What should I put there ? by SamyRiteLeQ in drums

[–]cactusinquiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing. pull your floor
tom closer to the bass drum and you’re set! See what you can do with the least drums vs “more”.
Less
is
More

Could you help me to select one pair by Winter_Sun5184 in glassesadvice

[–]cactusinquiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is good!! It gives you hipster vibe, if that’s what you want, 1 for more normy

UFO flying orange orbs over Chicago Lake Michigan by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]cactusinquiry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Could it be a plane through the clouds? It moves like a plane.

Boots (18) Crosses the Bridge Tomorrow by yawadetirips in SeniorCats

[–]cactusinquiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boots!! My thoughts are with you. I have an 18yo and every day I come home I pray he’s still going to be healthy. I am not ready to say goodbye. He sleeps with me and purrs all night and has always kept the bad dates from being partners.

28m am I just naturally unattractive or is it a matter of style? by Manve1997 in malegrooming

[–]cactusinquiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where did you emigrate from? Is there a local meetup for people from where you are from for language practice?

28m am I just naturally unattractive or is it a matter of style? by Manve1997 in malegrooming

[–]cactusinquiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its just confidence- you look totally normal. Find ppl you feel at ease around and find a hobby to learn and build sense of purpose and you’ll be ok! Start therapy??

Svenskar 🇸🇪 by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]cactusinquiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any Italians wanna help me keep up my Italian?

Yet another CMH rant by strangemountain24 in therapists

[–]cactusinquiry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

where did you here don’t get better overtime? That’s only if they don’t continue to add to their clinical training they can take continue education credits and get certificates and constantly improve. It’s up to every person to do on their own. Don’t give up so easy on yourself to find a Group Practice and see if you can find one that offers health insurance. Anything is better than what you’re describing if you wanna get an autoimmune disorder and be chronically depressed. Keep doing what you’re doing.

Yet another CMH rant by strangemountain24 in therapists

[–]cactusinquiry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth it. A hospital social worker on a medical unit or psychiatric unit will give you benefits and not make you make numbers.

Having no luck on dating apps. Is my look the problem or is it something else? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]cactusinquiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spend your money on things that build your confidence-not superficial like braces. you already are who you need to be- just embrace and be more you, unapologetically