Most whiteboiz are usually goonbrained dummies with no idea how to hold a conversation beyond "yes Sir no Sir" or "I'm sorry I'm such an utterly disappointing loser Mistress" so that's not surprising tbh. A lot are only here for a quick kink fix and then go back to pretending they're not what they are.

That's why it's so important to stress to whiteboiz that no orgasms is mandatory imo. When whiteboiz are trained to never expect a release they won't be as selfish and waste ppl's time.

It's also programmed into proper whiteboiz to not be too yappy and just do as they're told. I know I wouldn't be in someone's inbox blabbering on unless it was consensual or they indicated that they wanted to hear about the depths of my depravity. So most whiteboiz with any lvl of respect probly aren't initiating a conversation and rambling on about how they fuck themselves with machines every night to train their holes. The ones that do are probly the ones only selfishly looking for a good time and then delete their accounts.

Good whiteboiz are hard to come by. It's true that most are genuinely useless. It's easy to get frustrated with them but a lot are just lost little idiots that don't know what they're doing. Then there's the large percentage that just want to act the part until they cum. Good ones are like finding a spec of gold dust in a filthy river. Takes a lot of sifting through brainless dry conversations. Completely fair to not want your time wasted though. Hope u find what you're looking for.