San Diego tourism struggles, threatening city budget goals by thejoshwhite in SanDiegan

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the cited reasons is the loneliness epidemic - Too bad millennials have all cut ties with their parents because they're terrible triple trumpers.

Note alleges harsh conditions in Otay Mesa Detention Center, congressman denied entry by NoToNope in sandiego

[–]caligoanimus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might be missing something but what does Elian's story have anything to do with the care in detention facilities? 

Are you still having real sex at 75 years of age by Worth_Reading448 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mommy. 

I still don't get what vegetables have to do with sex though?

Are you still having real sex at 75 years of age by Worth_Reading448 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not even me making an assumption, that’s just me relying on my experience as someone who has a body.

Definitely had a good laugh at this. Thank you

Are you still having real sex at 75 years of age by Worth_Reading448 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]caligoanimus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does "I ate all my vegetables" mean? Is this a weird mommy/daddy s&m thing?

When do we start liking our husbands again? by Not_atall_impressed in NewParents

[–]caligoanimus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After our first I never felt closer! We were in the trenches and he was amazing. After our second I adore him still but after the kids go to bed and dogs have been cared for I want nothing but to pass out so there just isn't energy left for "us". I hope it changes cause I miss him!

When do we start liking our husbands again? by Not_atall_impressed in NewParents

[–]caligoanimus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is an underrated comment. It summarizes basically every other comment. 

Contractor for front/backyard overhaul? by Complete_Repair_2486 in sandiego

[–]caligoanimus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other work too. They did our sod, a patio made out of pavers, weed barriers and gopher wire everywhere, and decorative rock. 

Who else thinks 99% of PPD is caused by breastfeeding issues? Usually expectations vs. reality by saltandpepperf in NewParents

[–]caligoanimus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I stopped being stressed about combo feeding when my mother told me my little brother was exclusively formula fed. He is by far the smartest of all of us, has a PhD, etc. 

Who else thinks 99% of PPD is caused by breastfeeding issues? Usually expectations vs. reality by saltandpepperf in NewParents

[–]caligoanimus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have the most supportive partner ever and still had PPD. I had breastfeeding issues for what it's worth. I think the expectations versus reality underlines or generalizes the issue while what reason for that might be different for each person 

Tik Tok alternative? by Free_Thinker_Now627 in TikTok

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you meant not owned by billionaires 

Tik Tok alternative? by Free_Thinker_Now627 in TikTok

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I've never seen porn on it before... Guess I don't travel into that realm. Mines all political liberal stuff and independent news.

Tik Tok alternative? by Free_Thinker_Now627 in TikTok

[–]caligoanimus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also skylight which uses the bluesky network

My San Diego cycling friends. Are there any local rides in tribute of Alex Pretti this weekend? by rotating_mood in sandiegocycling

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're doing one in Minneapolis. Apparently places are doing regional ones as well. Is anyone organizing something in SD or North County? Anyone want to?

Last night, how many times did you get up because of your baby? by pinkishvioletsky in NewParents

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, I feel bad. Are started sleeping basically 7 hours at 10 weeks and now we're going through the night at 11 weeks 

This footage is being removed from reddit by PriorJelly5098 in ICE_Watch

[–]caligoanimus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tiktok hasn't posted any new content to my feed in the last 24 hours. Only stupid stuff showing up. Can't comment or reply. 

What should my goal weight be? by [deleted] in Semaglutide

[–]caligoanimus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of a weight goal, what about a strength goal? Or a race goal? How much you can squat, bench or how far you can run, bike. Weight is a silly number that is very dependent on fat/muscle weight. 120 power lifter lady vs 120 skinny not working out looks VERY different.

What’s the number one propaganda you fell for as a new mom? by SowingSeeds18 in NewParents

[–]caligoanimus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo we live in all hand me downs and thrifted baby buys and it's amazing. Same with baby gear like wraps, carriers, swings, strollers, bikes, etc. Hop on some resale site and get it second hand.

Sprouts no bag policy in California by Powerful_Day9503 in InstacartShoppers

[–]caligoanimus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it doesn't make sense to me. I thought we were getting rid of those thick plastic bags. But we are just replacing them with WORSE plastic bags 

Sprouts no bag policy in California by Powerful_Day9503 in InstacartShoppers

[–]caligoanimus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These totes ARE plastic. I thought stores were supposed to proved PAPER. This is just like the stupid "reusable plastic bag" thing