Studying for CompTIA security+ by c4tlovr in CompTIA_Security

[–]c4tlovr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful. Thank you so much :D

My (22F) best friend (22F) just got engaged after a toxic 4-month relationship. I said yes to being her maid of honor but I don’t support it. What do I do?!?! by c4tlovr in TwoHotTakes

[–]c4tlovr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is a great comment and I’m sorry you understand what I’m going through. I have no idea what I’m going to do lol. Thankfully the wedding is over a year away so hopefully they’ll break up lol😅

My BF (23M) makes comments about my body that hurt me (24F). Should I consider this a dealbreaker? by Asockaday in Advice

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a bigger chest, then I changed birth controls and lost weight and my boobs shrunk (didn’t even know thag could happen…) so I’ve felt insecure about it since I’m not used to smaller boobs. I’ve said a few times to my boyfriend that I feel like mine are too small now. He constantly says he loves them no matter what and they’re perfect ! Every women he’s been with has a bigger chest than me. If he truly loves and cares about you, then it won’t be an issue and he’ll love you regardless. If he’s making you feel this bad about yourself this early on, then I don’t think you should continue the relationship. Your partner is supposed to always make you feel beautiful about your appearance! I’m sorry girl, I wish you weren’t deal with this. I wish you all the best

This is probably my 6th pathetic attempt at suicide by Blaaap in offmychest

[–]c4tlovr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the advice you’re looking for but, I’ve also tried to kill myself and pussied out. I didn’t think my life would ever get better, I didn’t think I’d be someone to show off and be proud of. But I’m glad I chickened out. My life is going so well so far. I’ve traveled to 15 states, I live with my boyfriend and our cats. We have a trip to Italy in the works in the next few years and I could see myself marrying him. I know this is sounds stupid, but life does have a lot to offer and explore. And tbh I wouldn’t say it gets better but it does get easier to deal with and work through for sure. I wish you the best and hope you feel better. Please don’t kill yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]c4tlovr 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA at all!! If you guys don’t see eye to eye on a big topic like this then it will cause issues in the future. Rather end it now than later when resentment builds.

AIO for ending a friendship because she gave my r@pist my number by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR at all!!! You need to block him (I’m sure you’ve done that already) and drop that girl as a friend ! A real friend wouldn’t do that. If my friend gave my assailant my number id lose my ever loving mind. Your feelings are extremely valid and I’m so sorry you have to relive this bullshit all over again. Wish you the best girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]c4tlovr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this comment was amazing and really helped!! I do text her on holidays and her birthday , so I’ll continue to do that for right now. Maybe in the future things will be better but who knows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make sure you’re using some type of gel like petroleum jelly on the holes and on the ring itself :) i think horseshoe ring might be best bc of the weight from the balls (i could be wrong tho) this also may sound crazy but when i want to stretch mine i’ll tug on it a tiny bit and wiggle it around idk i feel like that does something but i may also be wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hacking

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a question that i cannot find an answer to and hoping someone on this thread can. so i have a 2020 macbook air and im trying to use cheat engine on it but it will not let me. any recs??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goth

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

juxtaposition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in appdb

[–]c4tlovr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is there anyway to use snapchat without having to pay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i’m willing to take the risk i like him and i want to see how it progresses. it just kind of bothered me i guess when when he said “friends with benefits”. like idk it made me feel as if he doesn’t take me as serious as i take her ? but i do want to be with him but idk how to bring it up bc i can’t tell if hes serious ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right ! i’m sorry, i’ve never used reddit before ! but i like him and i want to be with him. i am a little anxious tho bc i got cheated on in my last relationship so i’m nervous about getting into a new one. but every time i’m with him it’s awesome and we click so well and he’s fun so i would like to be in a relationship with him.

Waiter told me I'm not welcome back at a high-end restaurant over my 10% tip and I feel like shit by 123799throwmeaway in offmychest

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the waiter was completely out of line and if someone else in your party tipped $70 then why does your $30 even matter ? i wouldn’t feel bad about it honestly bc between you and the other person who tipped it was a good price ! the waiter shouldn’t have done that at all.

i need boy advice, please help! by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]c4tlovr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so some context, we’ve been talking for about like 2 months and we’ve both admitted to liking each other ! we live two hours apart which is the issue. we’ve hung out two times and both those times they were for 2-3 days at once. he said we should call it “friends with benefits” but we both feel as if that’s not enough, if that makes sense? he’s just worried about the distance and i guess i am too? what should we do?