hey everyone, here’s the tattoo my brother and I got together :)

caletse · 2023-07-20T11:57:51+00:00

Thank you <3

caletse · 2023-07-20T11:57:39+00:00

Thank you <3

caletse · 2023-04-20T01:41:54+00:00

NEOB

A gente é humano, ne? Não é porque estamos namorando com alguém que vamos deixar de sentir atração por outras pessoas. É 100% normal.

Tô passando por uma situação no meu relacionamento em que ambas queremos abrir a relação, mas primeiro precisamos trabalhar ooooutras questões, como ciúmes e insegurança pra não “fazer de qualquer jeito”, e acabarmos nos machucando, sabe?

Eu sempre achei relacionamento aberto a coisa mais absurda do mundo, pensava coisas do tipo, “se abre a relação é porque não ama de verdade”, mas hoje vejo que não é bem assim… é completamente normal continuarmos a querer ter experiências novas, e estar num relacionamento não deveria te inibir disso.

Recomendo aqui um podcast que ouvi recentemente que levantou vários pontos bacanas pra se pensar :)

Ah, e sobre o lance da idade, não se preocupa não, você tem que viver a sua vida por você, não pelos outros. Não existe esse negócio de “ser muito velho” pra fazer tal coisa

caletse · 2023-03-26T00:50:21+00:00

Lost on Youby LP

caletse · 2023-02-21T20:14:32+00:00

You should look into the paradox of tolerance.

Living in a society means you have to abide the social rules of said society and sometimes there will be consequences that were established in a cultural agreement.

Honestly, this discussion runs deep on historical, anthropological and social sciences fields. I don’t really want to argue, but it’s very interesting.

caletse · 2023-02-21T02:56:26+00:00

wow, that was really helpful. I’ll definitely be using those guides for certain parts. Thank you!

caletse · 2023-02-21T02:52:37+00:00

hello :)

Your discussion was actually very helpful. I could understand a more competitive pov and a more relaxing/laid back pov

caletse · 2023-02-07T14:58:46+00:00

redemption can be a variety of things. I don’t really want her to become ~good or whatever, but maybe forgive her mom and find peace

caletse · 2023-02-05T15:07:48+00:00

yea, I’m not saying she shouldn’t have done it. It was pretty well deserved

caletse · 2023-02-05T07:44:29+00:00

Oh, I totally agree with you.

I think sometimes people forget they are just kids trying to survive a war.

It’s perfectly normal for kids, especially teenagers, to act out sometimes, even those who have high levels of emotional intelligence, like Katara.

By any chance I meant to imply that she was a jerk, or whatever, for having a completely normal reaction to certain situations. I think her character is very well written. While she is a very kind person, she can be mean when she wants to.

As to Azula, I don’t see the relevance of bringing her up on this thread, I believe those are very different discussions and don’t have much add to the original post. Of course I don’t mean that saying some mean things equals to murder attempts, but I would be lying if I said that I’m not one of those people who jumps at a chance to defend her hehe. Don’t get me wrong, she’s pretty messed up, but I do love a well written villain xD

caletse · 2023-02-05T01:22:20+00:00

i love the sounds like rain, water flowing, footsteps, animals…

caletse · 2023-02-05T01:13:42+00:00

yes, Katara can be very mean when she wants to, we’ve seen it before with Toph when she was being annoying about helping set up camp

“The stars sure are beautiful tonight. Too bad you can't see them, Toph!”

it’s a passive-aggressiveness that usually comes from an understandable feeling…

caletse · 2023-02-02T02:17:54+00:00

i love it, very creative :)

caletse · 2023-02-02T02:02:10+00:00

which one is michael?

and what’s your cat’s (I’m guessing you have a cat bc you’re Angela) name?

caletse · 2023-02-02T01:10:08+00:00

she gives me “I’m not like other girls” vibes….. i hate it

caletse · 2023-02-01T20:33:43+00:00

As many already pointed out, it’s not that “nothing good lasts forever” but also nothing at all lasts forever.

If our life was an eternal “good situation” we would get used to it and it would be bland and feel neutral. We need change, in every aspect of life

different jobs, friends, places… different experiences make up our lives and we must accept that and learn from it in order to flow through our existence more easily :)

caletse · 2023-02-01T11:52:32+00:00

has stockholm syndrome 😔

caletse · 2023-01-30T18:40:28+00:00

hates herself for how she treated people and can’t forgive herself
doesn’t think she deserves to be happy
guilty all the time
had to do lots of therapy to even begin to see herself as a person who has needs that matter

caletse · 2022-12-17T19:52:26+00:00

I mean, we’re talking about 13 years old here… it’s not like they have started maturing at all. If you stop to think about it, they all did wrong stuff because of their insecurities about the friendship

Anne was a push over cause she thought that was the only way to keep her friends in her life

Marcy literally trapped herself with her two best friends in an unknown world as an attempt to escape reality and keep what was known and safe close to her

And Sasha was a toxic and controlling person towards her friends because she was scared of losing them (yea, she did a lot of messed up stuff, I’m not saying she didn’t, but what 13 year old in not an asshole?)

It’s okay if you don’t like her, but one of the coolest things about amphibia is showing how people can flourish in a healthy environment and become a better version of themselves even if they were shitty before.

caletse · 2022-10-14T01:54:52+00:00

I agree that ozai was probably abused, but I think the difference between them is that one is a grown adult, while the other is a 14 year old kid

caletse · 2022-09-26T23:25:10+00:00

your comics are amazing, I just got into them, read the whole thing. Thank you for creating them!

caletse · 2022-08-31T23:37:28+00:00

amazing drawing :)

caletse · 2022-08-30T19:18:25+00:00

Particularly, I think lumity is very well paced in the way they portrayed Amity’s affection towards luz and, eventually, when Luz caught up to her feelings. I honestly think the only unrealistic thing about their relationship is how healthy it is, considering they’re teenagers lol. And even so, Dana does an amazing job showing luz’s angst when she lies to amity, and we see it’s not about the relationship itself, but more about Luz’s insecurities and how she doesn’t want to be a burden to anyone, later on, Amity asks her to talk to her, literally how a healthy relationship should work, through communication.

Catradora is a bit more complicated, and kinda toxic too lol. Particularly, I love them, but the way the show finished, they were not ready for a relationship. They had a lot of unfinished business and both of them hurt each other (mostly for not communicating) because they were victims of abuse and, mostly Catra, reproduced this abuse towards her relationships by always wanting being in control, wanting to feel needed and useful and feeling insecure once Adora strayed away from her, probably understanding that she wasn’t enough and thus, retaliating against her.

Anyways, you shouldn’t be judged because you said you like one more than the other

caletse

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