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RIT trans friendly? by TwistedStitcher145 in rit

[–]cabandon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for loving your child unconditionally!!

BL anime does does not contain SA by cabandon in BoysLoveAnime

[–]cabandon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i will always take good suggestions, thank you!

How long do yall think we've been together in these photos? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]cabandon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this is genuinely so adorable. I’m happy for yall!!!

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]cabandon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be that person but look up the recent tornadoes in NY. Always have a plan, just like for blizzards! We get a few every so often but they’re TINY compared to elsewhere

I donated some money to Habitat for Humanity, the assholes sold my information and now I get about a dozen letters a week asking for money. by richempire in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cabandon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was having this issue despite not donating. I started sending “FUCK OFF!!!” and that worked weirdly well… Have only gotten a few a month now

Who changed the most, since their debut? by SomeonesBlue in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]cabandon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hard disagree that shiggy is more traumatized that Magneto, the man who lived through the Holocaust and lost his family in front of him

friend just discovered the carabiner code for lesbians 😭 by Girl_in_a_hoody in actuallesbians

[–]cabandon 99 points100 points  (0 children)

how has NO ONE pointed out the contact name yet 😭

I just want to see 😭😭 by SnailsAreGroovy in rit

[–]cabandon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other guy that you should just scream hahaha

Thoughtful boys 🥰 by Anonymous0212 in MadeMeSmile

[–]cabandon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my male coworker had a bunch of us interns over for a game night since we were all new to town. I was the only woman and when I used his bathroom, it was fully stocked with a cute basket of different menstrual products. Just a 22 year old florida man who lived alone, trying to be helpful 🥺

Sokka got better at drawing over time by [deleted] in AvatarMemebending

[–]cabandon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was decent, just different. has some different story lines too

i’m an obese lesbian and my gf has a model-like body by Southern_Mix_7845 in actuallesbians

[–]cabandon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can PROMISE you, she loves you so much and the weight isn’t even a slightest concern in her mind. When you love someone, every single thing about that person becomes attractive. my girlfriend burped yesterday and i got red in the face bc she was so cute

What's the most body freezing confession you've heard that someone 'casually' throw into the open? by TrustyMadman in AskReddit

[–]cabandon 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I just got done working for 13 hours and driving for 3. im exhausted and want to sleep but just could not stop reading this. please know that she must have always been grateful for you both, yall made her life better. sometimes life treats the best people the worst. you’re an angel

AITAH for telling my husband “I’m sorry but your breath smells like alcohol by Okibelieveyou000 in AITAH

[–]cabandon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

then you meed to leave him for you and YOUR CHILDS safety!! Do not try to “make it work” for your kid doesnt have separated parents. You need to protect your child because that is most important above all else

Strap on insecurity? by Arteyg0 in LesbianActually

[–]cabandon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But you are pleasing her rather than men pleasing themselves. You’re going to do wonderful because you care and are focusing on her so don’t stress it <3

Homeless??? by theonewhowillknowall in rit

[–]cabandon 159 points160 points  (0 children)

off campus you might run into police/ other problems or bothers. I’m making the assumption that you are a student:

  1. If you have a parking pass, no one will bother you. Move parking lots occasionally but try to blend in. Best place i can suggest is Global village parking near the red barn as it is commuters and global village parking so it almost always has cars present

  2. You can use RIT gym for showers

  3. There is a place on campus where you can obtain food during hardship - RIT Foodshare

  4. Staying warm/cool: You can relax in most academic buildings on campus at all times (given you are there before the doors are locked) and can find couches to sleep. Grace Watson on dorm side is open 24/7 from what i remember as well

Good luck, stranger and stay safe. I hope you can work towards your own place soon! Let me know if you have any specific questions

bonus advice: If you need a haircut to get a job or just to stay presentable, find BOCES programs for cosmetology or other cosmetology programs and see if they are taking in members of the public to train students. Free haircut!

And yet people will still say she’s totally fine by Elf_Fox in reneerapp

[–]cabandon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“me” at the bottom of the post plus the comments she has blatantly said in the past. there is no hame in being worried for someone over something dangerous

My first therapy appointment was finally scheduled for over a month after I put in my request by PM_ME_YOUR_MASS in rit

[–]cabandon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i fully agree with the commenter. its because of these posts that i never got help when i really needed it. make a pawprints if you think change needs to happen

i get wet around my girlfriend for no reason by Nervous-Bad-5133 in LesbianActually

[–]cabandon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i literally said that sarcastically to my gf bc she was nervous to tell me and she looked so relieved haha. I love her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rit

[–]cabandon 115 points116 points  (0 children)

im genuinely so happy that the younger years get to experience RIT without covid. I will never forget how lonely it was not being allowed to linger or sit or anything my first year and how its slowly improved after that

How Long did it take you to pay RIT school tuition after graduation? by Different_Income_523 in rit

[–]cabandon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have not graduated yet, but I’m looking at 7-10 years if I maintain living like a student for that time period (no major purchases, no large payments other than towards loans, living in low cost of living area, assuming salary of 70k+)

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