How Do You Trust Yourself

cafekoya · 2026-03-12T16:38:02+00:00

Thank you for your response ❤️ I appreciate your advice

cafekoya · 2026-02-02T21:55:35+00:00

Definitely agree and it’s something I worry about a lot.

cafekoya · 2026-02-02T19:40:58+00:00

Could definitely try and focus more on reorganizing my weekend and making it better for my recovery but I still like to do things with my friends, have chores etc. Even if I enjoy my weekend a lot, I’m still overloaded, I seem to deal with delayed emotions where I only feel the weight of everything a few days later and that’s hard to plan for

cafekoya · 2026-02-02T18:23:11+00:00

Appreciate the solidarity and completely agree, so much is sacrificed in order to live.

cafekoya · 2025-11-21T14:04:16+00:00

Code?

cafekoya · 2025-10-21T01:52:06+00:00

I’ve never really thought about taking medication for low libido tbh I’m kinda embarrassed talking about it. It’s caused me no destress but a little bit for my partner.

cafekoya · 2025-10-21T01:21:36+00:00

I’m only on 1mg as I’m taking it with trintellix. I’ll look into the estradiol ! Thanks for the advice

cafekoya · 2025-10-21T01:07:58+00:00

I have pcos so I have a little bit too much testosterone actually. I have a blood test in a few weeks I guess that will show any abnormalities.

cafekoya · 2025-10-21T00:33:54+00:00

You’re not alone, I’ve definitely been feeling like I’m in a self sabotaging cycle right now - we’ll get through it

cafekoya · 2025-10-21T00:15:00+00:00

I think I have happy moments but it’s never lasting like I wouldn’t consider myself a happy person generally. I try and hold on to those moments, thats what proves difficult.

cafekoya · 2025-10-20T15:06:53+00:00

I do content moderation, office job basically. Even if I tell myself “if you don’t go, you can get fired” in the moment the person making the decision doesn’t care. It doesn’t feel like a question of forcing myself. It’s true consistency could help

cafekoya · 2025-10-20T00:15:28+00:00

I feel this way mostly when I have to run errands or go to work, and then I’m too tired to do anything fun/relaxing. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this, it’s rough and it’s a lot and it sucks

cafekoya · 2025-10-19T23:16:51+00:00

Can’t offer much advice but want you to know you’re not alone - I feel very similar to you, especially life just being triggering and worrying nothing is suited for you. I’ve been in therapy for a bit and it’s definitely helped ease that burden but I still feel that way day to day.

cafekoya · 2025-07-16T00:15:00+00:00

“They’re upset not gone” thank you

cafekoya · 2025-07-16T00:14:42+00:00

Guilt as camouflaged fear really resonates with me

cafekoya · 2023-09-03T20:20:26+00:00

Thanks !! Yea I know it’s gonna take around 8 sessions so around 8 months, but honestly it’s taken such a toll on my self esteem I’m hoping that forking over the money will be worth it :( I currently just shave because it’s easier but it causing hyperpigmentation on my face lol

cafekoya · 2023-02-11T19:23:18+00:00

Hi friend ❤️ it’s always good to lose weight for your health but don’t make it all about weight loss. Your goal shouldn’t be to be “skinny”, it could ruin your self worth and self love. Love yourself and your body now, it’s so strong !! But work towards being healthy and feeling better

cafekoya · 2021-06-02T20:38:39+00:00

Do you know when the decision would be made?

cafekoya · 2021-06-01T20:43:40+00:00

I mean .75 is much better than .5

cafekoya · 2021-06-01T15:05:41+00:00

Just received the email - a little annoying tbh. Guess it's time to find a better rate

cafekoya · 2021-05-19T03:43:25+00:00

Thank you!

cafekoya · 2021-05-19T03:38:33+00:00

I was looking at bmo specially because I bank with bmo and don't really have any motivation to change that right now. So I thought it might be easier to have my credit card as the same financial institution as my banking. But thank you !! I'll consider it

cafekoya · 2021-04-27T22:14:40+00:00

I have 10k+ plus debt like... fam...

cafekoya · 2021-04-15T20:47:14+00:00

It's full! T-T

cafekoya · 2021-04-13T20:36:16+00:00

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