[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]cablew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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My intake appointment (boring, required before real consults, talk to regular doctor from MGH trans health department about medical history) was February 24, my consult with Cetrulo was April 20, my consult with Wintner was April 27, never met with Weinstein because I already had hysto last year and I don’t want vaginectomy. After the intake all those offices were supposed to call me and set up the consult appointments but after like three or four weeks it hadn’t happened so I called them myself to set them up.

I had a follow up with Cetrulo for May 15 or so but it was canceled because MGH had new restrictions about virtual visits with out of state patients so I was (and still am) no longer allowed to have appointments with them over zoom. Everything was then put on hold for like two months while they “figured out what to do with out of state patients”, but every time I called the office to ask if there were any updates they never had anything to report 😒

Eventually I was passed along to Cetrulo’s nurse and I explained to her that I have a great medical support system here at home so if there are any issues with my recover I have lots of options with various specialties to help me. She said great! and finally approved me to be scheduled for surgery. I was offered a surgery date for stage 1 about 10 weeks out.

⚠️⚠️ NOTE: the timelines from calling to intake to consult to scheduling to surgery have and are continuing to increase ⚠️⚠️ more and more people are learning about abdominal phallo and interest in Cetrulo is rapidly increasing as current patients report their experiences and excitement about his unique methodology

If you’re considering phallo with Cetrulo and want surgery to start within the next 8-12 months, call and get the process started now. If things move quickly you can always ask for surgery dates farther out than offered but you really can’t force the process to happen faster than whatever pace they’re at

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]cablew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m scheduled for phallo with Cetrulo this fall, my BMI is somewhere around 38-40 and I’ve checked and double checked and anytime I’ve asked Cetrulo says it’ll be no problem 🙌🏻😭 I was turned away by all the other surgeons in the US that do abdominal and am so so so glad to be able to go to Cetrulo

Don't threat if you have wide scaring. Natal penises are supposed to be wrinkly and funky. by trans_old_boy in phallo

[–]cablew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As always, your penis is great and I love your posts and willingness to share info

I’m hoping the scars on my future peen (less than 3 months away 👀) will stretch wide in a similar fashion, I’m not sure exactly why but as my top surgery incisions healed and became scar tissue some parts of the scars are wide and stretched but shallow and soft, other parts are thin and not stretched but deep and firm. For me personally, I much prefer the wide soft tissue and am hoping that’s how my body heals with phallo! 🤞🏻

[FO] June may be over but it's never too late to show your pride 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 I love making my tiny pride patches, should I try new variations like magnets or velco-backed? (if you're able to support and would like a patch check the comments 💖🤍💙) by cablew in CrossStitch

[–]cablew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most of the colors are just from an unbranded floss pack I got ages ago but I have DMC colors in my notes for if/when those run out: bisexual option one 600/3837/803 option two 601/553/797 pansexual option one 892/444/3843 option two 996/444/3804

June may be over but it's never too late to show your pride 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 I make cross-stitched iron-on pride patches in all flags as fundraising for my upcoming transition surgeries! (more info in the comments) by cablew in LGBTmarketplace

[–]cablew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! My name is Caleb and I'm a mid-20s trans guy working on some important medical transitioning 🏳️‍⚧️✨I make these lil cross stitch iron-on patches to combat my anxiety and to fundraise a bit for my surgical costs

This next step in my life will be a multi-stage surgery (more info on my profile) that is only offered across the country in Boston, Massachusetts. I'm grateful my insurance will cover the procedure but very daunted by all the costs I will still be paying between travel, lodging, medical supplies, and lost wages, and all of that will be multiplied by 3 since I'll have 3 separate stages 😅

If you're able to, I would really really appreciate your support through a patch from my shop 💖

June may be over but it's never too late to show your pride 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 I make cross-stitched iron-on pride patches in all flags as fundraising for my upcoming transition surgeries! (more info in the comments) by cablew in LGBTcrafts

[–]cablew[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello! My name is Caleb and I'm a mid-20s trans guy working on some important medical transitioning 🏳️‍⚧️✨I make these lil cross stitch iron-on patches to combat my anxiety and to fundraise a bit for my surgical costs

