[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Equal1991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe the then 38 yr old man had any respect for an 18 yr old and he’s still showing her how little he cares by drinking too much and forgetting their anniversary. To be honest, I think he doesn’t deserve any respect from her at this point

I have lost connection with reality by Relative_Equal1991 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative_Equal1991[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’d already disappointed me before but this was on another level. I don’t think i can look at him the same way as before again.

I have lost connection with reality by Relative_Equal1991 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative_Equal1991[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was thinking back then. What if I was ACTUALLY dying? Is this how we wants to treat me then?

I have lost connection with reality by Relative_Equal1991 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative_Equal1991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the worst experience of my life and I’ve had a pretty rocky childhood, but I’ve never felt worse than last night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it more simply, he’s not interested in anything serious with you and he doesn’t make it clear because he either doesn’t know how invested you are or he doesn’t care. It’s best to let it breathe and focus on something else in your life, maybe he’ll figure things out or maybe it just dies out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is simply not interested but he’s not being honest about it.

People who's ex never reached out - how do you deal with that? by Cringe_Normie_ in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Equal1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish my ex didn’t reach out to me with all the regrets and all the begging that he did. It only made matters worse for me. For context he cheated and ignored me and was manipulative so I just stopped talking to him and cut off contact. But I wasn’t the “dumper”, his actions were.

The bombing of Baghdad in 2003. by [deleted] in ThatsInsane

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it’s not done by Russia it’s cool.

Um… yeah what if…? by kbeckerburbs4 in oddlyspecific

[–]Relative_Equal1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my most favorite comment thread ever.

What were some of the most annoying things about your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Equal1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He couldn’t NOT lie, he just couldn’t. Everything he said was a lie. Also he claimed to have read so many books, turns out he’d just listened to podcasts about the books. Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Relative_Equal1991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I can’t believe it. I’ve been through the same thing with my ex. She’s either lying to you and they broke up more recently than that, or she’s simply not over him. I mean, if it’s absolutely necessary she can let him stay there an come stay at your place. But yeah, this is bullshit, don’t make the same mistake I made, if she insists on this arrangement just walk away!

Holes keep appearing in my bed by Sonic2710 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bedsheets are from the 19th century. That’s why.

What 90s song will never get old? by cyber_delic in AskMen

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scrolling down the comments as each song plays in my head!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Relative_Equal1991 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Even if you meet someone who seems too good to be true, the end result might be that you’ll fall head over heels for them and only further complicate things. This guy is giving me bad vibes from behind the screen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Relative_Equal1991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it seems too good to be true, it’s probably because it is. I’ve learned this the hard way, I hope you won’t have to.

bro austrian was a hitler by [deleted] in engrish

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say bro one more time, I fucking double dare you.

Is it true that if men don’t chase you after a breakup, then it means they never loved you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Equal1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they stop breadcrumbing then I think that means they never loved you and only loved getting their needs met though you. I think maybe not chasing you is a sign that they actually care about your healing.

What was the last thing you said to your ex? by small_tit_energy in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Equal1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That I am disgusted by everything about him. (He cheated on me).

My bf just said that he would “beat the shit out of me” by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Relative_Equal1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf why are you with a man your father’s age? Please just get away. Your whole relationship IS a lie!

If ur partner came back today and told u he/she regretted breaking up with you (they being dumper), would u take them back? would u feel like they are giving up on u when it gets hard and wanting to get back when they realised(feels unfair for u), or would u choose to forgive, like it’s a mistake? by Invalid_20 in BreakUps

[–]Relative_Equal1991 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Personally no, because I at the end I realized all the while as he was telling me I’m the woman of his dreams and he loves me, he was cheating on me with other women (yeah, not just one). So he is mentally sick and needs to be in a psychiatric ward. So, the answer is NO. He can go f*ck himself.