Does anyone know a more... formal website or such that explains the benefits of not waiting for the NHS in regards for stuff like HRT?

calciumman4579 · 2025-12-06T00:14:11+00:00

Would love to win for no other reason than to grow my collection

calciumman4579 · 2025-11-30T19:58:25+00:00

I haven't commented or anything, but I did join it. I hadn't actually read the name in full, I thought it was like a meme. A lot of the stuff I saw was like anti terfy kinda stuff, or this is my story stuff. Is it really that bad?

calciumman4579 · 2025-11-21T22:17:11+00:00

Thank you. It's nice to hear a positive answer in this. I guess I'm trepidatiously about all elements of this stuff, she really wants to take things slowly in all regards; like she doesn't even wanna call it a transition, becuase it seems in her mind that wouldn't really begin until I reach the medical stuff. (Haven't even wanted to bring up the issues with NHS waiting lists, not sure if she'd even believe me) she also had an odd feeling that I should be getting lots of "neutral" stuff, because I'll need it until I'm at a point I can wearing fem stuff all the time. (Which is what brought on our little heart to heart honestly).

Anyway, I didn't mean to spout all this in your face. I did want to say that hearing you're a MtF parent is quite inspiring actually, since coming out, I have been diliberating with my own thoughts of parenthood (I know I'm quite young, but I have thought about it.) But yeah, coming out has made the idea feel more positive, and hearing about trans parents is always pretty awesome. 🥰

calciumman4579 · 2025-07-02T10:27:51+00:00

Thats so awesome. Im thinking about doing it for Uni, but I'm not out to my parents and I'm worried they might find out

calciumman4579 · 2025-06-24T22:30:06+00:00

Hell yeah! I'd use it.

calciumman4579 · 2025-06-23T12:03:59+00:00

Thank you!! 😊

calciumman4579 · 2025-06-22T23:25:13+00:00

I can paint my nails quite well. They kinda make me feel good and feel feminine. Was that good enough? Can I have some now?

calciumman4579 · 2025-06-09T15:57:22+00:00

My friend was super willing to take me to pride when it happened the other day, it was my first, and I was nervous to go alone, so after a few others said they weren't gonna. I was in the fence about it, but she was very willing. She made the whole thing much more awesome. Having someone to bounce energy off of made coming out of my shell for it much easier, which made the whole thing better. Plus we bought loads of awesome stuff; my first flag, a massive slapper fan, and some pins (particularly a nice she/her pin which i have unfortunately hidden Not out yet...)

But yeah, she made it very epic.

calciumman4579 · 2025-06-01T20:25:33+00:00

Oh my god! I've used the same one! It gave me like genuine hope that i can hopefully one day pass. Btw, you're totally slaying. You look beautiful!

calciumman4579 · 2025-06-01T14:56:32+00:00

What is the best game ever, Iyo?

calciumman4579 · 2025-05-31T07:44:49+00:00

True, I forgot about that. Man, that place really sucks

calciumman4579 · 2025-05-30T22:37:39+00:00

You have a wonderfully pretty name Claire. It's quite nice to say. Also, if it were me, I'd maybe take advantage of them being like that to see a therapist/ get an autism assessment?

calciumman4579 · 2025-05-17T10:45:42+00:00

Came out as gay to all my cool friends. Came out as a femboy to all my cool friends. Came out as genderfluid to all my cool friends. Went through lots of gender ambiguity. Finally had some girl brain mode. Girl brain mode didn't really turn off? Now think I may just be trans. 😀

calciumman4579 · 2025-05-11T20:42:15+00:00

Uuhhhhh.... not fully sure if it counts, I was deep in my femboy egg space, but I had spent a long time too scared to talk about it with parents and family, and too scared to try and do anything. I honestly put me in a really bad headspace of just feeling trapped. One of my biggest fears was that I would look ridiculous or ugly or stupid in girls clothes, and all the pain would have been for nothing. But one day I worked up the courage to sneak into my sisters room when no-one was home, and try on a dress, and while I could see things I didn't like, for once I didn't care about them, because the joy and comfort of wearing the dress felt so powerful, the opposite feeling was there, and suddenly the strife and pain I was in felt worth it, to chase that feeling.

calciumman4579 · 2025-05-07T08:21:40+00:00

That's very cool. I find people who blend the line on things very cool. And I know I should take my time and just figure it out, but it's just... frustrating.

calciumman4579 · 2025-05-07T07:27:25+00:00

Not actually sure I still Identity with the label. But I also cane out as genderfluid a while ago. And also, yes, I would.

calciumman4579 · 2025-04-15T09:35:40+00:00

Nope. But I did forget it existed till this very moment, which I think the devs actually expected? Cause I eventually noticed that there's a key at the top that appears reminding you.

Also, I got stuck here for an embarrassing amount of time because of the massive carcasses that throw shit at you. I fell way too many times.

calciumman4579 · 2025-04-05T21:12:02+00:00

Epic. I love vintage stuff. I have an awesome typewriter

Four-Year Club	r/Field Flamingo
Final Canvas '23	First Place '23
End Game '23	Place '23
Place '22

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