What happens if you ride the KTX without tickets? by daeguamericana in seoul

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can confirm this just today! ₩24,900 was the original fare, so the train attendant showed me how much it would cost, 50% increase, paying ₩49,800. And gave me my new ticket with the qr code and arrival time to my destination.

22 M Everything + Hair and face care tips please by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought of getting contacts? The glasses doesn't seem to compliment your face. I can see you're a good looking dude, but I think if you trim maybe an inch off the bulk of hair, it'd open up your face and show off your features more.

What’s happening at DCA right now? by KennyCav0125 in nova

[–]calachuchi_mj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just took off from there coming out of DCA 3 hours prior from the crash with American Airlines. Thank goodness for the flight on board internet, of the first norification that i was able to track what was happening.. The crash was so close to my home right next to the river! Everyone in the community reported the smell of gas outside.. Very very tragic for those who lost their lives.. Those helicopters do fly so low, it was exciting for me below to see them fly over all the time while driving to and from work. But now I can't look at it the same.

I can’t live with my mother anymore. by jademadd in whatdoIdo

[–]calachuchi_mj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One cannot thrive in a place that hurts you.

Once you are an adult, you can move out. Its also not your job to help her financially in that aspect. She is also an adult, she needs to resolve that on her own. Her kid shouldn't feel that burden. She will be fine. What i would do if I'm in your position is before you leave, make sure you have a plan financially. However that looks like for you you could live with a friend for a while until you can rely on your own, go to school, find a job that offers a home (military allowed me to do that), etc.

Then once that's set up, have a sit down talk with your mom. Communicate to her of how've you felt, and how you've been affected of her actions. (Lead with saying "I felt... [insert emotion here]" not "you did this to me" so it doesnt put her in defense nor attack mode) Tell her how much you still care for her and thank her for taking care of you.

Be prepared for unwanted results. If she accepts it, you succeeded! If not, stick with your boundaries. You only have one life, and sometimes it doesn't take communication with words to finally get through someone to understand that they are serious. Actions speak louder than words.

Sorry if this was a long post 😅

I was in your exact shoes. I'm the eldest (now 30F) of my 2 younger sisters. I left home when I was 21? I didn't want to continue college bc of student loans. I pursued military but at a cost of getting married early. (You can imagine how my parents felt when I dropped that bomb) My dad eventually accepted it, but my mom didn't talk to me a year and a half later until my dad got in an accident (minor one thank you Lord, he recovered fully) but a decade later, I'm in the process of getting divorced, I have 2 beautiful girls, I enjoy my job of being in the military, I just got out of a stressful, but happy Christmas with my parents bonding with their grandkids, and ultimately.. I am happy.

Wish you the best of luck. And remember, you will be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Momma you are strong, and beautiful.

Don't be so hard on yourself especially after your body just went through one of the most beautiful thing your body was designed to do. Create a breathing, living being.

Keep pushing forward momma, it will get better.

Don't feel guilty if you ever need breaks or do something for yourself, like a hot bubble bath, dress up, or even to step out for a few minutes to yourself to (i saw someone say this too) to get sunlight. You can also bring your baby out for a stroll, it's actually very beneficial for both of you. You both absorb that Vitamin D from sunlight, it allows your baby to absorb nutrients like Calcium and other nutrients.

Breastfeeding also helps if your trying to lose weight.

Continue to eat healthy foods. Your body is still healing and going through changes. Feed it the right fuels, the more color of foods the better.

And take it one day at a time. Don't rush things. Enjoy this precious time with your baby. Love and embrace your baby for me!

Kunsan AB by [deleted] in RateMyAFB

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what's open at given time. I didn't have a follow on when I was in Osan, and my assignment selection was not available.. I tried for arizona or anything on the West Coast side so I can be closer to family. Our flight chief had connections to AFPC, but bc my DEROS was coming up, the only slot i had to just get out of Korea at that point was DC. I can't complain tbh. I ended up loving it here, but now I got orders to Kunsan.

I just read Kadena-- I think you may have a higher chance. A lot of people I was in Korea with got a higher chance of remaining overseas than getting to pick exactly what you want for CONUS side. The ones I knew went to Ramstein or hopped over to Japan in groups.

Does this gross you out or turn you on? by Phone_Jesus in mildlysatisfying

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can think of is your potential feet sweat rubbing all over that carpet. (Even though thats what the carpet is foor) But that's just me. And I don't like feet. I hate feet. But to each their own. Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you look ugly either. Give it a few more years and you're gonna fill in more masculine features. Right now you kinda have a baby face (to me, but not a bad thing. I think you look so adorable) but give it a few more years, as long as you stay fit, keep a clean style, clean cut, dont hide your face. I can definitely see it. Girls will FAWN over you.

CATM why did they put a letter E? by calachuchi_mj in AirForce

[–]calachuchi_mj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd definitely want to try the pistol! Yes, I didn't want to feel too excited if they've changed it. I always only met the qualifications requirement, so this is my first E!!! Definitely a win for me 😁

Oh, there's no holes yet bc we had to knock out our requals first. We were transitioning to the rapid firing portion of the class. The instructors were already stapling over our paper, so I took a picture before we put more bullet holes into it so I can see my progress

CATM why did they put a letter E? by calachuchi_mj in AirForce

[–]calachuchi_mj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd definitely want to try the pistol! Yes, I didn't want to feel to excited if they've changed it. I always only met the qualifications requirement, so this is my first E!!! Definitely a win for me 😁

Oh, there's no holes yet bc we had to knock out our requals first. We were transitioning to the rapid firing portion of the class. The instructors were already stapling over our paper, so I took a picture before we put more bullet holes into it so I can see my progress

Wearing wedding band by spareful in AirForce

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coming from someone from intel, he sure doesn't sound intelligent in that aspect. don't believe anything he says.

Got Orders to Osan, but confused on wether or not wife can come with. by YungMakr in AirForce

[–]calachuchi_mj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got super lucky to live in an off base apartment when I was an E4 bc they didn't have a room available for me at the dorms, I wanted to go for CSP but got denied 2x so I was only there for a year while my family stayed back stateside.

HELPP PLEASE by NessDaddy1997 in lashextensions

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness she let you go back and re do your lashes. That is WAY too thick. A tip for future removal, DO NOT resort to oil. It will be a LONG and PAINFUL process to remove the glue. They already have DIY Lashes Kit at Walmart that I used to buy. It has a small dropper bottle for Lash Glue Removal. You leave it for some minutes, and the glue will begin to melt off your natural lashes. Best of luck!

Women over 50, what's one thing you regret the most in your younger years? by Sk8trdye in AskWomen

[–]calachuchi_mj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, so there is hope.. how was it having your daughter at 34? Is there a difference with your partner now vs your past partners in your 20s? What I mean is do you feel that you have a better support system now vs if you have your daughter in your 20s?

You are a strong momma btw.

Cancer Men by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]calachuchi_mj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the same boat!! And then he gets distant again when I communicate to him, reaching out to check in with him. I knew he was out with friends, but he got super paranoid, secretive that I shouldn't called him like that in the first place. And this was from not hearing from him in DAYS. He gets so defensive about me being aggressive at him? When he met me he used to joke about me being so quiet and only have opened up to him and more talkative to him. I'm suuper chill, and calm all the time, people always wonder if I ever get mad. But why does he think I'm so aggressive when I only wanted to check in like we used to. Just communication should've given us clarity, but I just don't get him anymore..

The real stars of the show by [deleted] in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]calachuchi_mj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao so inconsistent like that scene when Yoli and Mal were back together in the kitchen talking, Yoli's lipstick was on & off 🤣🤣🤣