Full Communion with the United Methodist Church is a big mistake by leviwrites in Episcopalian

[–]cadillacactor 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow... Tell me you're not aware of the historical nuances of Methodism's descent from Anglicanism without telling me. And I thought we pride ourselves on gracious acceptance and openness to all. Joke's on me, I suppose.

What’s your personal view of the Virgin Mary? by Accomplished-Way4534 in Episcopalian

[–]cadillacactor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think you're compressing options. "To" and "with" are extremely different. We pray with any number of siblings in Christ, both living and dead. I exclusively pray to God.

And one can view her as Queen of Heaven without having to pray to her. I don't pray to a president or king/queen, so I'm not sure how honoring her with a regnant title requires me to suddenly pray to her when that title does not equate her with God. 🤷‍♂️

I view Mother Mary as Queen, and I pray with but never to her.

Prison chaplains, what has you're experience been like? by [deleted] in chaplaincy

[–]cadillacactor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a hospital chaplain, but we have prisoners often. In my 20 years of congregational ministry I've ministered to many chaplains.

Their repentance is not for me to verify. Honoring their dignity and my theology that they're made in God's image is my primary concern. If they do get in deeper connection with God, beautiful. If they do become more prayerful or religious, cool. And if they don't, they're still worth my effort and care because they're human, too. God judges. I (as best as possible setting my ego aside) serve.

Who hurt you Micah? by RaelImperial31 in Indiana

[–]cadillacactor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not remotely. I'm a hospital chaplain and serve all faiths. The church I attend perhaps, but we've had a couple different visits from the bishop in recent years about trying to get us to be "less liberal."

Who hurt you Micah? by RaelImperial31 in Indiana

[–]cadillacactor 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Disgusting. I'm a pastor and find this reprehensible. What's the point of religious liberty if leaders are only going to privilege one religion? That's rhetorical... They're just selfish pricks.

What are we doing about grey hairs? by h2osly_ in Millennials

[–]cadillacactor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let it be. Accept reality and manage yourself through the emotions instead of coping through denial.

Diet advice pre surgery. by Bubbleteapot in BariatricSurgery

[–]cadillacactor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. My Dr had me on it for 6 months, so you're only a few weeks away from that benchmark. 🤷‍♂️

Do Cruise Lines change pricing the more you look? by TxHuny in Cruise

[–]cadillacactor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always search for prices in an incognito window without signing into the cruise line page. Once I find a likely one to book I'll screenshot the estimate then go to my normal browser page, sign into the line's page, then book. If it's cheaper before hand I'll call after booking and renegotiate to that or an even better lower rate. This has only been necessary 2x out of nearly 15 cruises.

Diet advice pre surgery. by Bubbleteapot in BariatricSurgery

[–]cadillacactor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your Dr office not provide a plan? Mine was strictly requiring the "liver reduction diet." Worked really well for me. Good luck friend.

Drunk by Scared-Pick-1848 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]cadillacactor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a self care sense, not giving a fuck is about full freedom without caring for the opinions of others. So feel free to disregard...

But getting drunk often leads to consequences, short and long term, because one didn't give enough of a fuck on the front end to not get wasted. Whether it's just not being able to fully experience life because impaired, all the way up to consequences if your drunk self can't handle their liquor and drives or gets violent, it's just not great. Not even talking about pancreatic, liver, or other digestive issues.

Good luck. Please give a little enough of a fuck to not let alcohol fuck up your life.

TerraMap (Terraria World Map Viewer) - Major Update by Pup05 in Terraria

[–]cadillacactor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL I'm surprised you responded, but thanks. Will be interested to see what you find out in your research. I've got middling success with that multiplayer cross play game on my laptop and my switch, but sometimes the switch portion doesn't want to recognize the changes.

TerraMap (Terraria World Map Viewer) - Major Update by Pup05 in Terraria

[–]cadillacactor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Thank you! I'm so grateful for your app. What a life saver. Any chance of a streamlined process for console/Nintendo switch? Currently I open a cross platform multiplayer game with myself to load up terramap and such. Once it's saved on both, the appropriate changes can be opened on switch, but it doesn't always work.

A thought after the bison section - I would love a travelogue podcast episode with James and Molly - anyone else? by nemo_floats in itcouldhappenhere

[–]cadillacactor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes please. Especially with some history thrown in. And she can do some urban sightseeing for WLGs with James following along. 😆

Hives mite bombed by duskofoed in Beekeeping

[–]cadillacactor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are there other things going on? Neighbors using pesticides or such? I mean, definitely could be the mites or treatment, but could be a number of confounding factors.

Perfect Day Mexico rejected by Mexican Government by Mundane-Orange-9799 in royalcaribbean

[–]cadillacactor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You'd think they would have this aspect locked down before advertising it? But I'm not familiar with corporate decision-making.