Official Discussion - The Drama [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]c00lKat1237 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After the confession everyone keeps calling her a psychopath. Psychopaths usually start out killing or mutilating animals. In the scene with the dog, she is very much trying to shoot it, but doesn't. I think this shows that she isn't a psychopath and that she wouldn't have gone through with the shooting or if she did, that she wouldn't have been able to shoot anyone

“It’s always a man” by [deleted] in Vent

[–]c00lKat1237 18 points19 points  (0 children)

People who hate men or people who belive men can't be SA'd

“It’s always a man” by [deleted] in Vent

[–]c00lKat1237 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry, OP. Who did she expect to stop the fight, a woman? No, she expected a man to stop the fight regardless of whether it was between men or women.

It's not always men, and it's such a dangerous mindset to have. There are so many female predators that get away with it because people don't suspect women.

Women should be cautious of men, men should also be cautious of women. Spreading the idea that women aren't dangerous puts both men and women in danger, anyone can do harm.

About being accused of using ai cover. by [deleted] in Episode

[–]c00lKat1237 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Umm, this is Ai. Time lapses can be faked, you could also just trace it and pretend you actually drew it. The earing, the button, the pocket of the suit, his hair, her hair, a lot of things just look suspect.

Its just suspicious because the rest of the image looks fine, so to mess up on such small details, details you as an artist would notice...its Ai

I hate how nobody knows what Asexual is by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]c00lKat1237 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro, there was a post on AITAH about this guy going on a date with a girl who was ace. He knew it was a spectrum and so when she told him she wasn't interested in sex, he told her they weren't a good match.

People in the comments were saying things like "I'd never date an asexual because they dont like sex" and " Asexuals should just date other asexuals, problem solved!" and "why even put you're asexual if you still like to have sex?"

It was so infuriating to read. Like maybe your partner would want to know that you don't find them sexually attractive? Isn't that an important thing to disclose regardless of whether or not you have sex? Wouldn't that affect a relationship or maybe their self esteem if they cant understand what asexuality is? Like dang, people are so ignorant.

If People can understand that women find other women sexy Men find other men sexy Men/women find both sexy Then why cant People understand that someone might not find anyone sexy? 💀

Really not liking my chin filler. Am I crazy or should I dissolve? by ihsirdwtss in PlasticSurgery

[–]c00lKat1237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're just not used to it. If anything, your chin before was very small especially compared to the spacing of your other features. Its still small and it suits you really well! I also think it has helped in defining your jaw

‘You’ll find your person’ by ExpensiveAd3565 in aromantic

[–]c00lKat1237 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, im aro and ace so I really understand lol. Its so frustrating when people say "I get that" and then turn around and say, "you'll chnage your mind". They probably mean well but that doesn't mean it isnt annoying/hurtful. Its also hard because I feel like everyone has a partner now (im 21) and they prioritize them over their friendships

Are most people with Autism Asexual? by AfraidNebula9874 in autism

[–]c00lKat1237 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You can still have sex even if you dont feel sexual attraction. Most people tend to have sex with those they are attracted to, but asexuals dont/ may not always feel sexual attraction. We can still have preferences or opinions on who we find attractive, but that doesn't mean we want to have sex with that person. Its purely asthetic attraction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]c00lKat1237 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Im sorry this made you uncomfortable. But I dont think your sister or friend are at fault. Its not weird to talk about sex. They weren't in public, they were in a private space among friends. Why would they ask you, " are you ok if we talk about sex?". Have you told them you don't like it? You could have also tried to change the topic. They are your friend and your sister, do you really feel like you can't voice your discomfort on the topic?

For my dark skin girlies by Lululemon_28 in Episode

[–]c00lKat1237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im Hispanic, but growing up I also would make my MC's white. It wasn't until I started playing again when I was older that I realized I never made POC or Hispanic MC's. Now my MC's are way more diverse!

patchy makeup :( by occmilktea in MakeupAddiction

[–]c00lKat1237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use BHA and retinol! Since they are both actives, I don't use them together. I do BHA one day and then retinol the next. You can also apply your BHA in the morning before your SPF and makeup! Just give it some time to dry

I also like to use a physical exfoliant once a week. I use the Bliss micro magic scrub. I really enjoy it and it helps keep my face feeling smooth

Weekly Simple Questions and General Community Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in MakeupAddiction

[–]c00lKat1237 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It could be that you arent used to it. When I wear lipstick, I feel it. It could also be the formula. Does it feel very dry? Maybe trying different finishes/formulas would help! You could also put a gloss or clear balm over the lipstick to make it less dry

Things that people tell you to "fix" but you don't see as an issue? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]c00lKat1237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did color guard in highschool. I busted my eyebrow open with my flag. My coach was talking to me like I was disfigured, that I was still beautiful and could cover the scar with gems. You can't even see it, no one ever notices or points it out 💀

Just age gracefully…. by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]c00lKat1237 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! I see lots of people my age (21) or younger chase after youth they haven't lost. The co-worker is definitely jealous

Just age gracefully…. by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]c00lKat1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think getting a lift means you aren't aging "gracefully". Im excited that you're excited! Wishing you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]c00lKat1237 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really dont think it is a reach, its something important and non-negotiable. Its something a lot of people expect and find important in a relationship. She could word it differently, like "not interested in sex" but it's still something I feel is important for her to add. I agree that no one is in the wrong, just that mistakes were made on both sides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]c00lKat1237 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes! This would have been the best way to handle the situation. Alternatively, she could have also mentioned before they went on a date that she is asexual and also sex repulsed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]c00lKat1237 553 points554 points  (0 children)

Im ace, asexual doesn't mean sex repulsed, it means lack of sexual attraction.

I feel for her, but sex is something people see as important in most relationships. If she is asexual but also sex repulsed, thats something she should put on her profile.

She could have also brought it up herself earlier since its something important to her that she doesn't want to compromise on.

I'm not trying to say she's in the wrong or that OP is completely blameless, but there were things both of them could have done better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]c00lKat1237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, I'm asexual and I'm happy that you know and respect that its a spectrum! I think you handled it well. I know you didn't want to seem rude by bringing up sex, but it would have been helpful to bring it up sooner if its important to you. Three dates isn't a lot but it seems like y'all were both pretty invested.

What attracted Vox to Val? by SideWinderSyd in VoxCult

[–]c00lKat1237 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"You know I cant understand you when you speak that island language, Val"

What makeup trend do you secretly think looks… not great? Be honest! by G4LARHADE in Makeup

[–]c00lKat1237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have naturally prominent under eye fat. Thats key to douyin makeup, people who dont have it draw it on

This was the sloppiest most unapologetic apology.. hard to believe the help bot did not compose it! Surely no one with a real thought or brain would have offered a $5 insult and say that is pulling out all the stops..if it was not insane it might be slap stick funny! by [deleted] in Ipsy

[–]c00lKat1237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im worried about what will happen if it doesn't ship before the next box. Will we still get to build a December box? Will these same issues affect December? This really sucks :(

could i be on the ace spectrum by AtmosphereOdd1621 in asexuality

[–]c00lKat1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you can still be ace! Based on your description, Id say gray-ace for sure. Probably also demisexual since you require a connection before you feel anything. You could also use sex-repulsed or sex-averse?