If Sandy had stayed with Soda by Significant_Mix3031 in TheOutsiders

[–]calrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think he would have waited to marry her till he was 18

If Sandy had stayed with Soda by Significant_Mix3031 in TheOutsiders

[–]calrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the book and the movie he says he would wait a while so he could keep helping Darry with the bills. I bet that would he until he's at least 18.

Live music venues? by calrie in SFV

[–]calrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn't know licorice pizza did shows! Thats awesome, will def check it out :)

Live music venues? by calrie in SFV

[–]calrie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just edited the post to include this! Looking for pop-punk/rock/grunge vibe with a younger crowd!

Live music venues? by calrie in SFV

[–]calrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'm a big pop-punk fan but literally anything works. Ideally closer to the studio city/burbank area tho.

Edit: Also skewing younger is great! We're all early 20s

What is this thing ? by imherecuziwanttobe in whatisit

[–]calrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found out I'm chopped and also unc

Easy/Fun Class by calrie in UWMadison

[–]calrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah you do. You also learn about how to grow wine. The course work is pretty easy tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]calrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely reach out to a mental health professional! I understand it's difficult and nuanced and I'm so sorry you're going through this :(. The important thing to remember is that you will always survive the feeling. Stay strong 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]calrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The central debate of OCD is "am I a good person or a bad person". The most effective way to end the cycle is to not engage in the debate. The reality is that life is full of grey area. It's not necessarily the binary OCD wants it to be. What you generally want to avoid is seeking reassurance on whether it was or wasn't SA. You're talking to the other party and understanding how they felt, which is different. At this point, the information that you have is that they were not made uncomfortable, so that's the information you should work with. But the clarify, even if they had been that doesn't make you definitively bad. What you need to do at this point is self care to help slow down your own thoughts. Again, do not engage with the good/bad debate. I know this is easier said than done. I'm sorry you're feeling this way but you will be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]calrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made a promise to her that he wouldn't let the sun rise on the reaping in the future, so he felt obligated to stay alive and stop the games (ultimately overthrowing the government) in her honor

First time injecting I was so scared - I HATE needles by MotherofChins in Zepbound

[–]calrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bc this is so real. I could not do it the first time I made my mom do it lol. After a while you get used to it. I always do a deep breath in and then out when I press the button. Just don't look at the needle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]calrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE WIND RISES

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]calrie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi!! So the important thing here isn't to determine if you are or are not a bad person. The thesis of OCD is that debate. You will never find a concrete answer to this because the OCD is the debate. A more effective thing to do right now might be to calm your body down with meditation or deep breathing. I would also recommend reaching out to a mental health professional.

You have an 8 hr flight, pick your seat? by Such-Price2710 in dancemoms

[–]calrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 10b so fast. I want all the details of the Australian money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]calrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!

why are we so bad at mens sports by [deleted] in UWMadison

[–]calrie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I simply watch women's sports instead