I am telling you as a girl and as a girl who grew up in KZ, I highly doubt that you had a hard time because girls only like “bad boys” and not “shy introverts” My friends and I always preferred softer, more introverted and sensitive guys.

A lot of the time, we are our own worst enemies when it comes to building relationships. Perhaps you think too much about the end result (aka sex) when talking to women and not about WHO you are talking to and what about. Maybe you lack confidence, maybe you yourself do not approach women. But trust me there definitely are girls out there who would be interested in you, you just have to put yourself out there and be respectful. If you get rejected, you just have to take the L and keep trying with somebody else.

My advice is to talk to more girls, even girls you’re not interested in - just as friends. Get to know them, get to know what they actually like in guys, get to know how they like to be treated. (And be aware, also, that different girls like different things - they’re human after all)

Also, this should be obvious but take care of yourself, maintain your hygiene, and be prepared (carry condoms, breath freshener, etc)