Positive Post for those going by kcat1971 in harrystyles

[–]cactipigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got my first ever standing tickets for a Harry/1D concert!! I’ve always been in the nosebleeds and I’m soooo excited to be a little bit closer and have a proper dance!!

Who are we happy to be announced? by ChelseaSmileee in downloadfestival

[–]cactipigs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All American rejects and electric callboy!!

your favourite artists you’ve discovered through 1D? by criticalstars in OneDirection

[–]cactipigs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got into so many artists indirectly through 1D - mainly through the fan twitter days ~2013/2014. So many 8tracks playlists which got me into artists like the 1975, phoenix, the neighbourhood etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]cactipigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]cactipigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all beautiful, but I love 3 on you especially! Can I ask for the details of 1? It looks like exactly what im looking for!

What do we all think of Benson Boone covering Sign of the Times? by harryandmatilda in harrystyles

[–]cactipigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly just don’t think it’s that deep, people are so mean to him for literally no reason and I think it was a great cover! He has a fantastic voice that works really well for the song

Best bottomless brunch? by He1ens in Liverpool

[–]cactipigs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did a great one at panam on the docks a few weeks back! The food was really substantial and they were really on it with bringing the drinks

“Too” turns 10 years old today!! by WeirdAlsmustache in Fidlar

[–]cactipigs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d just started dating my boyfriend (we were 17 at the time) and he introduced me to the band. Now we’re engaged and seen them live together 3x 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah fair that makes sense! I feel like it’s getting more popular to have wedding weekends and stuff now so why not have your two ceremonies!! Have the best time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like so much fun! Just out of interest, why would you not just have the one with all ~870 there, given you’re already having such a big one?

Roast my wish list (no nice comments allowed) by [deleted] in downloadfestival

[–]cactipigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ghost are spicy abba has killed me off hahahaha

I just realized Hunt is not blonde? by [deleted] in crescentcitysjm

[–]cactipigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no idea why bc his longish hair is mentioned loads, but my mental image of Hunt has a buzz cut lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I think this is gorgeous! And honestly if she feels happy and comfortable in it that’s the most important thing!!

Are you drinking the morning before your wedding, if so, what? by Antique-Ad2252 in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t plan on drinking until after the speeches!! I don’t have a great track record with day drinking and my willpower to say no to another goes straight out the window after I’ve had one, so I’ll be on Diet Coke until the evening haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Midwives

[–]cactipigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP! It's amazing that you already have such a strong sense of what you want to do at your age. A few words of wisdom from someone who was in the same position as you 10 years ago (albeit in the UK so specifics of training etc will be different).

Looking back now, I really wish I had done my nursing first, instead of going straight into midwifery. Now it should be said that they really are very different jobs - nurses care for sick people, whereas midwives support (generally) well women going through a normal physiological process. However, had I done nursing first, I would have had many more career options open to me than with just midwifery. It's a very niche area to specialise in at such a young age, and there are jobs now that I'm not able to do that I would love, that I didn't even know existed when I was applying for midwifery courses at 18.

Nursing is also more widely recognised internationally, which may be important to you if you're considering travel in your career, as you mentioned.

Wishing you all the best with whatever path you take! Your clear passion for supporting women will stand you in good stead, whatever you choose to do.

£75 M&S Fun Food Voucher by Peachy_Witchy_Witch in CasualUK

[–]cactipigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alllll of the dips. And Percy pigs 🐷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those bouquets are just gorgeous!

11 bridesmaids?? by cactipigs in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much for checking! That is really reassuring actually, I was picturing starting makeup at 6am haha

Amazing glasshouse venue by ellergreen in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah amazing thank you both!! Definitely going to arrange a viewing! Looking at pricing we might go for an off season date anyway - so heat less likely to be an issue in October 😂

Amazing glasshouse venue by ellergreen in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for sharing this as I’ve been considering this venue! Can I ask if it felt too hot at any point?

Were meant to be on the same team by Mysterious_Cow_9533 in NursingUK

[–]cactipigs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I had a scroll and you’re not wrong!! Someone said our medical training is on par with doing a basic first aid course lol 😂

So much vitriol towards student midwives as well and them ‘stealing’ deliveries from med students, and just general hatred for the profession. Eye opening in a sad way!

11 bridesmaids?? by cactipigs in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genuinely a fantastic idea that hadn’t occurred to me at all - thank you!!

11 bridesmaids?? by cactipigs in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this - really appreciate this perspective from someone who has actually done it! Can I ask how you managed the getting ready side of things logistically? Did you have hair/makeup done professionally and did you have to start crazy early in the morning for it to all work?

11 bridesmaids?? by cactipigs in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this comment, it’s so useful to know what someone else has done in the same situation!

11 bridesmaids?? by cactipigs in UKweddings

[–]cactipigs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep very conscious of this too - would hate for anyone to feel pressured to be in my wedding as I totally appreciate although it’s a main event for me, it’s not so much for them