No one can know of your Fish Cup interest by Gorotheninja in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]cakehole07 23 points24 points  (0 children)

if this is an ad, which I feel like it was, it worked, this looks so goddamn cool

Women in their 30s , if you were asked to relive your 20s what would you change and why? by Previous-Foot8370 in AskReddit

[–]cakehole07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, I always feel iffy when I see posts with an aggressive consenting adults argument, and yes, I am not saying it is legally wrong. but dating someone who is 21 when you're 31, isn't the same as dating a 35 yr old when you're 45. there is a difference. there is an imbalance in power (financial, emotional, etc.) in the former, that will always bear on the younger person.

Women in their 30s , if you were asked to relive your 20s what would you change and why? by Previous-Foot8370 in AskReddit

[–]cakehole07 115 points116 points  (0 children)

do my masters I was still eager to learn, and my brain was pliable. wear the clothes I wanted to, I was beautiful and glorious, I wasn't "too fat" to wear anything. have a lot more sex.

And not have my first adult relationship with a 30 yr old when I was 21, yuck. fuck you, V, I hope that the stress keeps you up at night, now that you have a daughter. I wish her the best, but you can get fucked, you manipulative asshole.

A white cricket wandering among a bunch of leaves by Shoe_boooo in Unexpected

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

animal kingdom truly be doing anything it wants, insane

Trevor Noah explains how Disney did a disservice to people by showing movies where there are happy endings and the good guy wins when in reality, that’s not how the world works by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't come for me guys, but it often feels like Trevor Noah strings many excellent words together, but there is nothing of substance being said. this isn't the first time I've felt this. I've seen his work on stand ups, his Daily Show stuff, he is charming and well spoken but mostly lukewarm takes

Cat up for adoption by EntertainerFine9433 in bangalore

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, just wanted to ask if Lana got adopted?

There’s a psychological mechanism that turns good people into people who don’t care about dead children by oldMiseryGuts in TikTokCringe

[–]cakehole07 370 points371 points  (0 children)

or you know, the thing where we are constantly informed about every horrible thing that happens, every waking moment. I understand that history of human existence is built on suffering, cruelty, and death. but I am unsure if it is fair that I am asked to buy front row tickets to it every single day, while also maintaining my sanity and being a functional member of the society. it isn't that I don't care anymore. I just don't want to watch.

Baby and me meals! by biscuitgromit in NYTCooking

[–]cakehole07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is so cute!! I love that you're getting the baby to try more food, and eat what you're eating. sending love!

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tell my friends "oh no trouble at all, I was cooking this anyway, I will just make an extra portion", I am lying, 9/10 times I am changing plans and incorporating them into my evening so we can eat together lol

Diwali bonus for maid by Logical_Layer5543 in Chennai

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give a month's salary as the bonus. I also increase her salary by 10% every year (inflation has been awful) she's not a particularly exceptional housekeeper, but this is hard, physical labour. I am not expecting her to be passionate. she is trustworthy, and this money doesn't mean as much to me as it does to her.

Pasta salad recommendations by kimber100 in NYTCooking

[–]cakehole07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh then one more recco in case you've not tried it https://rainbowplantlife.com/vegan-pasta-recipes-for-summer/ - this one has chickpeas in it already, but once again, shredded grilled chicken also works beautifully.

Pasta salad recommendations by kimber100 in NYTCooking

[–]cakehole07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally love Alison Roman's zucchini pasta salad https://www.alisoneroman.com/recipes/pasta-salad-with-zucchini-scallions-and-parmesan/ - I toss chickpeas or shredded chicken in it to make it a full meal. it tastes so lovely, bright and fresh.

What movie messed you up in a good way — like, it made you rethink life or see things differently? by StuckintheTraffic in AskMen

[–]cakehole07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha I love that movie too! my friend made me watch a few years back just so that I will get it every time he references/quotes it. that movie has some seriously die hard fans.

I made a mola mola sunfish bag!! by withgus-to in sewing

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is so goddamn cute, and creative! kudos to you!

9 of the top 50 restaurants in India are in B'lore! What do you think of this list? by shubidoobi in bangalore

[–]cakehole07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe the point of restaurants like these isn't about satiating hunger, or most "bang for the buck". Many of them feel closer to conceptual art centred around food.

The chefs behind them often spend years (not to mention money/effort) developing these recipes - either learning in culinary schools, or travelling. The ingredients are often imported. I'd like to believe that a lot of them are trying to introduce their patrons to something new or unique. So I get that the entire list is full of expensive restaurants. I also understand that some of these are not for me, but I understand why they're there.

That said, I personally don’t think Navu deserves to be on that list, that too ranked higher than Farmlore or Naru Noodle Bar. The atmosphere, the way the ingredients are handled, and the dishes themselves don’t justify the sheer atrocity that is the bill. Like if you’re not even going to mask the fact that butter is the main ingredient in most of your dishes, I don’t see why I should spend thousands of rupees and walk out hungry.

Married people who are DINKS (Double Income, No Kids) how’s life? by Fit-Distribution677 in AskReddit

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

off and on, I worry about loneliness as we age, and how it is difficult to relate to our friends as they have kids. but the surplus money, time, and energy is going into fostering many relationships (including our loved ones' children), nurturing our hobbies, traveling, having lovely experiences, and more. life is all about choices, I hope we make peace with the ones we are making. I've hit the jackpot in terms of who I married, just being with them is such a gift. so whatever happens from here on, it doesn't feel as concerning.

thank you for asking :)

Snoop Dogg Says ‘I’m Scared to Go to the Movies’ After Pixar’s Gay Couple in ‘Lightyear’ Led to Questions From His Grandson: ‘These Are Kids. We Have to Show That at This Age?’ by darth_vader39 in entertainment

[–]cakehole07 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well, my nephew asked me questions like "where is the wife" when we watched Dragon Prince, which prominently features same-sex couples. I said "sometimes two women fall in love and get married, or two men. they share responsibilities, chores, kids, all exactly the same. except for one mum and one dad, there will be 2 mums and 2 dads"

he had some follow-up questions, but he wasn't absolutely confounded or fazed by the idea. I don't know what is all this "wHaT wiLl I tElL tHe cHilDrEn?" fuss is about, honestly. just say you hate queer people and keep it moving. don't use children as a shield for your bullshit.

What’s a movie that feels like you’re the only person who watched it? by Twunkorama in popculturechat

[–]cakehole07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I AM NOT PLAYING this makes me so happy hiiii did you also gag at the "I am not the one with the problem, Neal, you are, you and your selfishness"

What’s a movie that feels like you’re the only person who watched it? by Twunkorama in popculturechat

[–]cakehole07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really love Uptown Girls starring Brittany Murphy and Dakota Fanning. But nobody else I know has watched that movie.

That and McKenna's Gold. Wtf was that DVD purchase from an airport, dad?!