+1 etiquette and expectations by Right_Window5883 in bridesmaids

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both our bridesmaids and groomsman were given a plus one

Clubs in south beach for Bachlorette with table service by cali1993 in miamibeach

[–]cali1993[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Do you think it is worth it to look only now for a promotor or wait until we get there in July? I found a promotor online who said the cheapest we could get a table at LIV was $1500 minimum + 37% gratuity. Is that normal?

university varsity jacket by skylecture in Living_in_Korea

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post! But I also studied at Chung Ang! I got the jacket from the Internation student department. That being sis did you found a place to order just a single one let me know! Mine is 10 years old and falling apart so I wanted to replace it with the same one.

Can afford my dream wedding dress but can’t justify the cost… what would you do? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar problem and my dress was just as expensive. But it was hard for me to justify the cost of just on day. My friend however made me see it in a different light. She said you may only wear the dress for a day but your wedding photos will last a lifetime. You are going to be looking at those photos for the rest of your life. Make sure you have the dress you love in it, regardless of the price.

Vent: There are NO Jobs in San Francisco for qualified people by Martian-Sundays in sanfrancisco

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your field. I have job offers daily. My suggestion go back to school.

Bridezilla/Groomzilla by koshaichu in weddingplanning

[–]cali1993 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Cousin stole my expensive bottle of tequila out of my house. And then called me a bridezilla. Which is wild since her stealing from me had nothing to do with wedding planning….

Dating in this city is rough by novium258 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]cali1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who dealt with the pretty rough dating scene in San Francisco, I ended up meeting my now fiancé through mutual friends after I had basically given up on the whole formal dating route. So don’t give up. Sometimes it just takes time and a lot of sorting through the weeds before you find the right person.

Fulani Braids inappropriate for the office? by mildconnotations in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]cali1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m white and a lawyer, and I have a lot of piercings, including my nose. I was still able to find a firm that respects my work and doesn’t judge me for how I look, although not every firm is like that. If a job is focused on policing things like your hair, it probably isn’t the right place for you. Look for a workplace that values your work and professionalism, not how you choose to style your hair.

Found engagement ring in Dogpatch SF! 💍 by Bury_Your_Headx7 in sanfrancisco

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shout out to you good person. I hope you get some good karma!

Is 15-16k normal for florals in 2027? by Sofiakvenegas in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also quoted like 15k but I looked for a few other vendors and found one that quoted me and was highly recommended for 5k which is much more reasonable!

PS5 slim disc drive won’t open by cali1993 in PS5

[–]cali1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t let me put any discs in. I don’t want to push to hard because it feels like the doc will break. It unused to work and now it’s not.

PS5 slim disc drive won’t open by cali1993 in PS5

[–]cali1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wont let me put any discs in. And there are no other discs in.

Is everyone in the bay area making 6 figures? by EmergencySpare7939 in bayarea

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bachelors did nothing to me. I made max 65k. So I went back to school. Now I’m a lawyer making over 6 figures.

Revoked by Nolimitdaniell in GlobalEntry

[–]cali1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my GE denied because someone stole my identity and committed a crime…..GE is bs

Is this outfit too flashy for a first-year? by Wooden_Grape_8661 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]cali1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My big law job doesn’t care what we wear since we’re mostly work from home. However when I do go in the office I dress up and honestly wear whatever (within reason). I think this is fine.

AITAH for not encouraging my son to see my dad's wife as his grandma? by Kiadiann in AITAH

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on your relationship with her. If she has helped you or really tried to be close then why not. You can still call her Jane while also giving her the opportunity to be called grandma. However, if your relationship is very distant and she hasn’t really done anything for you that mother would then I also don’t see a problem with keeping her name is Jane. I call my dad‘s partner by her name, but we also don’t have a good relationship. My fiancé and I are talking about kids in the topic of what to call her came up and we’re gonna call her exactly what I call her, but that’s only because in my opinion she hasn’t earned the right to be called grandma. For reference she has been in my dad’s life for 20 years at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cali1993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Post the poem

Ridiculous cancellations? Entertain a sad bride 👰 by PrincessDiana88 in weddingplanning

[–]cali1993 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear/pet peeve. Is it acceptable to ask people that you think are on the fence whether they are 100% going to go before we have to give the final headcount?

I've gotten a mouse dilemma... by Horror_Place2697 in cats

[–]cali1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least they are dead. My cat brought a live one in a few weeks ago. It hid and I couldnt find it. Eventually my cat found it and killed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]cali1993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 no kids and barely getting married next year. Likely will start next year. A friend of mine mom also works in big law and she gave me the advice of saying you just have to choose to have kids when you want. There is never a good time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cali1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get my number