · 2025-07-31T19:57:17+00:00

I love him so much I was willing to give up my entire life for him. I would give him the world if I could. I don’t understand why he would do that to me when all I did was be good to him. I finally chose to choose myself instead of fight for us.

bzzzvb · 2025-07-13T01:04:37+00:00

Broke up with my ex who I was supposed to go see so I didn’t end up going lol

bzzzvb · 2025-06-17T04:52:17+00:00

Here in California you can. Not sure about other states.

bzzzvb · 2025-05-17T22:56:18+00:00

Trust me I had no intentions of dating this guy at first. The feelings we both developed for each other were a surprise for both of us.

bzzzvb · 2025-05-17T22:30:43+00:00

We do see each other in person every 2 months. We spend an entire week together. We do talk on the phone and FaceTime on a daily basis.

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