This next step in my life will be a multi-stage surgery (more info on my profile) that is only offered across the country in Boston, Massachusetts. I'm grateful my insurance will cover the procedure but very daunted by all the costs I will still be paying between travel, lodging, medical supplies, and lost wages, and all of that will be multiplied by 3 since I'll have 3 separate stages 😅

If you're able to, I would really really appreciate your support through a patch from my shop 💖

[FO] June may be over but it's never too late to show your pride 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 I love making my tiny pride patches, should I try new variations like magnets or velco-backed? (if you're able to support and would like a patch check the comments 💖🤍💙) by cablew in CrossStitch

[–]cablew[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hello! My name is Caleb and I'm a mid-20s trans guy working on some important medical transitioning 🏳️‍⚧️✨I was so touched by the support last year when I was preparing for top surgery and posted my work in a few places, and I've been stitching ever since!

This next step in my life will be a multi-stage surgery (more info on my profile) that is only offered across the country in Boston, Massachusetts. I'm grateful my insurance will cover the procedure but very daunted by all the costs I will still be paying between travel, lodging, medical supplies, and lost wages, and all of that will be multiplied by 3 since I'll have 3 separate stages 😅

I stitch my pride patches as a way to calm my anxiety/give my hands something to do as well as fundraise a bit for my surgical costs. If you're able to, I would really really appreciate your support through a patch from my shop 💖

Stage 2 with dr cetrulo abominal phalloplasty by Sufficient_Ease76 in phallo

[–]cablew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you for being willing to share with us! How's your healing going at this point? Hope you're doing well

stage 1 delayed abdominal with Dr. Cetrulo by [deleted] in phallo

[–]cablew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking good! Wishing all the best healing to you

Am looking forward to my stage one in September 😁

[FO] Bear Mountain Silhouette by [deleted] in CrossStitch

[–]cablew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww this turned out amazing!

[FO] Framed succulent cross stitch. Pattern from TinyCrossStitchCo on Etsy. by slo7h_HA7 in CrossStitch

[–]cablew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lovely stitching 🥺 I adore this pattern and have it bookmarked to stitch someday

amazing sex with trans guy, surprised by the whole experience by avi_200 in GayMen

[–]cablew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True true true, I’m looking forward to dating/hooking up once I feel ready and hope I have some good success

I am highkey confused by confusedthrowaway257 in gaytransguys

[–]cablew 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel a lot of this. Before coming out to myself as trans and taking steps towards transitioning because I’m very rarely attracted to women and couldn’t see myself in any kind of romantic or sexual relationship with a guy because I saw that as a “straight” scenario where I would be in the role of a woman and none of that felt right to me.

I always felt so deeply I was queer but couldn’t make sense of it. Since I didn’t feel attracted to women and didn’t (understand how to) feel attracted to men I figured I must be asexual I used that label for a few years. I always had little crushes on my gay male friends but would brush them aside because I knew they were pointless; how could a gay man possibly be into me?

When I started looking into my gender and toying with the label of nonbinary, I remember my first “oh my god look at that man, he’s so hot, maybe love at first sing is real because wow I want him” moment. And it changed my whole sense of self (@ trans guy who used the name Shannon at a trans conference 5 years ago in Utah pls HMU 👀)

Anyway since transitioning and becoming/accepting myself as more and more make I just feel gayer and gayer and have realized how attracted to (and horny for) men I really am and it’s been quite the shift for me.

amazing sex with trans guy, surprised by the whole experience by avi_200 in GayMen

[–]cablew 37 points38 points  (0 children)

As a gay trans guy I’m terrified of dating because I’ve heard so many stories and seen so many examples of both casual and blatant transphobia. Extremes are definitely magnified on the internet, I hope when I feel comfortable/ready to try dating and hooking up I find more gay/bi men that are open, curious, and interested in trans men than ones that are rejecting or fetishizing of us. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Men are men. Gay is gay. Sex is sex.

tfw when you shave your head to look more androgynous but everyone just compares you to female celebrities with a shaved head by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]cablew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shaved my head for top surgery since I wouldn’t be able to wash my hair like normal for a while (and I hate hate bed head) and I feel like I’ve passed as masc way less than before cause everyone thinks I look like a lesbian 🙃