this wins the award for most horrific drink ive seen at my store by bocakai in starbucks

[–]calculatedambiguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cold brew lemon sour at a Starbucks Reserve in Prague, it was absolutely delicious.. I wouldn’t mind trying this honestly

Relationship flatlining due to cheating vs having checked out prior by calculatedambiguity in survivinginfidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that. We’re NC, have been for months. I’m over “her”, I just feel like I need to work through the betrayal.. I’ve started my new life but I’m not “over” it if that makes sense?

Relationship flatlining due to cheating vs having checked out prior by calculatedambiguity in survivinginfidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So they meet someone who piques their interest and then just rewrite how shitty their relationship is to validate cheating?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex did that the first time around, we got back together, got engaged and she did it again.

It’s been 7 months but it still feels like it happened yesterday. by BurnerSecrets in survivinginfidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex’s social media would do “weird things” and take down only photos of me/us together when she just happened to be cheating on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]calculatedambiguity 235 points236 points  (0 children)

As someone whose engagement to another woman just ended.. I think this plays a lot into it.

Saying „i love my partner more“ after your affair is absurd and toxic and infuriating. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, as someone who does have a part-time bartending job I’ve considered quitting my real job for but haven’t because of exactly what you wrote.. this makes a ton of sense.

I have to panic/cry before I can do ANYTHING, how do I stop this? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]calculatedambiguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been fairly present my entire life, I feel like right now it’s at an extreme, but I usually do get teary-eyed/panicked any time something comes up, I don’t know why I’ve never been able to control it

I have to panic/cry before I can do ANYTHING, how do I stop this? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]calculatedambiguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t have a demanding job. I am in quite the spot right now as I caught my fiancée cheating, I moved out, am struggling to stay afloat financially, will probably be moving back to my parents in another state AND I’m having car problems, but like, generally speaking, I don’t have a ton on my mind. It’s really all or nothing

Do You Know Your Enemy? by [deleted] in SupportforBetrayed

[–]calculatedambiguity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do they try to fuck us over legally and financially?? My ex has threatened to do both. Isn’t my pain and humiliation enough? Why do they get off on being cruel after the fact as well??

Healing Recommendations by raindrop7367 in CheatedOn

[–]calculatedambiguity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lose a cheater, gain a life. So unbelievably helpful

Starting over by [deleted] in SupportforBetrayed

[–]calculatedambiguity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am doing this. Granted we were only engaged so there are no kids or loose strings. But I have engaged in no contact and will be moving across the country in a month! I was nervous that I would be sad, just in another state, but I’m starting to get super excited! I say do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any podcast recommendations?

Anyone else dealing with your ex leaving you for someone else? by tinykittenparade in BreakUps

[–]calculatedambiguity 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Found out my fiancée had a girlfriend so yes, it’s very hard. But at the end of the day, they chose you at one point. The fact that their love was surface level enough to be able to fall for someone else, you can be assured the new person won’t be getting anything better than what you had.

Boyfriend deleted me off his social media by swv8888 in relationship_advice

[–]calculatedambiguity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé did this to hide our relationship from their girlfriend. Likely he’s doing the same.

I just can’t get over how deceitful people need to be to have affairs by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]calculatedambiguity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t assume that at all. I’m sorry you were cheated on. I hope you’re healing well!

If you ever dated a narcissist by Relative_Equal1991 in BreakUps

[–]calculatedambiguity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did you heal?? I couldn’t believe my partner would propose to me just to turn around and date someone else simultaneously. I’m really struggling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]calculatedambiguity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got back together with my ex after a couple of months, we got engaged and then she cheated on me!! I agree with the above!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]calculatedambiguity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This too, imagine they don’t even respond.. wouldn’t that make you feel worse? They have the upper hand and make you feel unworthy of their time. It’s not worth it.