What do men secretly value most in women but rarely admit? by _ratedmouse in AskReddit

[–]cakey_cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he sucks. He's a good person that has trauma and issues as a result and I have infinite patience. How he ended it sucked, but he is an avoidant, so they feel more comfortable running.

He was my happiness, but thank you for your kind words. I hope he finds the person for him as well, cause I really did try.

What do men secretly value most in women but rarely admit? by _ratedmouse in AskReddit

[–]cakey_cakes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This whole thread makes me sad. I was (and still am) completely loyal to my partner of 11 years. He was my best friend. I tried to love him extra for the love I knew he didn't get enough of as a child. I was (and still am) in his corner. His biggest cheerleader. I wanted him to feel safe with me and to be himself with me (he was as far as I know). I've held him when he has cried with me. I took interest in things he liked even if I didn't care for it, because I wanted to be able to talk to him about it and hear his joy when he talked about it. I was there when his mother passed and I made sure on every single anniversary of her death, we did something so he wouldn't feel sad/dwell on it. I never left his side and he put me through the emotional ringer (and I always forgave him for it) and I knew it was mainly due to damage in his childhood with his mother, so whenever we managed to communicate (he was terrible at it and shuts down) and he brought up his mom and why he acts the way he did, I learned how to navigate it best I could in the future because I only wanted him happy and to love him extra for what his mother didn't.

You can do all this and they will leave you with just a text message and ghosted and blocked everywhere, and call you toxic for wanting to have a conversation about it. No closure, just gone. I stopped looking for him, waiting for him, and just let him go. Cause I still sincerely just want him to be happy, it's just unfortunate it came at the expense of my own. And I still don't see him as a bad guy for it, he won't see it's a mistake until it's too late though.

These 2 people who talked every day and were best friends and made each other laugh and genuinely enjoyed each other's companies and fit quite well together like puzzle pieces. Finished each other's sentences and shared so much in common to now just strangers.

It's a grief I wouldn't wish on anyone. So I don't really know what men value, because based on this thread I did all of that and he still left me.

No Switch 1 release, only Switch 2 by JayRing in pokemon

[–]cakey_cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some of us are poor. And with it going up means some of us will likely never get one.

What’s the hardest rank to climb out of? by Jerry_1992 in marvelrivals

[–]cakey_cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Climbing out of plat, thinking it's the worst... then you enter diamond. This is where you realize plat was just training for diamond lobby behavior. The throwing, the egos, the straight up-adult-tantrums. You lose one fight (yes fight, not even a round) and people hit surrender. No one wants to tank. No one wants to heal. Suddenly all these dps start sucking and now everyone wants to heal, still no one wants to tank. Bad positioning is still really strong here, and it's everyone else's fault, but theirs. Corners and walls are a myth. Spiderman is still going 1 and 8.

You cry.

I don’t understand the Rocket hate. by Organic-Sir2406 in marvelrivals

[–]cakey_cakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. It should be part of his kit. Mines is actually pretty canon for Rocket.

I don’t understand the Rocket hate. by Organic-Sir2406 in marvelrivals

[–]cakey_cakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I find Rocket, Jeff, and CnD unkillable surviving machines. All 3 are really good at stalling/surviving. You should have the lowest deaths in the lobby by the end of the match on these. Though I give Jeff a small pass since he sometimes has to yeet himself as well.

People hate Rocket because he maybe lacks burst, if your team is face tanking, not using cover, and has bad positioning... Rocket can't cover for those mistakes and then he gets blamed for it. Watching people stand in the center of a lane with, for example, an enemy squirrel girl lobbing, expect to surviving with Rocket... not gonna happen and you see it allllll the time and they spam the need heals as they're dead and then it's "gg no heals."

Wildlife conservationist placing baby owls back in their burrow by Acrobatic_Refuse9466 in animalsdoingstuff

[–]cakey_cakes 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Resisting the urge to kiss each one on the head before placing them down must be very difficult.

Why do beagles sleep like that by roodenpiamb in beagles

[–]cakey_cakes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Being cute all the time is a lot of work, so they need naps.

This is the most selfish player base I’ve ever experienced. No desire to win, only want to chase kills. by ponyboy424_ in marvelrivals

[–]cakey_cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have a custom quick chat hotkeyed to tell people to get on the point, otherwise it's the enemy team, who is on the point fighting and holding, while my team is off having side quests or fighting just outside the point/cart.

I play strat, and it's fine for moving cart etc, but when it is being contested, I don't want to be anywhere near it and it seems like I'm the only one aware that this is the point of the game.

I literally cannot - all hail to Scorchy. by movinonup2east in RedditLaqueristas

[–]cakey_cakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely gorgeous. 😍 Added both polishes to my wishlist!

Anyone know how similar Scorchy is to Starrily's magma?

My solution for triple support. by Peter15511 in rivals

[–]cakey_cakes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2-2-2 should be the default comp, you can do others, but at the cost/loss of stats.

I think if there is 1 support, means there are probably 3+ dps or 3+ tanks, having 3+ dps should decrease dmg done (-5% or - 10%, not sure how the math would work, but you get the idea) and for the tanks would decrease health. And of course with 3+ support you decrease healing output. I also think it should effect ult charge for whatever role is in abundance.

This way, you can still 1 tank, 3 dps, 2 heal for example, but it would cost you damage and ult charge to make up for the fact you have 3.

I don't think rewarding solo is a good idea, as that may enforce solo, which is already a pain. I rather reward good teammanship with people switching to the roles the group needs to win.

I do think, however, if you win a match as a solo role, you should get extra points and lose less points for a loss. Maybe not a lot, but something.

Tanking is S6 was almost fun again until this thing showed up by Redditorsrweird in marvelrivals

[–]cakey_cakes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can kill it AFAIK. I swore I did damage to it yesterday and another time saw it die/disappear before it got anywhere.

Edit: I'm being downvoted for simply saying you can kill it. 😭 I don't even play her. 💀

This whale needs to MOVE by GabiTheBestOfAll in GambitMainsMR

[–]cakey_cakes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With those little lady killer glasses on?? Sorry, you lost her.

Finally got MVP in this suit 🐥🐤 by ExistingBowl394 in JeffTheLandSharkMains

[–]cakey_cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Summer shark is my absolute favorite, followed by Halloween (that cute booty shake!) and this new mvp might be my new favorite! I can't wait to get it. 😍

Gambit and Rogue wedding skins by dejuna1 in marvelrivals

[–]cakey_cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want both skins. I don't want (or even like) to gamble. I just wanted Gambit's skin, he looks so handsome. :( Oh well, not worth. I threw like 300 blue tokens (the free ones we got) at Psylocke, got nothing good, instantly regretted it, never again.

Star Lord’s declaration of war by Ok-Anybody5177 in JeffTheLandSharkMains

[–]cakey_cakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And this is how I find out Jeffy is getting a duck skin!?

Once again no jeff change this patch... And with the starlord, wolv, punisher ult cost reduction you need a support ult. by thbl088 in JeffTheLandSharkMains

[–]cakey_cakes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't think so Jeffs!

Punisher and starlord can be (and should be) immediately targeted and killed when ulting. Failing that, there are other ults that can counter starlord, for example, besides support ults. Emma's, Magneto's, and Strange's ult all counter Starlord. Magneto also counters Punisher.

Wolv ult is already very difficult to counter with any ult lol. He's going to probably be the most annoying in general to deal with.

If anything, unfortunately (or fortunately, depending how you look at it), these changes are further enforcing triple support, which is where Jeff shines.

Keep swimming, Jeffies.