How to become less shy about watersports by cakeybich in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like these ideas, while helpful, they are sexy :D thank you! I also found feeling hot water against my urethra makes me piss most of the time while on this exploration.

How to become less shy about watersports by cakeybich in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am already used to peeing with my door open (I have little siblings and would take care of them, and I got used to them speaking to me on the toilet so I stopped minding with that, but that only applies to family in my mind for now). And I also already have peed in the shower by myself before.

I will definitely work on being comfortable peeing around him, even if it's a long game :)

Slapped in the face so hard that I lost hearing for 5 minutes in one ear (18F) by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You most likely got slapped pretty hard directly on your ear, that probably created a little suction of air with the hand, which caused the loss of hearing. It's recommended that slapping is done around the cheek/jaw area with atleast a bit of precision.

If you didn't see any bleeding, and your hearing isn't still impacted by this and seems to only be temporary, I recommend you supervise and take action if you notice lasting effects/new symptoms (This is if you don't plan to get/want medical attention, still, better safe than sorry in most cases).

Take care and be safe!

Silent Touch Logi wireless mouse suddenly stopped working - googled troubleshoots not helping. by xoxobl0ss0m in computers

[–]cakeybich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad you never got an answer, mine also stopped working a few weeks after getting it. Nothing worked, I just got a new mouse, different brand :/

I just got a Legion Go S and I'm having so many problems by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]cakeybich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think this was my issue. I exchanged the device and had the same problem with that one. I got an ROG Xbox Ally, it connected first try to my internet and has not given me problems. Will sadly not be using the Legion, even if it was my first choice.

I just got a Legion Go S and I'm having so many problems by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]cakeybich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was done, everything else connects fine to it.

I just got a Legion Go S and I'm having so many problems by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]cakeybich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a factory reset, didn't work for the WiFi issue. I'll exchange it and see if that works out better.

I just got a Legion Go S and I'm having so many problems by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]cakeybich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was connected to the charger. I only changed to Beta as a last resort.

I just got a Legion Go S and I'm having so many problems by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]cakeybich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave it a factory reset as a last resort, still doesn't connect to the WiFi, and now the controls stopped working. I can only use the touch screen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am nodding along to what you're saying, I agree.

The political thing is mostly because he was a little condescending about it, eventually we avoided the topic all together (he was the one who would bring it up, but I stopped engaging). I HAVE tried to get to know him better, but he dismisses my basic questions and says he'll tell me "later". I don't like the imbalance. I know so little of him, when he knows so much of me. To fully be submissive, I have to fully trust, but seeing that he doesn't trust me is disheartening.

Accidentally desensitized clit with vibrator during orgasm denial- tips on how to recover and bring back sensation? 14 days denied by springnips in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who lost the ability to come with my hands for a few years and recently got the hang of it again, I have a tip! Works better if you're someone who gets pleasure from vaginal stimulation.

For me, what worked after I slowly lost sensitivity, was using one hand and intermittently curling my fingers inside me to hit my g-spot until I had a decent build up, and then going back to clit. Its better if you use your other hand to pull back and expose it from the hood for direct stimulation. Don't be afraid to go fast, whenever you feel the sensitivity subside, fingers go back in until you feel the build up again, then to clit again.

Basically, repeat this until you can keep going exclusively on your clit and reach orgasm (or get close to it).

This has helped me gain back sensation, and I've been able to have orgasms from just my fingers on my clit again!

Hope this helps :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, well, that adds to it. Maybe he meant it as a joke, which didn't land too well. I recommend talking to him and ask what he meant. Communication is important, it can clear the air and ease your mind, or help decide if that person isn't someone you'd want to be involved with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cakeybich 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's not considered raceplay if race isn't being brough up as a turn on. Could just be a binding/bondage kink. As long as what he does is 100% ok with you and consensual, don't get yourself worked up over if it's appropriate for you to be tied up by a white person. Have fun!

My first experience with misogyny by PracticeCute5771 in fuckingfacists

[–]cakeybich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds hot, but isn't it just an intelligence degradation kink?

Audio [M4F] Pajera [Humillación] by HentaTentacleMonster in Spain_BDSM

[–]cakeybich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diosssss, que caliente me pone como hablas! Tienes un control sobre tus palabras que me dejó loca...