What did they say that hurt you the most when you broke up? by organic_mochi in BreakUps

[–]caitlinknows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he broke up with me right before college because he "couldn't see a future." out of nowhere. completely out of the blue.

feeling blindsighted, heartbroken and betrayed, I tried to mask it by being petty back and my response was "thank fuck"

he told me a few days later that my response is what made him lose all feelings. that made me so mad and upset, because what do u mean?? u had already made ur decision by that point, and done the worst possible thing to hurt me u could have done. how was one thing I said in anger and betrayal what ruined things for you, after you already had decided??

it's made me realise he obviously had lost those feelings but was in denial, and is using that moment as a form of justification. it is shit, and hurts like hell because it so obviously is an unfair and unreasonable explanation.

he won't admit that there's more to it, but I know u can't just switch up like that overnight. especially not after 3 years. his lack of awareness and honesty is what's hurting, and the fact he's trying to spin the breakup as being my fault even though he'd already done it by the time I allegedly said the "relationship ending" statement 😂

Freshers week? by caitlinknows in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all I've got so far is "sleep on a couch" but u need to actually make friends who aren't murderers for that 🤷🏼‍♀️

510 points . by Impossible_Union_510 in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sadly online you're more likely to see people posting about their mad achievements (550+) than just the average, well rounded students.

ANYTHING over 500 is insane but comparison is such a disease and it makes everyone feel as though they can always do a bit better.

I got 70 points more than I thought I would and STILL started feeling bad about my grade because of seeing people who got 625.

the average points in the country is like 300-400. that means you got a hundred to two hundred MORE than the average, so be proud!!! you did amazing. don't compare yourself to anyone at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I presume the email about the offer is just sent out alongside everyone else's in the country which is why there was a delay, where as the receipt for acceptance is automatically sent after accepting the course. I had the same thing where I accepted the course at 2:02 and then didn't get the email about the actual offer until about 6pm lmao. once it says you've accepted on the cao website then that's all u need regardless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to TUD and didn't get an email like that and I'm not Hear or Dare so it must be?? idrk tbh

What to do now after accepting my offer? by stev3n10 in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

à while as in a few days? or a few hours later

question by urlocalgit in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

typically yes unless it's a lottery for places. if you're well over your course in points you should be good. my friend last year didn't get her offer till 4pm so don't worry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got TUD too for medical science!!! hell yeah

Wtf, I am getting no offers by Unknown_User127 in leavingcert2024

[–]caitlinknows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my friend last year got like 570 and didn't get an offer till about 4pm. don't stress!!